Ohhhhhhh ok lol thanks :)

Thanks guys, that really helps, yeah I'm not sure if I'm ready for a relationship yet but I wanted to see what the normal thing is lol it's actually a lot more complicated because I also like the friend I'm sleeping with but I think it might just be the sex.

Yeah I haven't assumed anything yet, actually I'm sleeping with one of my mates at the moment, kind of a stress release, chance for me to learn and try new things. The long term relationship thing, it had been over for a long time before I got the guts to leave him. I mean at least a few years... Just seemed easier to stay (I know... Stupid).
The 'intimate' thing... We have only made out, he stopped things before they went any further, said he didn't want me to think he was 'that kind of guy' but he continued to tease me for the rest of the day (which really didn't help). It's hard spending a lot of time together now that I'm a single mum and I have my daughter all the time and he is away with work a lot so we can't spend weeked together and stuff like that because I don't want to introduce him till my daughter till I know it's more than just 'a few dates' and seeing as my daughter is almost always with me, makes it hard.
Thanks for the advice though, I asked him how do I know the diff between dating an relationship the other day (just in general, not in regards to the two of us) and he said he didn't know either, he is still new to it all too, similar circumstance, except he was married young and got divorced and doesn't have a child. I'm 24 an he's 28 if that's any help as well

Ok I'm new to the whole dating thing. Just got out of 5yr long relationship few months ago. We got together year after I finished school and ended up having a baby and staying together and so on and so forth... Ok so my problem is, I've been seeing a guy, we have been on a 2 dates but were talking and flirting and what not for bout a month before the first date. I really like him and I hope he likes me but the problem I have is, how does it go from going on dates to 'being in a relationship'. Is it just when one of us asks the other to be bf/gf?? I'm completely confused by the whole thing lol so any advice is much appreciated :)


Sorry if I sound like a complete idiot btw

As a large bloke myself I like a larger woman. I always get the uneasy feeling I'd break a smaller girl!

One of my good mates is the same, he is really tall and he is a larger guy and he told me once he is afraid he would snap a small girl. He is the biggest guy I've slept with (though I haven't slept with many people) but he is by far the best sex I have ever had.

I'm sorry- I know I shouldn't be posting here but I can't help myself.

According to that chart floating around I am fat, which I was fully aware of anyway. I am a size 18 and have tits and an ass to match. I am not 'blobby', I still have curves in the right places and I'm not bothered about my size. I've heard everything derogatory there is to be said, so now I just don't care. I dress well, I'm confident and happy in my skin and I have decent face.

I have never been with a guy the same size as me, get this- I don't find fat guys attractive. Rich coming from me, right? But that just proves it- it's about personal preference. My best friend is a size 8 and she's beautiful and when we've gone out together in the past she's turned round afterwards and asked me how I consistently manage to pull guys that she'd thought we're out of my league (now there's some brutal best friend honesty for you!)- turns out that usually she's been after the guy in question. Another friend who is the same size as me is very self concious and shy and hasn't been laid in 4 years.

Physical attractiveness is a major player and nobody is suited to every man's taste, but a lot of what matters is personality. There is no definitive answer on this one- there is always gonna be an exception to the rule.

Again, sorry for posting in here!

Very well said :)

stockings and sussies does it for me.Particularly bridal white.

What are sussies??

I am currently sleeping with a mate, and its fantastic. I recently got out of a 5 yr relationship with minimal sexual activity and needless to say I don't know a lot and haven't tried much, but he is helping me to experiment and try new things and I feel comfortable with him. If I don't do it right or simply have no idea what to do he just explains it to me without making me feel like an idiot. It's only a relatively new 'fuck buddy' relationship do I don't know if there will be any complications but but we discussed everything before hand (I had a bit of a freak out about it all) and we agreed that we are friends first, the sex is just a bonus. (and what an amazing bonus it is)

Personally not someone overly muscled. I don't mind a guy with a tummy, they are more cuddly. Mostly prefer a guy who is strong enough to pick me up and do with me what he will lol

Just wondering what your preferred style of lingerie on a girl is
Style, colour, material so on and so forth
And what makes it so appealing