Personally, I prefer to use cyber as an inspiration that sends me running to the toybox. Cumming is such an intimate and private act for me. Maybe I'm repressed in that way, or maybe it's the ultimate betrayal of a RL partner?

Pretentious? Moi?

I particularly like the name Phaedra, I hate being told what to do, and respect is important to me.

Apart from writing, Tai Chi and Yoga

Moneybags O'Grady :D

It depends what you class as Cyber - I have done a lot of roleplay on forums, in IM and collaborative storywriting. I prefer to run to the toybox once I've finished, it seems a very private thing to climax and I just can't 'perform' on demand. Only once have I done so, and faked a couple of times.