Forum posts made by lilgirl1414

Topic Lush Matching Photo Game:
Posted 31 Jul 2014 16:16
pearl necklace..... feel free to use either kind;)

Topic Fifty shades of Grey
Posted 28 Jul 2014 15:29

It's the shittiest book around. I can't be doing with heroines who don't have any common sense! The whole series is unrealistic and I absolutely hate it. I only dabble in bondage (although it can get pretty hardcore), but my partner and I have a Dom/sub relationship on occasion (ie, when we're in the mood) and if he ever "spanked" me to the point where I cried the way she does in the book, I'd leave him, because that's abuse. There's no discussion about limits, there's no fucking respect in that relationship.

It really pisses me off that women think that's a) a healthy relationship and b) a healthy D/s relationship. He's still a stroppy douchenozzle by the end, and she has no spine. cussing

I wouldn't exactly call 'spanking to the point of tears' abuse...if the sub enjoys that, it's different. I've been spanked to tears before, it wasn't abuse.
However in the book's case, then yes I'm with you that it was pretty much abuse, since she was so inexperienced and he went too far too soon.
They do discuss limits in the book, but since she has zilch experience there are some things that she's open to that he should reeeeeally be careful about and not take her words at face value. That's a Dom's responsibility, the well being of his sub.

Topic Fifty shades of Grey
Posted 28 Jul 2014 15:25

Just because the wife likes 50 Shades, don't assume she's an expert BDSMer lol, or truly into it. Many many women who have read these books didn't even know what a Dom was until said book(s) I'm sure. Reading it is a big difference than actually doing it. And some of these women/couples I predict will claim to be kinksters just cause they occasionally spank their parents ass during doggy position/have it down to them, or used handcuffs twice in their life lol.
It's like reading Harry Potter books and all of a sudden claiming to be into sorcery. It's the 'bdsm for dummies' version in my view.
Now did I read the books? Yes I did...I was mildly entertained, sure...a big part of wanting to read it was to see if the author actually knew what she was talking about. A little...but a lot was outta whack. She claims herself all her research consisted of were google searches. Will I go see the movie? Yeah probably lol, curious cat I am.
Anyways that's my view..

Topic Lush Matching Photo Game:
Posted 27 Jul 2014 17:39

exotic animal

Topic Lush Matching Photo Game:
Posted 11 Jul 2014 19:50

belly button piercing

Topic What's Your Current Mood.
Posted 11 Jul 2014 19:42


Topic Ladies, have you ever had a sugar daddy before?
Posted 10 Jul 2014 10:12

No but I'd love one LOL

Topic Talking Dirty?
Posted 10 Jul 2014 10:11

Let's put it this way...I'd feel super awkward if everything was silent or there were just moans (wordless) lol. I'm so used to talking dirty with him and to him, it's second nature. I understand in the beginning of a sexual relationship, people may feel shy or awkward, etc. But in an established relationship...if you feel super awkward about letting go and having that kinda fun, maybe you shouldn't be with that person lol.

Topic Girls, do you flirt with other girls?
Posted 10 Jul 2014 10:06

If I'm attracted to them and there's a sense they may be bi or flirt back, then hell yes

Topic Do you like getting your butt squeezed or spanked by your partner?
Posted 05 Jul 2014 10:12

Hell yes!! Both...

Topic If you could have any Super Power what would it be.
Posted 05 Jul 2014 10:06

If I could teleport myself to different places (like other end of the country) and go back and forth, damn that would be awesome!
Next best thing, invisibility

Topic Post the title most recent song that you listened to
Posted 05 Jul 2014 10:05

Apple Pie, by Crystal Precious //

very fun and sexy vid/song love10

Topic Holding his cock
Posted 05 Jul 2014 09:27

Yup many times, we're into the golden shower thing once in a while, so no big deal. it's cool feeling the little pulses in his cock while he's trying to pee lol

Topic Sexy heels
Posted 04 Jul 2014 20:02

Topic threesome : which one you prefer FFM/FMM/FFF/MMM ?
Posted 04 Jul 2014 15:19

Love the FFM (only one I've done though). Would love FFF...possibly FMM.

Topic puzzles me about porn scenes
Posted 02 Jul 2014 16:11

A bit like all those ones where the girl just happens to have gotten into a taxi only to discover much later that she has no cash! How will she pay the fare......?

Lol yup...oh how up I guess

Topic Lush Matching Photo Game:
Posted 01 Jul 2014 20:37

glass table

Topic puzzles me about porn scenes
Posted 01 Jul 2014 17:08

I'd like to add one 'haha yeah right wtf' thing in porn (though I could list many lol): 'reality' porn where guys go around in a van, see a 'random' hot girl, pull over and tell her she's hot..."wanna make a few bucks? just hop in and suck and fuck some cock baby" *girl all excited* "ok!" yeeeah real reality porn there lol

Topic Girls, how was your first blowjob experice?
Posted 01 Jul 2014 09:12

It was pretty good actually; he guided me right and I enjoyed his dick in my mouth. I remember him telling me to be careful with my teeth lol.

Topic Watching your man with another woman?
Posted 01 Jul 2014 09:10

This is a love/hate thing with me lol. It can really depend on my mood, confidence level that day, the girl, how he acts, etc. If I'm really horny beforehand I can really get into it...that's the key I think, with me anyway, get yourself horny before you're all in the same room together.
I have to say, certain things can make me jealous the more intimate things; if they kiss sensually, softly, slowly, etc, neck kissing, lovingly caressing, etc. I'd want that kinda stuff saved for just me. I'd also prefer to be more domme with her; as in me and him top her and have her as the bottom. His preference is the other way lol, me being the bottom, but oh well. I guess I feel more in control that way, which I'd like to feel if there's another woman with him.

Topic What would you do if...
Posted 01 Jul 2014 08:54

If we're talking about 100% reality here...then no. I wouldn't be with a guy who would pimp me out like that; especially if he didn't even ask haha.
I also wouldn't do it if we're talking about a friend of his...too close to home. Same with things like threesomes; much prefer a stranger who we'll never see again, no entanglements or drama, and no last names even (or less chance of it anyway). Anyway, getting off topic here...
If it's more of a fantasy thing that we both talk about well in advance and are sure of each others feelings on topic, etc etc...then maybe. Meaning, a planned out occasion, not something out of nowhere or from desperation to pay off a real debt.
The whole 'fucking your guy's (whether that be a bf, hubby, or Dom) friend' scenario is a curious turn on; mainly the fantasy. If the whole thing was set up with a stranger, then possibly...but an actual friend of his in reality, nah too much of a gamble. Obviously I'd want my guy/Dom either in the room (if he was into watching) or at least nearby for safety reasons. That's my take anyway...

Topic Lush Matching Photo Game:
Posted 30 Jun 2014 15:40


Topic Lush Matching Photo Game:
Posted 27 Jun 2014 06:02

old school roller skates

Topic Age Gaps! (Big or small)
Posted 25 Jun 2014 17:07

Of course it depends on the person...but generally, I find age gaps a big turn Dom is 21 years older than me (but looks 10-15 years younger than what he is lol)...but still very hot, knowing he looks so good for his age and all his experience..yum

Topic 69 VS one at a time
Posted 25 Jun 2014 17:06

69 is great for foreplay...but if we're talking about cumming...sorry, can't do both at the same time lol

Topic Remembering where you were on 9-11-01.
Posted 25 Jun 2014 17:05

12th the library at lunch, there was a tv in the corner of the room and I remember seeing the distant image of the tower with smoke billowing out of it...about a dozen people in the room...staring, motionless, speechless

Topic Introverts: What's your biggest annoyance?
Posted 25 Jun 2014 09:01

I so agree on the annoyance of people being 'so' extroverted that they simply want to be heard and seen. Sometimes when you put aside the fact that they're always talking, and take a moment to go over the words they're actually's just pure crap lol. And the thought of "what is this actually contributing to the conversation at hand?" As the saying goes...too many people listen not to understand, but listen to reply. I think this is the case for those people; introverts tend to listen more to understand, but when the super-extroverts shut up long enough for someone else to talk lol, they usually only do so so they can instantly talk back with a response, not necessarily an understanding.

Topic Lush Matching Photo Game:
Posted 25 Jun 2014 08:56

top tied under breasts

Topic Introverts: What's your biggest annoyance?
Posted 24 Jun 2014 19:20

Thank you!! You have worded this waaay better than I did lol. To a T! Bingo! Every word you just wrote are my feelings as well.

I know exactly what you mean.

I hate it when people say, "Hey, why are you so quiet?"

"Why are you so shy?"

How the hell do I respond to this... Embarassed To me that's like asking, "Why are you so dull and uninteresting?"

Or people that tell you to be outgoing and to just start taking control like its so easy to overcome the way you've been you're entire life.

I don't feel like being condemned or labeled weird for like to hold my tongue rather than belt out every thought that comes to my mind.

Topic Introverts: What's your biggest annoyance?
Posted 24 Jun 2014 18:39

This post is partly for me to rant and express myself, and part curiosity to know what others think.
So for the introverts out there...what's your biggest annoyance? I definitely consider myself more introverted than extroverted. I'm not one to talk and talk, especially if it's not within a small group of friends in an intimate setting. I could go on and on about it all, but I'll just list a few things that 'grind my gears' when it comes to being an introvert (at least in my case)

- when people look at you and say/ask (usually in front of others, which is worse) "Why are you so quiet? What's wrong with ya?" Nothing's wrong with me, thank you very much. I just don't have anything to contribute (or want to contribute) to your random, meaningless conversation or drivel; which they usually are. If it's a topic that has depth, I could write a book with my words/opinions.

- when people perceive you as a bitch because you're quiet or if you're not the first one to speak to them

- when people put you on the spot in front of others, making you embarrassed

Anyway, I just had to rant that. Bit of a random post here. But I'm curious to know, for the other introverts here...what problems do you come across with other people (usually the extroverts) and what are your annoyances about it? Love to hear...