I'm not into the name calling type of dirty talk, however being told what and or how you ladies like something in particular is what I enjoy and really spins my wheels.
Generalizing for a mo - women have been asking for years for equality, sooo where's the equality in the few ladies that lay there letting/expecting there partner do all the work and believe me some are hard work.
I have had a few partners like this then recently I had the privilege of being told what this awesome friend wanted / needed e.g. - as i was sucking on a nipple she simply asked in a lovely quiet sexy (non demanding) voice "suck harder"

73% Sensual and 49% Aggressive!

Mmmm...so sexy, so smooth, so giving, so...good. Bet you really enjoy sex don't you? In fact,
probably more than most people. That's what being Sensual is all about: PASSION.
But not just for your pleasure, for theirs. For you, it's the whole experience that makes great sex.
You obviously like to take your time and do it "right". You mostly know what you want and you definitely know what you like.
To top it off you're just plain good at it -- less so than someone more Aggressive. You're not opposed to trying some new
things or embarking on an adventure as long as you and your partner do it together and, more importantly, it works for them.
You strive to put your partner's needs ahead of your own which many people claim is difficult to find so keep it up!

Like others in this thread I have no problem finding my partners clit, I have yet to see, play with and suck/ lick any larger than say about 3mm's long, I must admit to finding various levels of sensitivity of clits over the years and with my last partner was able to give her an O just from licking, we were both very happy bout that ;-))
I agree with "imhapless"- A clit that is easier to find would be great, but ultimately it is the person, not the clit, that is important.

I came for the stories. I stayed for the stories and now forum, I have learnt a lot from this site
Thank you to the mediators and all who participate

"Till there was you"

I have been a breast fan as long as I can remember , I esp' like going to malls / supermarkets where one can look at all shapes and sizes, to see nipples trying to poke through is a bonus, braless - ooh la la , a slight movement as there owner is walking is fun to watch.
My personal preference is med size 32b/c to 34b/c , nipples that are easy to play with / suck , esp' sensitive nipp's , much prefer pointier breasts to fuller rounder ones and the ones that are obviously fake do nothing for me , naturals any day please. Although these are my preferences the variety of shapes / sizes of all you females breasts is awesome. Ladies if I have said anything here that is upsetting to you I apologize.

I have been studying this subject for a number of yrs after My wife found she gushed.
Adding the little I know , watching some porno's as the woman is about to squirt the camera moves to a face shot then when it moves back for the money shot as they say, the timing is so close or has actually just started, makes me wonder if she has been filled with some sort of liquid ??
Please don't get me wrong I'm not doubting those in this tread that do "squirt" its just the pornos look so fake , another thing they do is - the hand of the female that is squirting is moving at gr8 speed causing a splashing effect and the viewer can't tell whats going on sooo is it even squirting
My own preference is to watch gushers and dribblers
are two that I like
looking forward to reading more on this