About Zafia
Biography
Zafia

I love to express my sexuality through writing. I also love constructive criticism so please feel free to comment on my stories or send me an email. Some of my stories come from imagination but have some truthfulness to them.

Name:
Ms. Diva
Date Joined:
Apr 13, 2008
Last Visit:
Mar 07, 2010
Sex:
Female
Sign:
Gemini
Location:
Shoe Heaven, United States
Interests:
I love to write and I needed a positive way to release my random wicked sexual thoughts. My favorites categories on Lush would be: reluctance, spanking, BDSM and fetish. I love to push the envelope when I write in those categories and I don’t see it as abuse or abnormal if both parties are in agreement. Most of my writing is based on my emotions of that particular day with a twist of my wicked imagination. I write about things that let me unleash my alter-ego Zafia. My turn-ons range from bondage, mutual nipple sucking, mutual oral sex, real good kissing is a must, dirty talk and real intense eye contact.
Favorite Books:
Difficult to narrow down but here a few: In the Time of Butterflies, Bastard Out of Carolina, Sense and Sensibility, the Iliad & the Odyssey, Twilight, Caramelo, Go Ask Alice, Of Mice and Men, The Outsiders, Pride and Prejudice, Little Women, the Grapes of Wrath, The Great Gatsby, Catcher in the Rye, etc.
Favorite Movies:
Breakfast at Tiffany’s, Troy, What Dreams May Come, Meeting Joe Black, Forrest Gump, Amores Perros, Interview with a Vampire, A Beautiful Mind, Real Women have curves, My Big Fat Greek Wedding, Fried Green Tomatoes, Pretty in Pink, St. Elmo’s Fire, Breakfast Club, Steel Magnolias, Untamed Heart, etc. (I could go on and on and on).
Favorite Music:
I am in love with music so I listen to almost everything. Take a glimpse at Club Zafia to see....
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Topic: Club Zafia....
Posted: Thursday, Feb 04, 2010 07:30:53 PM

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Topic: Club Zafia....
Posted: Thursday, Feb 04, 2010 07:29:22 PM

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Topic: Club Zafia....
Posted: Thursday, Feb 04, 2010 07:20:38 PM

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Topic: Happy Birthday Ali2teaseu!!!
Posted: Thursday, Feb 04, 2010 07:17:01 PM

Happy Happy Birthday Ali!!!

Bday1

Topic: Club Zafia....
Posted: Tuesday, Jan 19, 2010 10:11:41 PM

several failed attempts later.....and i give up haha

If you are getting the video from Youtube and they you get the embedded code and there is a You tube button on top there press it and past the code and whala!!!...

coffee

Topic: If You Woke Up With The Person Above You What Would Be The First Thing You'd Say?
Posted: Sunday, Jan 17, 2010 04:56:06 PM

You really are green all over.....kekekegay

Topic: My favorite place to get diarrhea medication ...
Posted: Sunday, Jan 17, 2010 04:54:16 PM

HAHAHA!

Topic: Another Pic of Pixie
Posted: Sunday, Jan 17, 2010 04:41:33 PM

Pretty wings pix....lol....


Rumple your AV is hilarious...LMAO!

Topic: Moses ... the early years
Posted: Sunday, Jan 17, 2010 04:38:38 PM

I always crack up when I see this one because it reminds me of one of my nephews.....kekekegay

Topic: "Wary" boyfriend
Posted: Sunday, Jan 17, 2010 04:36:25 PM

I've been seeing my boyfriend for about 2.5 months - so it's early days. We get on really well, enjoy time together, go out for walks, talks, see films, cook dinner together etc, and the sex is very good. He behaves very affectionately and thoughtfully towards me and comes across as a genuinely nice and honest man.

He had a painful breakup about 2 years ago and is a bit cautious about relationships now- afraid of getting hurt.

Last night as part of a conversation he told me I should be "wary" of him as his level of emotional commitment sometimes was not as great as his level of sexual interest. He also said that occasionally he wondered if he was using me as a sex object. Now I have no problem with relationships which are sex only, no strings, if that's what both people want. However I don't want that and right from the start I've made it clear I want a full relationship, not just sex only.

Following this conversation he was thoughtful, affectionate, much as usual to me, and even suggested meeting up this weekend, which we hadn't originally planned to do. So there's some mixed messages from him.

I'm now left wondering what to do - should I.....
- do nothing and just see how his behaviour is - everyone has the occasional moment of uncertainty and self-doubt
- confront this directly and say I'm not willing to be "wary" with him, I want to be able to trust him, and if I can't trust - then we can't have a relationship
- any other option ?


Any comments welcome on this dilemma! Thank you all in advance


First off...Welcome Lucy.....hello2

Secondly I think you should do what your gut tells you what to do. Sometimes what I do when I can't decide on something I usually just observe and give it more time and then the answer becomes more apparent.

Good Luck!

Stories Published By Zafia
When the Moon and the Sun Collide, Part V

  I get up from the floor and I look at the cab driving away and I memorize the cab and license plate number for later use.   I try to pull my skirt down as much as I can and start to feel his c...

Added : Jan 03, 2009 | Category : BDSM | Votes : 22 | Avg Score 4.59 | Views 2,957

When the Moon and the Sun Collide, Part IV

  I can't believe you've left me here, tied up on the shower floor with freezing water pouring down on me!  I could have got pneumonia or drowned!  I was able to get to my knees - slipping on th...

Added : Dec 09, 2008 | Category : BDSM | Votes : 18 | Avg Score 4.78 | Views 3,618

When the Moon and the Sun Collide, Part III

I sit on the shower floor fuming, breathing heavily and trying to digest what you just did to me, I cannot help but be turned on, and that infuriates me more.    I finally calmed down enough t...

Added : Dec 09, 2008 | Category : BDSM | Votes : 13 | Avg Score 4.62 | Views 2,651

Lightning Over Arizona, Part III

I managed to get to my seat and of course, Gabriel was still sleeping.  God! I swear that man could sleep through a tornado!   I thought to myself before I nudged him to let me by.  “Where you...

Added : Sep 29, 2008 | Category : Reluctance | Votes : 48 | Avg Score 4.73 | Views 3,816

When the Moon and the Sun Collide, Part II

His Memory I run furiously down the hall after you, my cock, still hard as nails, wagging from side to side.   I don't even slow down when I get to the door, I just put my shoulder down and ba...

Added : Sep 26, 2008 | Category : BDSM | Votes : 25 | Avg Score 4.72 | Views 2,150

When the Moon and the Sun Collide

My Memory... I am so not a morning person and today was not any different.   I barely opened my eyes as I lay here trying to decide if I should get up.  I feel around the bed and I realize t...

Added : Sep 24, 2008 | Category : BDSM | Votes : 29 | Avg Score 4.52 | Views 2,473

Lightning Over Arizona Part II

  I was concentrating very hard on not screaming that I looked out the airplane window and I could see that it was starting to rain.  It grew darker outside and I could of sworn I saw lightning ...

Added : Jul 25, 2008 | Category : Reluctance | Votes : 59 | Avg Score 4.76 | Views 6,523

Lightning Over Arizona

  Everything that could have gone wrong this morning did go wrong.  We were rushing to the airport to catch our flight.  Gabriel whined the whole way there saying that we were late because of me...

Added : Jul 19, 2008 | Category : Reluctance | Votes : 56 | Avg Score 4.45 | Views 7,420

My Birthday with Nadia

It had been some time since my last encounter with Nadia.   I could not help but to fantasize about her most of the time.   God! She just drove me crazy that night, I thought to myself.  For week...

Added : Jul 02, 2008 | Category : Reluctance | Votes : 42 | Avg Score 4.6 | Views 5,126

Drunken Good Times....

Nadia and I have been friends for like three years now and we always hung out together.  She would sleep over my house and visa versa if any one of us was too drunk to go home when we would go out...

Added : Jul 01, 2008 | Category : Reluctance | Votes : 54 | Avg Score 4.65 | Views 7,620

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