Topic Afraid to orgasm
25 Feb 2013 20:54
The vagina and rectum are only separated by a thin membrane. It is not uncommon for some women to have this sensation. I would ask do you have constipation? This may mean your "lower" bowels are not completely empty. Also, some women have hemorriods which also causes more pressure in that area. What we often suggest to clients that you try a different position. Female on top or side lying positions help. If your partner is on top it adds extra pressure on the digestive system and the bladder thus causes the feeling. The reason it seems to get worse during an orgasm is because your muscles are contracting. Yes, some of the muscles that are used during bowel movements. This is why some women will poop when having a baby not to mention the pressure on that area. Try to relax. If you are just going into sex without adequate foreplay and relaxation your are tensing up. That will make it more likely. Get online and research more, plus you also need to learn more about your own body. The more you know the better sex will be so find a good book and begin reading. I hope this helps...
Topic Lesser of a Man because he helps around the house??
08 Feb 2013 14:15
I think if a man helps around the house, he is more of a man. There is something about a man that can help around the house that just says so much. I also think its sexy when watching a man cook or when a man comes into the kitchen just to help with the dishes. ;)
Topic Do you like to have your neck nuzzled?
20 Nov 2012 18:30
I love to have my neck and shoulders kissed or nipped lightly, tongue action only if its not a creepy sloppy wet tongue..ewhhhhaaa and just a little of it. Too much isnt sexy (yes, I had a guy do that. Creeps me out to this day!!)
Topic No longer sexy..
31 Oct 2012 18:53
I saw your post and thought I would just say that it isnt you. My ex done that to me and I thought the same thing. Found out he was cheating, now that doesnt mean your BF is doing the same thing. My ex was bipolar and refused to take his meds. maybe your guy just likes to have his ego stroked. believe it or not some men tend to need to feel that a woman desires them. Try talking it out and not arguing. If that doesnt work then seeing is believing. Show him wheather it be being a carbon copy of him. But make sure you are reading the signs right. I can not really say since I dont know his age or anything about him. Ex: occupation, stressors in his life, things like this. Some men are just plain wore out after working at some jobs. My friends hubby works construction. When he comes home he just wants supper and a nice comfy bed. Look at the broader side and weigh in all possiblities.
Topic Affair wanted
14 Oct 2012 19:56
Ok, let met set the record staight, I am not an ass. The way I set it, the selfish thing to do would a divorce. See that way the money I set aside for the kids' college fund would to child support, and I wouldn't be there to take the kids to school in the morning, or take the them the dentist or band practice, or school rehersal, etc. For the sake of the children I'm staying in the marraige. The selfish thing would be to leave.
Incidentally, I was there with my wife when her father and helped clean out her grandmother's apartment when her grandmother had to go into a nursing home. I als listen to her when she complains about "so and so" at work. Yet despite my support support groups etc,. she still hides sweets like an alcoholic hides booze.
Imagine your significant other 75 pounds overweight, often stinky with gas, and poor knees, and kids who need your daily love and attention, and look me in the eye and try to tell me I'm ass. I'm just human.
WOW. You say you are not selfish...Let me break it down for you my dear.
"The way I set it, the selfish thing to do would a divorce. See that way the money I set aside for the kids' college fund would to child support, and I wouldn't be there to take the kids to school in the morning, or take the them the dentist or band practice, or school rehersal, etc."
You say if you get a divorce that the money you put aside would go for child support instead of the college fund. Well let me clue you in on some facts. Fact, if you actually do this then the judge would order it to continue.
You say that you wouldn't be able to be there for the children. I know many parents that still work together. I know one father that comes to the mothers house and takes the children to school Comes to the practice sessions. A divorce wouldn't stop that unless you were abusive and would need a guardian enlighten.
You then say that ," I was there with my wife when her father and helped clean out her grandmother's apartment when her grandmother had to go into a nursing home. I als listen to her when she complains about "so and so" at work. Yet despite my support support groups etc,. " THAT WHATS MARRIAGE IS ALL ABOUT!!!!
"She still hides sweets like an alcoholic hides booze."
With your attitude and statments, I'm not suprised. " I wonder if you every give her a word of encouragement...I seriously doubt it. I read your words and its all about you. How about really looking at yourself. You seem to thank she should still have a great body after having kids. Well it doesnt work that way. Instead of support you put her down. Eating disorders are no different than an alchoholic. I bet you were constantly reminding her that if she ate something or too much that she would gain the weight back.
I have seen people (men and women) with the same attitude. What it really comes down to is you are afraid if you divorce its not you who will find the happiness. You are afraid she will find the happiness.
"Imagine your significant other 75 pounds overweight, often stinky with gas, and poor knees, and kids who need your daily love and attention, and look me in the eye and try to tell me I'm ass. I'm just human. "
I dont have to imagine it. He is overweight more than 75 lbs and did does have gas, he has poor knees and yes, we do have a child that needs love and attention. I WISH HE HAD MANY MORE DAYS TO BE FARTY, STINKY, IN HIS RIGHT MIND, AND NOT DYING.
You got one thing right. Yes you are human and a very selfish one at that. I suggest you be thankful that you have a wife with bad traits and all. I'm sure you are not without faults. Trust me, your not. No one is without faults.
Topic Affair wanted
13 Oct 2012 22:09
Ok. This might get deleted but hey its worth a try. First, its not about you. If your wife had the gastric bypass surgery and has foul gas (not that your guess smells like roses) then something is wrong. She may need to change her diet and she could add beano. Also it sounds as though she may need to add a probiotic to her diet. By the way, if it doesnt stink then something really bad is wrong. I worked in a hospital and came across some really bad smells. I have yet to vomit over gas. I think you need to look at your own self. Im sure you are not perfect....from your post I would say far from it.
Topic My wife and my figure drawing class question?
01 Oct 2012 19:50
I think you need to do what your heart tells you. You know your wife and only you and your wife can decide what is best. I would give the suggestions that Chefkathleen made a try. When someone is not an artist they dont realize that everything becomes lines. I dont know about you but I know as an amature artist I was concentrating on getting the drawing just right instead of thinking "that dude is... or that girl is.... Drawing becomes about dimensions, lighting, shading, and depth. You might also tell her....yea she is young and all that but I want a girl who is my gift, not for everyone to see. Everyone can see a naked body but not everyone can see the body I love. I know in my class I had to practice drawing. Ask her to be a subject. Make it fun. Draw her if or when she takes a bath or maybe while she getting dress. You can fill in the details as they come about and suprise her. I know I would love it. Show her that our bodies are not suppose to be perfect. Sometimes as we age/or have kids we gain weight. so what. That person that you fell in love with is still inside and she needs to know that. I know having my car accident and not being able to run 5 miles a day tends to let you pack on the pounds. Tell her and show her that its not the body that is sexy but how you carry yourself. If you feel sexy then you will look sexy. Society and especially the media says we are suppose to be super thin, but we live in the real world. I would rather be overweight and happy than to be slim and miserable.
Topic drinking urine
30 Sep 2012 21:13
Yes, It can be. You are drinking ammonia, urea acid. Think about it. It is a waste product. You are putting waste in your body and back into your kidneys concentrated. You will damange your kidneys if you continuously do it. Trust me, dialysis is not fun.
Topic have you cheated your partner? if YES, what's the reason behind?
28 Sep 2012 16:07
Never have and never will. If you have the need to cheat then you really just need to exit the relationship. There are no found reasons for cheating, and I have heard all the reasons why. Cheating is cheating and there is no place for it in a real loving relationship.
Topic the best part?
26 Sep 2012 22:25
His eyes, smile, and his teeth. A man with beautiful smile is just sexy
Topic Android or Iphone
24 Sep 2012 04:58
I have had both the iphone 3, 3s, 4s and the the Android Razor. I love the Iphone much more than the Android. I rarely have to worry about viruses in programs that I get from the Apple store. I love the technical support that I have received over the years. My iphone is my computer, I use it for everything. My battery last a long time, but I close out unused applications (if you dont know how just ask me) and also set features to conserve battery. I can do more on my iphone than I could on my andriod devices. I was never much of an Apple fan until the Iphone came along. Now I want an Ipad. I guess its more your own personal preference than anything else. If you still are undecided go to different stores and try out the devices. That way you get the feel of each one. However, do not let a sales person push you into something you are not ready to do. Stand firm and do you own comparisons and read the differences. The information is out there to make an informed decision.
23 Sep 2012 19:16
My husband and I would cuddle. It was nice just being in each others arms and it is very romantic. I would light candles around the room. We would just cuddle and talk about our day. Usually we would fall alseep together. :)
Topic Offline & Online
22 Sep 2012 20:10
I unfortuately, I know the hurt of my husband cheating online as it is called. He had been emailing a woman for months behind my back. I never would have suspected anything because like everyone else we had normal marriage spats. In our worst of times I would never have thought he would do such a thing. And before you ask...Did I give him all sex he wanted? The answer is yes. Let me just say that he got everything he wanted. His cheating tore my heart out. When I read the words "I Love you more than my own wife." It hurt like hell. I got mad, angry, sad, and then I kicked him out. Cheating is cheating and it is never ok. Perhaps you and your wife need to roll play and pretend you too are having the affair by emailing each other.
Topic Kate Middleton Naked
20 Sep 2012 14:26
I am going to be the one that doesn't go along with the majority here. What right does someone have to use a telephoto lens on a camera and invade privacy? The next time you have a pervert peeking in your windows then don't call the police because you chose not to pull the blind or curtains. I don't care if you are famous or a celeb everyone has the right to some privacy. I'm sure of some would be flattered if someone took pictures but really does any one have the right to say she doesn't have the right to tan topless or have fun. Really? Have we become a society to say I can do that but you don't the right. Everyone should be treated equal and be able to have some privacy and just be yourself.
Topic Don't You Get Tired?
18 Sep 2012 11:37
It does get old very quick. What's worse when they ask in chat. Maybe they are just envious. I would say more about men but I would probably get in trouble. :)
Topic Uneven booobs!
15 Sep 2012 21:08
It is natural to have one breast larger than the other one. Unless you tell someone most men will never know. Most guys I know once they see "boobs' the thinking stops. LOL Don't worry about it. Your dominate side of your body is usually smaller
Topic Questions as I start dressing as a woman every day
13 Sep 2012 20:17
I dont know if anyone else has mentioned this, but for me I wear an all cotton bra. It isnt itchy and it is very comfortable. I like playtex 18 hour or Just my size. I have large breast so if I am happy with these bra (and I am very picky) them maybe you will be too.
Topic cock or tongue ?
13 Sep 2012 20:15
For me size doesnt mean a darn thing. If you can rock my world then who cares. Its not the size of the tools, its how well you know how to use them. :)
Topic New girlfriend and the awkward question of past sexual health.
12 Sep 2012 16:31
The chat should be early in the relationship. I personally asked early in my relationships. These days you can't be too careful. If they are offended to bad. I mean it could cost you your life, and no one is worth that. Remember condems only reduce your chances and are not a full proof. I know I talked to my boyfriend in a relax atmosphere. We were in the bench swing relaxed. No pressures. No horriness or hormones to influence your decisions. Stand firm and get the tests or say no. If your partner doesn't care enough to get tested then do they really care about you? There no excuse for not getting tested. This is just my opinion.
Topic Is it right to fall for somebody on this site?
10 Sep 2012 21:51
You never know when the love bug is going to bite. Keep in might that people are people and some tend to be Not so up front on the Internet. I know I have a some big stories told to me. It's easy to think they are perfect because their flaws can't always be seen. Keep a level head, open mind, and use caution when someone or something sounds to good to be true.
Topic Man with ED
09 Sep 2012 18:56
I think you should keep trying. Seek the advice of a doctor to check if your prostate is enlarged, anemia, or diabetes. Get your thyroid checked too. If not then try acupuncture. I know...needles but it really works. I have seen to many men do the drugs for helping ED end up with some major complications. I tell people it's your body saying "hey, get me checked out". I'm no doctor, but it can't hurt.
There is a lot of things you and your partner can do that is pleasurable. Give it try, you just might find out its a lot of fun!
Topic Blow job
08 Sep 2012 22:52
Why not give a bj while on your cycle. Sex during your period can be good. The only time I would not relations is if I have cramps really bad. I know some girls are taught any sex is forbidden during this time. Some of my friends also tell me they are not even a bit horny during this time. Maybe that is it.
Topic erect penis
07 Sep 2012 04:51
I would be thinking...."pervert". With a disgusted look on my face.
Topic First Impressions.
31 Aug 2012 00:12
You really didn't need to do this. Just let people chat with you and get to know you. Since these kind of request often leave the mental image of fingernails running down the chalk board, I refuse to even bother. I am just going to think it is your age or you are a fb generation junkie. There are lots of great people here, I'm sure if you visit the chat room and introduce yourself you might get a better response.
Topic New here
28 Aug 2012 19:55
Welcome. It's a great place. Great people