Topic Falling in love in an online world
23 Feb 2011 13:21
It would make a great romance novel of real life to think that two people who write to each other, sharing intimate fantasies they'd never share with someone else face-to-face, could actually fall in love and build a life together.
There's definitely an emotional component to this kind of "relationship" but it's more heartbreaking than happily-ever-after. Because even if it works in the end, you'll be jealous everytime he's on the computer, thinking that he's cheating on you because he's chatting up some other nameless, faceless woman as you once were. That's totally fucked up.
Topic Is Fantasising the same as cheating?
23 Feb 2011 12:58
Fantasizing about someone that you talk to, whether on-line or in person while you are in a relationship with someone else isn't cool. It may be harmless but I think it's a passive aggressive behavior. Like you're looking for praise by flirting with someone else when you should find that with your partner. The sky's the limit if you are unattached. I never fantasize about being w/ celebs. It's usually a specific guy that I know or else someone I've invented for an erotic story. That guy usually has blue eyes.
Topic What Are You Wearing?
20 Feb 2011 19:05
Uggs, Lucky Brand PJs and a lap cat and my diamond cross