.If you want to chat thats fine, if you dont want to thats fine too. If I just happen to say Hi at least show me the respect of saying Hello back. Dont like the drama that gets started in the chat rooms and will often leave if it gets out of hand. Im not on here looking to hook up, it just seems pointless. If I do have a private chat with you it will be an experience you wont forget. I am a people pleaser and enjoy the thought of making someone else's day a little brighter.
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Racking, I totally enjoyed our conversation we had earlier this week and I am looking forward to future ones. I'm sorry I missed the chat last night as I was busy with a prior engagement but I will definitely try to check it out on Monday. I am glad you feel it was a success and I would like to thank you for creating it. Hope to see you there and don't forget what they say about the yellow snow. rofl
I'm sorry for my lack of chat room lingo/terminology as I have limited experience with them. But I would have to say the site moderator. I am assuming that is the person that I have seen pop in and warn various people about their content that they were posting. In a way it feels as though we newbies are wearing the scarlet letter N and no one wants to get to know us. I guess with a new member chat room it would at least give new members a place to go to maybe be able to carry on a conversation with either another new person or another member who is willing to break the ice and actually wants to talk to a new member. At least with a specific room for it you feel like you have a chance to chat.
I have been perusing the chat rooms since I first posted this suggestion in the forum and since then I have had interactions with maybe 4 people. I have changed my avatar and each time I enter a room I say hi or hello to all and at least open the door for conversation. Its not a matter of being bullied its that people just ignore you. I am working on adding more to my profile because I know people check on it when I enter a room. It surprises me that not even the moderator of a room says hi and welcome to their room.
I myself am in the same boat with Trinket. I had not chatted in a chat room until the other day. That is why I proposed this. I have not had a private chat yet so I haven't experienced anything like she has in that manner. I fully agree with Nicola about having experienced people run it because I would have no clue as to where to even start. I appreciate everyone's replies on this topic as I am finding them all very helpful. Btw I am still searching for the appropriate avatar once I find it I am definitely changing mine.
Gotcha. Just got messaged by another member and invited to a room and had a good experience. I will work on the other things and try to get in the door a little better. You have been very helpful and I look forward to future interactions. :)
Thank you for responding to my post. I'm afraid you are right about it being high school all over again sadly. I will definitely look for your room and stop in. I have asked a couple questions but never received any response that's why I thought this type of room would be helpful. Anymore I am just a wallflower because others don't want to interact. I know if I had a little more on my profile it might help but I don't want to throw too much on there until I get more familiar. Thanks again
Would it be possible to create a chat room for new members to get their feet wet? It seems like in the existing rooms there are cliques so to speak and it is hard for new members to interact with others. Maybe this way new people won't feel awkward with the other members. I myself feel as though I'm intruding when I go into the chat rooms. This way you know going in there are new members trying to get familiar with how things go. It's just my thoughts and observations. Thank you
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