I think any man who doesn't attempt to match his partner in style on the first date is making a big mistake. Smart or casual, what's the problem? In this case, knowing the restaurant is classy, he is disrespecting his date, big time. If you want to get anywhere near her pussy, you first need to get into her mind.

Maybe its the difference between men and boys. Men know......, boys know s**t.

Its quite simple really. You agree your boundaries outside the bedroom, and role play inside. D/s is all about respect on either side - giving each of you what you both want. He obviously either wants to be submissive, or to allow you to be dominant, and deserves full respect for that.

Speaking as the older guy, its always a pleasure to meet a young girl who appreciates sexy maturity and experience. Just remember, though, age is often in the mind. A guy can be old in his 30s, mentally, whereas, in my 50s, I am, and always have been young, and a lover of youth.

Interesting one this, the mind of a woman! We need to know her sexual past. Could be she's had a bad experience, and is shy/afraid to make the first move. I recently met a girl who was raped when she was 16, for example! It leaves its scars. Could be she is a virgin?! I would say you need to TALK about it. But here's an idea.....

Don't deny her the cuddles she craves. Explain that she turns you on so much and you'd love to make love to her, but that you love cuddling. Tell her she has such an effect on you that you prefer to sleep on the couch. Cuddle her until she goes to sleep, but then you go and sleep on the couch. Make her feel special, and show you care, by removing yourself. Maybe she will realise the effect she has on you. Is that a plan?

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As an older guy its always a compliment to meet a girl who finds that maturity sexy. Experience brings a desire to please my girl and, boy, does she appreciate it. Being young at heart means the conversation flows well too!

My mood has to be right and I have to know my guy and want him. Those facts being in place it's lovely to take his hot erect member into my mouth and just enjoy the feeling of him and to watch his face as I swirl my tongue round his glans, thrust back and forth and occasionally gently squeeze his balls.

Sometimes it's nice to take a man still flaccid and feel his erection grow in my mouth but always the outcome is the same. Just love it when he reaches his climax and squirts his semen into my mouth.

I would never disappoint a guy by spitting ... I always love to swallow his cum - if I didn't want to do that he'd never had been having oral with me anyhow.


I love your description, Sara. As someone who has only recently learned to receive. After much thought, I define the term "proper blow job" as being one which finishes with a swallow. Somehow its not the same without. The pleasure derived in knowing you gain pleasure from that is overwhelming.

what am i supposed to do if hes married but tells me its ok??? i have no idea!!????
HELP!!!!

It is possible to be trapped in a sexless marriage. You could have a great time, within limits, and the sex is likely to be great since he will be experienced, attentive and affectionate. Just so long as you know a bf romance will be off the agenda, but a passionate relationship could enhance your life.