Topic It's Bikini Time Gentlemen.
08 May 2013 08:56
Why, yes it is!
Topic new girlfriend, the sex addict...?
08 May 2013 08:08
Sexual addiction is best described as a progressive intimacy disorder characterized by compulsive sexual thoughts and acts. Like all addictions, its negative impact on the addict and on family members increases as the disorder progresses. Over time, the addict usually has to intensify the addictive behavior to achieve the same results.
For some sex addicts, behavior does not progress beyond compulsive masturbation or the extensive use of pornography or phone or computer sex services. For others, addiction can involve illegal activities such as exhibitionism, voyeurism, obscene phone calls, child molestation or rape.
Goddess, I take it this is intended as a hypothetical question. So, hypothetically, here's how I'd react.
First, I'd ask what elements of the definition characterize her "addiction?"
Perhaps someone in her immediate family is an accusatory, scare-tactic type who's tagged her with a frightening, but totally unjustified label.
Then again, maybe it's a real problem and she's reaching out for help. In that case, I'd want her to see a qualified professional as soon as possible.
Or perhaps she's just yanking my chain? If I really loved her, I'd try to understand why.
Aren't relationships wonderful?
Topic 80% hard ons normal?
08 May 2013 07:56
Glad you found a work around! Sounds like a case of performance anxiety, and being buzzed reduces it.
One other explanation, he's been jerking off too much while reading Lush. I'm serious. If he's of a certain age... say past his mid-20s, this COULD be hurting his performance. Just saying.
Topic Stopping yourself from cumming
08 May 2013 07:50
he can be a Gnat's Widget from eruption
Is this some kind of clinical expression?
Seriously, in my misspent youth (pun intended) I'd do the same thing: Hold back until my partner had orgasmed, then I'd let it fly.
Topic Being insensitive...
08 May 2013 07:46
she was trying so hard but she couldn't keep up and she just couldn't keep up and eventually collapsed and couldnt go on.
Seriously, Dude, I've never heard this mentioned as a problem before. Love to know what the Ladies have to say.
Topic Tit Fucking
08 May 2013 07:42
Hey, Annie. Thanks for your POV.
It's something I love. I've known a few woman who are totally into it -- and I've continued until I came. More typically, it's just one more appetizer on the menu.
Topic Why do guys like lesbians??
08 May 2013 07:33
What more needs to be said? :)
Additional hot girls increase the 'sexy' level exponentially.
So true. But IMO there's a profound difference between two committed lesbians and women who are merely having a bi-sexual fling. If I'm aware of that distinction, the latter situation is much more arousing for me than the former.
Topic Guys your feelings on pubic hair on women
08 May 2013 07:29
What makes her happy, makes me happy. That said, I've gotta admit that women in their late teens and twenties look incredibly hot to me when they are shaved. Not that I see many these days.
Topic Why do men cheat?
08 May 2013 07:25
In biological terms, the male who impregnates the most females wins. He ensures the continuation of his species as well as his own DNA. Me thinks this is something that's hardwired in the male of most mammals -- perhaps even most species.
Topic A question for the older gentlemen.
08 May 2013 07:13
Frankly, it doesn't happen all that often.
When it does--usually at a game or in a pub--I'm always flattered in direct proportion to how hot and flirtatious she is. No, I'm not suspicious, although my friends sometimes bust my chops saying "she's just looking for free drinks." Hell, if a sexy young thing is willing to flirt with me, I'll buy her Veuve Cliquot by the bottle.
But, Euto, your question does bring to mind one of the strangest pickup situations I ever encountered. After work one day, I took a seat at a bar a couple one chair down from an attractive and much younger woman. She was reading the newspaper, which spread open between us and pointed to a full-page mattress advert. Then she looked into my eyes and asked, "Can you help me pick out some bedroom furniture?" Too bad I was meeting my girlfriend in about 10 minutes.
Topic Guys only
08 May 2013 06:52
Never had the desire. But then, again, I never say "never."
Topic Lush Matching Photo Game:
06 May 2013 15:10
a heart-shaped pillow... if only I could lay my head down there ::sigh::
Topic How do you feel better after a bad day?
06 May 2013 15:02
A tall glass of pinot grigio... then another... and another... and another... and another
Or, I could help out Nichole with her candles and shower.
Topic How physically aroused do you get when writing?
06 May 2013 14:57
By the way, can someone tell me if this site is always broken. I can't even seem to click on another member's profile without it telling me that there's a problem and to go back and try again. Wondering if anyone out there is interested in a little afternoon chat/fun
The site's had a lot of problems lately. Don't think it's typical, however.
Topic phone sex
30 Apr 2013 10:26
E.T. phoned home
Topic How physically aroused do you get when writing?
29 Apr 2013 18:08
As with Katie, there's an autobiographical element to my stories.
My pieces aren't completely factual accounts, but they are aways based on people I've known and sexual encounters that I've experienced. As a result, the preliminary stages of working out the plot and characters, even if it's for a fantasy, are almost always profoundly arousing.
The actual writing, however, is typically more laborious than erotic. Sometimes in the third or fourth draft I might find my attention wandering... But usually it's not until weeks or months later when, in the re-reading, I find myself caught up in the moment and discover my fingers finding their way into my briefs.
Topic Guys perspective?
29 Apr 2013 15:10
I've always had a profound and perhaps irrational attraction to small breasts -- especially when they are accompanied by delicate, puffy nips.
In my experience, there's often a correlation between a shallow and insecure personality and augmented boobs.
Suppose I'd be in favor of a lift, though, when the time comes.
Topic Be Careful What You Wish For.........
22 Feb 2010 09:45
Granted. But you'll find the reason it's so cold is because your hot water heater needs replacing.
I wish for a submissive 19-year old virgin with the smoldering good looks of a young Penelope Cruz.
Topic Orgasm through mental stimulation only - no hands/toys
21 Feb 2010 11:59
The spontaneous orgasm during a high school exam that you describe happened to me--but just once. I was in the middle of a final exam when I looked up and misread the clock, thinking I had just 10 minutes to go instead of 1 hour and 10 minutes.
A wave of emotion -- mostly fear, I suppose -- shot through me and almost immediately I felt myself beginning to ejaculate. I remember it was so unexpected--and so pleasant--that I just closed my eyes and went with it.
When the orgasm was over, my briefs were extremely moist and sticky--but I also had regained my composure, and quickly realized my error, and went on to finish the exam.
The quality of that orgasm -- perhaps because it happened without being fully erect -- was different from any other that I've experienced. Each pulse was like a mild (and immensely pleasant) electric shock coursing through my whole body.
Thanks for reminding me!