I haven't trawled through all the replies as I really should be sleeping but I just wanted to chip in... Has it ever occurred to you that maybe your friend's wives are just sick and tired of disappointing sex? A lot of guys seem to think that doing the same thing every time is good- but after twenty years of marriage you might wanna think again. Or maybe he's always been a shit shag but she puts up with it because she loves him but that means she doesn't want to have him every night? Or maybe they like different things in bed? There are a million and one reasons, those are just my opinions because the only times I've not been keen on getting some is when my other half is crap in the sack.

Same age gap between my parents and they are coming up to their 20th anniversary :)

Yay. Nice to know it works out in the long term too! :)

I sometimes masturbate after sex... My boyfriend is incredible in the sack and there are times when he has made me cum a dozen times in a session and then I want to play with myself afterwards. For me, it's not because I'm not satisfied or anything else, it's just because when I make myself cum the sensations are different to when he makes me cum. Sometimes I crave the sensations I give myself, especially if he has got me really turned on. Also, while I'm using one hand on my clit and one for the dildo, he can use his hands on my breasts and kiss me as well- this is not a situation where anyone has to lose out. I like to involve him- after all, he got me to the stage where I NEED to make myself cum so that I can get to sleep and sometimes he gets so turned on watching me masturbate and helping me cum that we end up having sex again which is always welcome.

Maybe your wife is worried that you will take offence? You know, if she thinks you're gonna be all 'Oh you're just masturbating because I'm not good enough, I bet I don't even make you cum and you're just faking it' then she isn't going to tell you or ask you to help her. Talk to her about it, tell her that you know she does it, that sometimes you're not sleeping and that it turns you on and you want to help her... Alternatively, wait until she does it again and then just join in, roll over, pay attention to her, tell her how sexy she looks, and join in!

I love being bitten, it certainly appeals to the masochist in me. I particularly enjoy having my neck, shoulders/ collar bone and breasts bitten... the longer we go and the more aroused I become the harder I want biting. Also, I like when he leaves marks. Lots and lots of marks, preferably below the neckline where they can be covered and I don't look like a hussy :D

My relationship is the opposite way round, I am 23 and my boyfriend is 37. A 14 year age gap would be too much for some people but it works for us and that's what matters.

Do you feel like it's a problem? Does the way that people look at you when you're together bother you? Are you apprehensive/ embarrassed/ reluctant to introduce him to your friends and family?

I don't think you can say 'x amount of years age difference would be too much'- everyone is different, you've just gotta go by what's right for you. If you're enjoying the relationship then have fun and screw what everyone else thinks.

I was anti fisting because I just didn't see the appeal until a couple of months ago when I read a story on here which showed it in a whole new light... I wanted to try, I told me daddy and we're working on it. We just need to be able to make it past the chunky thumb knuckle and we'll be there!

Reading this has made me feel so much better! I squirt, massive amounts, I end up wet from waist to mid-thigh and it drenches my bed through and it really embarrasses me as I've only recently discovered I can do it so it's nice to know that most men aren't grossed out by it. Yay :)

Yeah, I would. The select few who I have spoken to for a long time and are genuinely lovely people who I confide in, trust explicitly and cherish would certainly be people who I would want to meet up with.

I much prefer it to being woken up by some damned alarm! Equally, I like to wake the man I may be with up that way as well. It's a great start to the day.

I wrote you a poem once It talked of what had gone and what was to come Of all the things I didn't know about you And of all the question I wanted answering That Saturday when I woke up It had gone My window was open I saw my hopes I saw my memories I saw our past I saw all those things that didn't last As they slowly drifted down Riding the wind on that piece of paper ...

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