First time is nice for me but most questions to me are in the incest mode even as its not allowed in open discussion. many straight stories are very well done.

seldom for me

30 yrs for me and we still get along fine when we want to relax

One time had great oral sex on the sofa after hours, then more in an empty office, forgot about the uncoverd windows, hope they loved the sight.
In the parking lot one winter day the snow was still on the windows that was fun

Cyber? Done it a few times to pass the time . Now and then find someone who has a good mind and can put ideas into words. Some have even shared a few great pictures to add to the moment.
Most who want to cyber with me are not very good at getting the mental concept down so its boring. Always looking for the one or two to chat with and see if any magic ideas come up.

Started to do it when in my studio after a good art session, would sit out on the deck overlooking the woods and savor the times.