Forum posts made by lilgirl1414

Topic Sleep or Sex?
Posted 22 Mar 2014 18:56

I find that if I'm horny at night and also falling asleep...I can't fully fall asleep until I've's harder to cum when you're half asleep yes lol, but gotta be done. If it's a general 'sleep/sex' question...gotta say, if it's in the early morning and I'm still solidly tired, sleep does win. Sleeping in for me is like chocolate cake...I fucking love it lol. I've never been a morning person. I don't mind so much if I don't have to get up or do anything ha, but if it involves getting out of bed to get ready in any sort of way...nope you'll have to wait a few hours till I'm fully awake.

Topic Kinsey's scale of sexuality
Posted 22 Mar 2014 18:31

big ol' 3

Topic Would you fuck a stranger without condom?
Posted 22 Mar 2014 18:28

Um no thanks...I'd prefer not to play russian roulette with getting knocked up or infected...I don't care how much 'better' it feels bareback....but maybe I'm different cause I never saw the appeal of one-night/time things...not in that serious sense anyway, anything 'manual' is fine. But nothing that can put you in harms way when the pleasure is oh-so-temporary.

Topic Lush Matching Photo Game:
Posted 27 Feb 2014 22:40

legs tied

Topic age difference...
Posted 27 Feb 2014 22:32

21 years difference, still going (Dom/sub thing)

Topic Uniforms, do they do it for you???
Posted 27 Feb 2014 22:30

I love them, they can be so much fun. Policeman and priest are hot (like a kinky/fetish-y priest costume, not like with the robes lol)

Topic When was the last time you had sex? [BE HONEST]
Posted 27 Feb 2014 22:27

Sunday afternoon

Topic Lush Matching Photo Game:
Posted 19 Nov 2013 19:46


Topic What do Mondays mean to you?
Posted 14 Nov 2013 19:12

That's the beauty of not currently having a M-F 9-5 job lol. Half of my Mondays I have off so woo!

Topic What's making you happy right at this moment???
Posted 13 Nov 2013 19:39

Topic Why do people use someone else's pic for their avatar?
Posted 13 Nov 2013 19:27

Quite simply, this isn't 'real' life. I don't mean to offend anyone by saying that. Yes, there are real people here. And this is a great website compared to some other sexual social media/profile sites; yes of course there are fakes here, every site has that, some more than others. But at the end of the day, it's still a website and with the sexual nature of it, if everyone here had to post a face pic there would be a helluva lot less members. Why? Revealing your 'true' self (I don't mean one's feelings, thoughts, etc, but I mean your actual ID) could threaten their job, family life, love life, etc. It doesn't mean we're doing anything wrong here (that's up to the person's individual situation, just like with any website). It just means that real life social standards and online/fantasy lives don't always agree with each other or mesh. To not want to post a real pic of onself or any kind of true identification does not mean that a person here is 'fake'. How do we communicate here? Typed words for the most part. Yes, those can be used for evil and for dishonesty. But in many cases, not so.
Anyway I think you get my drift even though I could go on and on. And as many others have stated, just because they have a certain avatar doesn't mean they claimed it to be of themselves (myself included). Some people have one as a symbol.

Topic Your ideal partner in two words
Posted 13 Nov 2013 14:30

Well sexy is kinda a given lol (and sexy is subjective), but personality wise (and again, other than the givens of honest, loving, etc) for me would be Sense of Humour and Confidence. So so so very important to me.

Topic Does it turn you on if a man is forceful with you in the bedroom?
Posted 12 Nov 2013 19:53

I love dominance in the bedroom...but not to go over the line into brutality. Approach and tone of voice is very important.

Topic Great Film Scenes
Posted 11 Nov 2013 11:57

SPOILER ALERT (this is the very last scene of The Life of David Gale. If you haven't seen it and/or want to see it, don't watch this because the last 30 seconds here change the whole movie, aka surprising and shocking ending)

PS: only clip I could find, in another language. The only monologue here though is "it's over".

Ending of "The Life of David Gale"

Topic Ever fallen in love with someone you can't have?
Posted 10 Nov 2013 16:10

One of the worst feelings in the world

Topic Is there anything.....
Posted 09 Nov 2013 18:36

Honestly? I always have something on. Very rarely am I ever fully naked during sex. My Dom has a pantyhose fetish so that's the bare minimum that I'm in. We also love heels, corsets, stockings, garter belts, hot mini dresses, etc etc.

Topic Are Beards Sexy?
Posted 29 Oct 2013 17:37

Never been much of a fan of beards (especially full ones, on cheeks, etc). Depends on the man. Don't mind a scruff, that can be sexy.

Topic Do you ladies like to listen to audios? Or do you prefer visual porn?
Posted 29 Oct 2013 17:36

If it's specialized, with a sexy voice, and descriptive (with creativity) then omfg yes

Topic Would you take off your underwear, if your other half asked you to; while wearing a skirt or dress,
Posted 21 Oct 2013 15:39

I have, on more than a few occasions.

Topic detailed masturbation survey
Posted 21 Oct 2013 15:37

Are you male or female? - F
How old are you? - 26
How many times a week do you masturbate? - 3-6
How many times do you orgasm each time you play? 1-3

Where do you masturbate:
In bed? Y
In the shower? Y
In the bath? Y
Outdoors? occasionally
At work? occasionally
Every room in the house? (have, yes)
In a car while traveling... ? Y

What do you fantasize about when you play:
A significant other? Y
A friend? Y
A friend's spouse? Y
A stranger? Y
A student? have, yes
A member of the same sex? Y
A past lover? Y

What position do you play in:
On your back? Y- 90% of time
Standing? rarely
Kneeling? rarely
Sitting? sometimes
Lying on tummy? sometimes

How do you play:
With left hand? always left hand with fingering; sometimes with toy
With right hand? only with toy, no fingering
With a toy? Y
With water from bath? water isn't lube lol
Written erotica? sometimes
Pictures? sometimes
Movie clips online? Y
Videos? Y
Something on TV? not really

What is your favorite porn:
Straight sex between man and woman? half the time
Gay or lesbian sex? mmmm yes
Group sex or orgies? very hot
Blow jobs/oral sex? sometimes bjs; mainly licking out
Cumshots? could take or leave lol
Anal? yum
Interracial? yeah that can be nice
Age play? rawrr
S&M? ohh yeah
Role playing? heh
Kinky? hell yah

Have you ever masturbated to:
Email messages? Y
A chat room dialogue? Y
Exchanged stories or pictures? Y

Have you ever:
Been caught masturbating? came very close a few times
Masturbated for a man/woman? both
Masturbated for the same sex? Y
Masturbated in a group? no but would love to
Masturbated for a photo? Y
Masturbated for a webcam? Y
Masturbated for a video? Y

Do you ever:
Play with nipples/breasts when masturbating? Y
Insert something or play with your ass? Y
Insert something in mouth when masturbating? Y
Use pain as a method of playing? not harsh pain, but gentle pain like spanking

For men and women:
Do you taste your cum? Y
When was the last time you masturbated? last night
Are you wet or hard now? moist
Are you going to masturbate now? soon yes
Are you a masturbation addict? no, doesn't interfere with anything
What is the most you have played in one day? 12

Topic Do you prefer Red or White wine??
Posted 18 Oct 2013 17:47

I love both, and it depends on the kind. I don't like very dry wines or heavily oaked wines. I like a little sweetness to my wines.

Topic If you could have one lustful evening with anyone (and they were totally into it) with whom would it
Posted 18 Oct 2013 07:08

Come on now that's almost a story, why not exgand it, let your imagination fly and submit it. You've got a 5 from me for the intro and I'm gay. Lol

Haha I figured someone would reply like that, with what a tease that post was Drool

Hmm maybe I should write another lesbian story;)

Topic Mesmerizing GIFs
Posted 17 Oct 2013 19:34

Topic If you could have one lustful evening with anyone (and they were totally into it) with whom would it
Posted 17 Oct 2013 18:42

Many people mentioned celebs, but the question doesn't say it has to be celebs lol...

At the moment, a certain girl at my workplace. Huge girl crush on her. She's an ebony beauty and has a body to die for; hourglass to a T. Smooth, chocolate complexion and eyes, beautiful smile, full lips, long wavy black hair, full rack, small waist, and a bubble butt. My hands itch sometimes to run my hands over that ass, reach behind and grab it as I kiss her deep and long, as her tits are pressed against mine. And don't even get me started at what I'd wanna do between those legsShhh

Topic Lush Matching Photo Game:
Posted 17 Oct 2013 18:36


Topic Ever masturbate to fall asleep?
Posted 14 Oct 2013 16:55

Yes but it's problematic lol. It usually goes like this: getting sleepy but feeling horny. Won't be able to go to sleep until I cum. So trying to cum when you're half sleepy takes double the time. Then when I really get revved up towards the last half and do cum, I'm wide awake. Ugh lol.

Topic What's The Hottest Thing Your Partner Has Said To You During Sex?
Posted 14 Oct 2013 12:48

Many things, but the first one that comes to mind from my Dom is "You're mine, I own your ass". Love hearing possessiveness in the heat of the moment.

Topic Do you have sexual limits?
Posted 14 Oct 2013 12:46

I don't do nipple clamps. I tried them...never again lol. I was pretty against them before I tried them, but I did go ahead and try them...almost got sick ha, and the pain was unbearable. I have incredibly sensitive nipples and nipple pain actually makes me nauseous in the belly. (now gentle fingering and sucking can actually make me cum without gential about from one end to another lol)

Going into anything deeper (ie: bdsm, S&M) I cannot do humiliation. Those roots go back to bullying days and I can't take it. I'm a sub (though sometimes I can switch) and some people are under the wrong impression that sub=masochist (whether that be physical or mental) and Dom=sadist. Not true. But I will say humiliation can be very subjective, so I'll explain the kind that I don't like and can't do. It's mainly degradation. For example, saying things like "You're nothing but a worthless slut" Nuh-uh, no way. Calling me certain names (trashy, cheap, etc) and/or calling me down to the dirt are hard limits. Call me high maintenance, but I want my Dom to cherish me. I don't mind (and can often like) being called the names of slut, whore, etc, in the heat of the moment....but 90% of is based on the tone of voice. If your voice is full of contempt, is harsh or condescending, then no. For me, tone of voice is pertinent. Hell, you can even call me that oh-so-bad C word if you say it in a softer tone lol. I can get loud and dirty in the sack and have no problem with dirty name calling, but there's my limits with that. Some people find things like slapping, hair pulling, or golden showers (are we allowed to say that here?) humiliating....I've done those and am fine with it. For me, the humiliation I can't do is the mental and emotional kind.

Oh, and want lube, then buy some lol. I understand the primal angle to it, but I freakin hate it.

Topic Would you date a porn star?
Posted 14 Oct 2013 12:35

My primary concern would be their health, both emotional/mental and physical (mainly when talking about female porn stars for the emotional and mental thing). 'Why' they are doing porn would give me a better glimpse into that kind of health. If they're doing it because their father ran out when they were little, if they were abused in the past, if they have low self esteem, etc etc...then I doubt any kind of relationship would be successful long term. But if it's just a casual fling (and if their sexual health is good) then sure why not.