Forum posts made by margali

Definitely cock.

You're Having My Baby by Paul Anka. Pure schlock!

Reciting words without an understanding of their meaning is a mindless activity. Children are capable of understanding far more than most give them credit for. When I was young, we knew what we were saying and it had meaning to us. There was a sense of pride in belonging to something bigger than ourselves and that we were a part of. I see nothing wrong with children reciting the pledge of allegiance. Just teach the meaning along with the words.

Straddling my friend while he sat in the captains chair on the deck of his boat on a well traveled river. Loved the sun on my skin and not knowing when the next boat would come around the bend.

Turning down my significant other for sex? If you have to ask, makes me wonder. If you feel there is something behind it, then it's time to have an open discussion. Otherwise, chalk it up to normal things. Right now I have a terrible cold and not feeling terrible sexy... just feel contagious. Are you always ready? Is there nothing that interferes with your libido?

It all depends on the context.

I still say communication is the key to keep the physical side of a long term relationship fresh. Open, frequent and safe.

I agree the problem is more likely not the lack of interest in sex but the lack of interest in the monotony of their marital sex. Time for some talk. It all starts in the brain. Maybe some sharing of fantasies or a little role playing. Make it fun again.

Poor grammar is an instant turn off. Hopefully wouldn't have to question personal hygiene. Clinginess also makes the list. Makes me want to head for the hills. I'm a bit claustrophobic and we all need a little space.

Margali is a character from one of Marion Zimmer Bradley's novels. She's strong, intelligent and capable. So unlike most female characters in early science fiction and fantasy. I like women character who aren't just fluff.

For: Its best to have some self control and civility. Use some common sense, speak when it is necessary or keep silent. People that just open their mouths and blurt out 'what they think' all their time are just rude self absorbed narcissistic brainless assholes.

Yes...self control and civility. I recommend it...

Is that a problem?

Is that a problem?

Sometimes it's just better to keep your thoughts to yourself. A favorite quote from Robert Heinlein, 'Never try to teach a pig to sing; it wastes your time and it annoys the pig.' If the person has an open mind and is willing to hear another opinion, speak up. If they've got a stone for a brain, save your breath.

multidimensional lover.

For those who write, what is your inspiration?

Contemplative

A fine cup of coffee and the though of vacation next week.

Wow! Procol Harum! Great choice

Warren Zevon's, Accidently Like a Martyr from the Excitable Boy Album

Are you talking a dream or reality?

Size doesn't matter if it isn't used with skill.

I would question why someone would feel the need to engage in cyber sex behind the back of their significant other. If they are not getting what they need then it's time to open a dialog. If they can't talk with their partner, something is seriously wrong. If it's for some other reason, perhaps they aren't ready for a committed relationship.