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So where has the cheating occurred?By your own admission - you pushed her into a mutually willing M/F/M sexual interlude - with a known acquaintance. You were present during this sexual encounter.Are you calling this - cheating?Just because you think you caught her trying to set up a rendezvous, which she hasn't denied - but claims that nothing occurred when they met up...Does not mean that you caught her cheating on you.It really just means that your own insecurities are fucking with your head. You are suspecting and it's eating you up.Remember - you instigated this entire ordeal, which your wife apparently was agreeable to pursuing...and maybe even breaking the ground rules to pursue again - without you being present.You don't really divulge how long you two have known each other, but I'd tend to give someone I'd known over 3 years, a major benefit of any doubt of her veracity. But that's just me.You have to know - your wife or partner and have discussed all the parameters involved. To do so otherwise results in the jacked up feelings you are experiencing now. Your alternative now is to stay with her and trust her... or what, divorce her and deal with all that shit too. Ok. Yes my insecurities are fucking with my head and being suspicious has been eating me up, of that I do not deny one bit. However I did not "push" her into the mmf. Believe it or not she brought it up. In hindsight made me wonder if things may have been happening before I was brought in.(yes insecurity) Sorry not previously listed one "ground rule" was I was to know about any texts from him. No I was not looking for transcripts or asking to read them, I wanted to be aware. I was very certain she was hiding texts but I wanted to believe her and with no proof (since it was deleted) I kept giving her the benefit of the doubt. So to me breaking of the rules is cheating, her telling me when I confronted her about the missing texts that she got rid of them since she "knew it would make me mad" to me proved this was a willing intended deception. We have been married 14 yrs, 12 at the time this happened. My wife was the one who set up when we were meeting etc. I had told her to let him know of the rules. I had found out "after" all this that she did not tell him of all the rules, just the rules for during.
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Thank you all for the responses. It has been two and a half years, I still don't fully trust her. I hope that this will change, I keep waiting for her to try to do something, anything to make me able to believe and trust her. But all I see and hear from her is I should be over this by now.
Yes, we already knew him. As far as the who suggested. One day the wife asked me " know what I've been thinking about" and I very jokingly said swapping. And surprisingly she said she was game. I was very surprised. She brought up a couple we knew "J" & "T". Both our age kids etc. I found "T" very attractive. My wife brought it up to "J". They had tried before but the guy had too much to drink and could not get it up so "T" did not want to try again. I kind of got guilt tripped by my wife into the mmf.
Long story made short... the wife and I had a mmf. Before hand the ground rules were set up that I had to be present/aware if at any time after they were going get together. And I was to be told of any messages, texts, or calls. I later find out my wife has deleted many texts and set up a rendezvous with him while I was out of town. "She forgot to delete a message to one of her girlfriends" she said that the talked about doing it but didn't. And says that they never did it when I wasn't there... how can I believe her. It has been 2 years now and I still don't completely trust her... Can I really ever trust her again? She says that she is different now and will never risk "us" again, but is still friends with him even though I wanted her to break all contact when I found out. Am I asking to be hurt again?
I have pulled my mother-in-law and sister-in-law's panties out of the hamper and smelled them. Mother-in-law's smelled alot like my wife's. Sister-in-law' s had their own unique aroma
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