Topic What do Mondays mean to you?
14 Nov 2013 19:12
That's the beauty of not currently having a M-F 9-5 job lol. Half of my Mondays I have off so woo!
Topic Why do people use someone else's pic for their avatar?
13 Nov 2013 19:27
Quite simply, this isn't 'real' life. I don't mean to offend anyone by saying that. Yes, there are real people here. And this is a great website compared to some other sexual social media/profile sites; yes of course there are fakes here, every site has that, some more than others. But at the end of the day, it's still a website and with the sexual nature of it, if everyone here had to post a face pic there would be a helluva lot less members. Why? Revealing your 'true' self (I don't mean one's feelings, thoughts, etc, but I mean your actual ID) could threaten their job, family life, love life, etc. It doesn't mean we're doing anything wrong here (that's up to the person's individual situation, just like with any website). It just means that real life social standards and online/fantasy lives don't always agree with each other or mesh. To not want to post a real pic of onself or any kind of true identification does not mean that a person here is 'fake'. How do we communicate here? Typed words for the most part. Yes, those can be used for evil and for dishonesty. But in many cases, not so.
Anyway I think you get my drift even though I could go on and on. And as many others have stated, just because they have a certain avatar doesn't mean they claimed it to be of themselves (myself included). Some people have one as a symbol.
Topic Your ideal partner in two words
13 Nov 2013 14:30
Well sexy is kinda a given lol (and sexy is subjective), but personality wise (and again, other than the givens of honest, loving, etc) for me would be Sense of Humour and Confidence. So so so very important to me.
Topic Great Film Scenes
11 Nov 2013 11:57
SPOILER ALERT (this is the very last scene of The Life of David Gale. If you haven't seen it and/or want to see it, don't watch this because the last 30 seconds here change the whole movie, aka surprising and shocking ending)
PS: only clip I could find, in another language. The only monologue here though is "it's over".
Ending of "The Life of David Gale"
Topic Is there anything.....
09 Nov 2013 18:36
Honestly? I always have something on. Very rarely am I ever fully naked during sex. My Dom has a pantyhose fetish so that's the bare minimum that I'm in. We also love heels, corsets, stockings, garter belts, hot mini dresses, etc etc.
Topic Are Beards Sexy?
29 Oct 2013 17:37
Never been much of a fan of beards (especially full ones, on cheeks, etc). Depends on the man. Don't mind a scruff, that can be sexy.
Topic detailed masturbation survey
21 Oct 2013 15:37
Are you male or female? - F
How old are you? - 26
How many times a week do you masturbate? - 3-6
How many times do you orgasm each time you play? 1-3
Where do you masturbate:
In bed? Y
In the shower? Y
In the bath? Y
At work? occasionally
Every room in the house? (have, yes)
In a car while traveling... ? Y
What do you fantasize about when you play:
A significant other? Y
A friend? Y
A friend's spouse? Y
A stranger? Y
A student? have, yes
A member of the same sex? Y
A past lover? Y
What position do you play in:
On your back? Y- 90% of time
Lying on tummy? sometimes
How do you play:
With left hand? always left hand with fingering; sometimes with toy
With right hand? only with toy, no fingering
With a toy? Y
With water from bath? water isn't lube lol
Written erotica? sometimes
Movie clips online? Y
Something on TV? not really
What is your favorite porn:
Straight sex between man and woman? half the time
Gay or lesbian sex? mmmm yes
Group sex or orgies? very hot
Blow jobs/oral sex? sometimes bjs; mainly licking out
Cumshots? could take or leave lol
Interracial? yeah that can be nice
Age play? rawrr
S&M? ohh yeah
Role playing? heh
Kinky? hell yah
Have you ever masturbated to:
Email messages? Y
A chat room dialogue? Y
Exchanged stories or pictures? Y
Have you ever:
Been caught masturbating? came very close a few times
Masturbated for a man/woman? both
Masturbated for the same sex? Y
Masturbated in a group? no but would love to
Masturbated for a photo? Y
Masturbated for a webcam? Y
Masturbated for a video? Y
Do you ever:
Play with nipples/breasts when masturbating? Y
Insert something or play with your ass? Y
Insert something in mouth when masturbating? Y
Use pain as a method of playing? not harsh pain, but gentle pain like spanking
For men and women:
Do you taste your cum? Y
When was the last time you masturbated? last night
Are you wet or hard now? moist
Are you going to masturbate now? soon yes
Are you a masturbation addict? no, doesn't interfere with anything
What is the most you have played in one day? 12
Topic Do you prefer Red or White wine??
18 Oct 2013 17:47
I love both, and it depends on the kind. I don't like very dry wines or heavily oaked wines. I like a little sweetness to my wines.
Topic Mesmerizing GIFs
17 Oct 2013 19:34
Topic If you could have one lustful evening with anyone (and they were totally into it) with whom would it
17 Oct 2013 18:42
Many people mentioned celebs, but the question doesn't say it has to be celebs lol...
At the moment, a certain girl at my workplace. Huge girl crush on her. She's an ebony beauty and has a body to die for; hourglass to a T. Smooth, chocolate complexion and eyes, beautiful smile, full lips, long wavy black hair, full rack, small waist, and a bubble butt. My hands itch sometimes to run my hands over that ass, reach behind and grab it as I kiss her deep and long, as her tits are pressed against mine. And don't even get me started at what I'd wanna do between those legs
Topic Lush Matching Photo Game:
17 Oct 2013 18:36
Topic Ever masturbate to fall asleep?
14 Oct 2013 16:55
Yes but it's problematic lol. It usually goes like this: getting sleepy but feeling horny. Won't be able to go to sleep until I cum. So trying to cum when you're half sleepy takes double the time. Then when I really get revved up towards the last half and do cum, I'm wide awake. Ugh lol.
Topic Do you have sexual limits?
14 Oct 2013 12:46
I don't do nipple clamps. I tried them...never again lol. I was pretty against them before I tried them, but I did go ahead and try them...almost got sick ha, and the pain was unbearable. I have incredibly sensitive nipples and nipple pain actually makes me nauseous in the belly. (now gentle fingering and sucking can actually make me cum without gential stimulation...talk about from one end to another lol)
Going into anything deeper (ie: bdsm, S&M) I cannot do humiliation. Those roots go back to bullying days and I can't take it. I'm a sub (though sometimes I can switch) and some people are under the wrong impression that sub=masochist (whether that be physical or mental) and Dom=sadist. Not true. But I will say humiliation can be very subjective, so I'll explain the kind that I don't like and can't do. It's mainly degradation. For example, saying things like "You're nothing but a worthless slut" Nuh-uh, no way. Calling me certain names (trashy, cheap, etc) and/or calling me down to the dirt are hard limits. Call me high maintenance, but I want my Dom to cherish me. I don't mind (and can often like) being called the names of slut, whore, etc, in the heat of the moment....but 90% of is based on the tone of voice. If your voice is full of contempt, is harsh or condescending, then no. For me, tone of voice is pertinent. Hell, you can even call me that oh-so-bad C word if you say it in a softer tone lol. I can get loud and dirty in the sack and have no problem with dirty name calling, but there's my limits with that. Some people find things like slapping, hair pulling, or golden showers (are we allowed to say that here?) humiliating....I've done those and am fine with it. For me, the humiliation I can't do is the mental and emotional kind.
Oh, and spitting...you want lube, then buy some lol. I understand the primal angle to it, but I freakin hate it.
Topic Would you date a porn star?
14 Oct 2013 12:35
My primary concern would be their health, both emotional/mental and physical (mainly when talking about female porn stars for the emotional and mental thing). 'Why' they are doing porn would give me a better glimpse into that kind of health. If they're doing it because their father ran out when they were little, if they were abused in the past, if they have low self esteem, etc etc...then I doubt any kind of relationship would be successful long term. But if it's just a casual fling (and if their sexual health is good) then sure why not.
Topic Why swallow?
13 Oct 2013 14:48
It's a honour to him in my opinion (obviously it's my opinion that you should feel close to the man who's cum you're swallowing). But that's just me.
Topic What to do?
09 Oct 2013 18:33
I am sick of so-called "Doms" that are like that (and the whole after a week of talking they're barking orders at you). That's not a Dom...that's an asshole. End of story. I think it's ridiculous (whether it's a sub or a Dom) to be talking for a week (or any other short period of time) and suddenly assume that they're yours or you're theirs. Online is harder, because it's such a fantasy world.
But honey, any guy who gets on your case for talking to other people or making accusations, or barking out orders you're not comfortable with...simply block. It takes a helluva lot longer than a week to establish a relationship (even an online one). Regarding the accusation thing you said...what it sounds like to me is that this is a guy with anger issues, low self esteem, and prone to jealousy. In the real world, that's a prick bf; someone who (if the gf allows it) has no friends outside of him, will have hell bestowed upon her if she talks to another guy, and has everything controlled by him non-consensually. Essentially...an abuser. Maybe he's had gfs like that and soon they realized what kind of a person he is and kicked him to the curb. So he goes online and creates a Dom profile, in search of a young, innocent, inexperienced girl who has submissive tendancies...jackpot for him huh. He thinks it's so much easier to control a girl this way and paint himself as a big strong Dominant, because with only typed words, you can't see what a true asshole he is in real life (or only to a point).
Anyway, I'll stop going on and on. Just remember, any "Dom" that rushes isn't worth it and you have no obligation to anyone if they're not your real Dom. Stay safe darling...xx.
Topic What are your favorite Halloween/scary/fall movies?
07 Oct 2013 15:20
To preface what I'm about to say, I haven't seen many horror movies (mainly cause I've been very scared of them up until about 5 years ago). But I gotta say...I love the Scream movies lol. Cheesy? Yes. Scary? Barely. I dunno, I just love them lol.
Topic Club Zafia....
03 Oct 2013 19:44