Topic Story Tags - How important are they?
16 Feb 2013 11:28
The tags help a lot. Usually, if a story can catch my eye in the opening paragraph, I'll probably read through. There are certain things I'm not a fan of, but I know not everyone will like what I write either.
Topic Chat and Cybersex on this site question
16 Feb 2013 11:25
Wow, most of what was said is what I would have said. I have myself set as "away" so I don't get bombarded by "chat requests". You can also set yourself as "invisible" which I do if all I want to do is read & not be bothered by even the "on-line" chats (the little 100 character limit window).
Now, everyone has a different opinion about the cyber thing, and I respect your opinion in this. Happily, most of the folks I chat with have taken the time to get to know me first before engaging into a cyber session (and only a select few have cybered with me.) So, I think if you follow the advice the wonderful folks who have already given, you should be fine.
Oh yeah... and for those who think you're being a bitch... FUCK THEM! (not literally) You are here to share your stories and maybe read a few (I know that's why I'm here.) I stay because there are a few I love to chat with, and I get great feedback on my stories.
Stay strong hon! We might not agree in the realm of cyber, but I respect your opinion and desire to share your work.
Topic Open Crotch Panties
16 Feb 2013 11:16
Wow. I think I might be the one person with a different opinion here. I have owned 2 pairs, one I like way more than the other. The one I liked I wore under a short skirt and it was great. I didn't have to deal with them for using the bathroom or sex. I even was able to sit on my date's lap in a crowded bar and fuck him publicly without anyone knowing (he kept his shirt untucked so when I slid off it covered his cock.) It worked great as no one saw him reach under my skirt, and yet, we were getting our freak on.
The reason I liked the one vs. the other was the design. They were black, sheer, lacy, & very stretchy. My pussy was fully exposed, but my ass was semi-covered. The best part was the tiny gold whistle that hung over my bush (I'm so not making this up). Yeah they felt a bit weird but it was great! The one I hated had a small opening for my pussy and never lined up right.
I'm not a fan of having my panties torn off. Unless of course, the guy buys them for that purpose. For me, if I'm spending good money on panties, either take them off or push them to the side. Don't tear them off of me.
The few men who have been privileged to see me in my crotchless panties have complemented on their sexiness and enjoyed blowing my whistle. =d>
If you decide you really want a pair, you must find one that works for you.
Topic Guilty or Innocent.
15 Feb 2013 19:56
Innocent. However, I'm guilty of being up too late to due to LUSH.
Have you ever had oral sex while driving a car & you were the driver?
Topic Cumming inside
10 Feb 2013 16:27
It's not so much the sensation of the guy's climax but knowing I brought him to it. I don't care if he cum in my pussy or my mouth, it's just knowing I brought him that much pleasure makes me happy and turn me on so much. Sometimes, his climax will make me cum as well.
Topic younger guy attracted towards u, what will be ur response?
10 Feb 2013 16:21
Depends on the age. If he's under 18 (I teach so middle school boys sometimes get a crush on me) then I'm careful to let him down gently. However, there has been this 18 year old young man who more than once has flirted with me. Now, he is still a student where I work so I've done nothing to encourage it (I like my job thank you very much), but, if we were to meet and he continued to flirt, I'd love it. Actually, I enjoy it now... it makes me feel sexy.
Now, in all honesty, I'd let the guy down as gently as I could primarily because I'm married. However, when I was single, a guy that was more than 10 years younger was hard for me as any younger meant they were too close to my son's age and for me, that was just weird.
But... as long as it's just harmless flirting... it's all good. And it's a lot of fun.
Topic Ladies: Do you find cyber sex to be very arousing? If yes, What on a scale from 1 - 10
07 Feb 2013 17:02
I have cybered many times in a span of about 10 years or so, give or take. I have amazing 10+ experiences and horrid, shitty -10 experiences. The key to a good cyber session is communication. By this I mean, I and my partner need to pay attention to what the other person is saying or typing. I had one where the other person wasn't paying attention and I literally wrote myself out hoping they'd stop me. On the other side of the equation, the person was so careful with their word choice that I literally had an orgasm from reading their words. I like it when the person makes it clear what they like, and asks me what I like, or is willing to experiment a bit. I have found that good authors make good cyber partners as they get creative with what they write.
Now, I do need to be in a "cybering" mood to really get into it. If I had a shitty ass day, or I'm sick, I won't really be in the mood to play. Nothing I hate more than when the "other person" just assumes that I'm on like, ergo, I'm in the mood to cyber. I like to be asked first.
To me, cyber gives me some great ideas for stories, aids when I have writers block, and allows me to explore without breaking my wedding vows to my husband.
Topic full bush
06 Feb 2013 12:00
And honestly it's because I have found a lot of discomfort when I've shaved. My panties rub against my pussy and irritate it. The grow back is itchy and prickly. And the maintenance is a bitch. I know some ladies shave and/or wax and that is their choice. This is mine.
If a guy doesn't like it... then he can find someone else to be with. I don't tell him how to wear his pubic hair so why should he tell me how to wear mine?
I hope that answers your question... & I hope you hear from other ladies.
Topic For a guy, am I.........?
05 Feb 2013 10:08
As a guy, all I want right now is to love someone and have them love me back. Is it normal for this emotional neediness to occur? Does this make me any less of a man? Would women really take me seriously? Would my kind, caring and loving nature once again be taken advantage of? :( I'm sick of abusive relationships..
I don't think you're less of a man, in fact, I think you have recognized the basic human need we all crave, and thus aren't afraid to say, "This is what I want & deserve." Yes some women would take you seriously, and some will try to take advantage of you. That is an unfortunate fact. However, my advice, and I mean this sincerely, is don't settle for anything or anyone less than what you deserve. It took me three marriages to find the right man for me. A man who would always put my needs first, respected the love I have for my child, and loved my independent spirit. He has never tried to change what he found most sexy about me, and in turn, I strive to do the same for him.
I wish you luck in your pursuit of love & happiness. I feel we all deserve love, male & female. Don't settle for anything less that what you deserve!
Topic Is girls masturbating still considered taboo?
04 Feb 2013 17:21
I don't think it has ever been taboo. There are just lots of women that can't admit they do it
It just depends... I was told it was only for sluts & whores. I know better now & I never discouraged my son from doing it (and yes, I did accidentally catch him once, but I didn't make him feel like shit.)
Topic Is girls masturbating still considered taboo?
04 Feb 2013 17:20
When I was younger, my mom told me only sluts masturbated. After my 2nd divorce, I realized that it was cheaper, safer, and easier. Not to mention totally natural. Now I'm happily married and my husband loves it when I help him get me off. Plus, when he's not in the mood, masturbation keeps me from fucking up my marriage. It's completely normal, natural, and it needs to stop being taboo. I mean, guys do it so why can't we? Plus, knowing what you like as a woman can aid in your sex life. I can either tell or show my husband what I like, or help as he's only got two amazing hands and can't touch as much as four can (his two, plus my two).
Topic SuperBowl commercials, your favorite last night?
04 Feb 2013 17:13
This was the commercial that made me cry the hardest. Kudos to Jeep for reminding us about those who serve, and who weren't sitting in their living room or favorite bar watching the game last night.
Topic SuperBowl commercials, your favorite last night?
04 Feb 2013 17:09
I loved this one and all I can say is... I want the Mom's wish about chocolate. I know my chocolate levels are dangerously low!
Topic Body Hair on a guy
04 Feb 2013 17:07
I always tell my men it's up to them. I think that chest hair is sexy, but if a man doesn't have any naturally (or very little) I just tell him that "grass doesn't grow on a playground." My husband has shaved his chest (including shaving love messages in his chest for me) and that's been cute and romantic. But I swear I've never asked him to do this for me. Back hair has never bothered me, but my husband has me tweeze his back every few days because he has a problem with ingrown hairs and they bother him so. When I first started, the roots were so deep I'd swear I was pulling chest hair. Now it's something I do to remind him how much I love him.
Arm and legs are fine with hair for me, but again, if a man was more comfortable shaving this area, that would be fine with me as truly it's his body.
Pubic hair is also a "personal choice" region for me. If a man like so to shave this area for whatever reason (hygiene, feel, issues with ingrown hairs, etc) that's his choice. But I also remind my man that my pubic hair is my "personal choice" region. Happily, my hubby doesn't care either way.
My husband does shave his underarms primarily for hygiene reasons. He's the only man I've known to shave this region, and all I can say, it does help. I mean... that's party why I shave that region (and partly because I find it unattractive to have hairy armpits as a woman.)
Bottom line for me is this... I don't tell my man what to shave and he doesn't tell me. It's all about communication!
Topic The most weirdest/ bizarre place you've ever had sex in?!
03 Feb 2013 16:30
For oral, it has to be driving an early 90's model Ford Bronco (the old big one) on the I-15N coming back from San Diego. He had me push the seat back, raise the tilted steering wheel, and set the cruise control which worked until I orgasmed and my foot hit the gas. I passed a cop doing 110 mph, but luckily for us we were just outside the border patrol check point at the Temecula/Fallbrook border (those familiar with the area know what I'm talking about) and we got lost in the traffic.
For sex itself, the swimming pool at my (ex) mother-in-law's pool at her mobile home park. We almost got caught! So fucking hot!!!
31 Jan 2013 14:00
Never really thought about the music but something soft, slow, sexy would be nice.
Topic How many cyber-partners have you had?
31 Jan 2013 13:57
Years ago I would frequent adult chat rooms on Yahoo (before they got rid of them). Often, I'd test the waters, but over time, a few got me to cyber with them, and thus became my regulars. Over time, I lost contact with all but one with whom I no longer cyber with, but we still keep in contact.
However, since coming to Lush, I have enjoyed some cyber sessions with a few members and I have found that element I was missing. I like the openness of the people here and the respect I get. I also like we don't always cyber... but just talk. I know that sounds weird on a site like this, but sometimes the communication & chat is what I need, or what the other person needs.
The people on this site are simply awesome.
Topic Giving Head
29 Jan 2013 15:54
Personally, I like lying in the bed either on my side or on top of him... 69 is always fun as I get something as well. I dislike being on my knees as it hurts and I have issues with my knees already without sitting on them for a long time. However, I have just sat on the floor while he was sitting so I could suck his cock and I could sit on my ass... that totally fucking worked.
26 Jan 2013 11:44
I've been here before and it really depends. I can say for myself personally, seeing my (ex) husband fuck another woman was hard for me. However, it depends on the relationship you have with your husband.
Topic What do you find sexy on a man?
24 Jan 2013 21:40
bare chest, snug jeans, bare feet, eyes full of mischief, and lips that make me want to sin ...
Why does this sound so.... familiar... so.... 50 Shades of Grey ?
That does make for a hell of an image though!
Topic What do you find sexy on a man?
24 Jan 2013 21:38
For me, a man looks good when he is well groomed. He can look hot in a t-shirt & jeans, or a nice suit as long as his hair is brushed, and he's either clean shaven, minor stubble, or well groomed facial hair.
Sloppy isn't sexy.
Topic Any ladies ever had an orgasm in your sleep (when sleeping alone obviously)
24 Jan 2013 21:30
I have dreams like this quite often. Especially if I haven't had sex in a while. My latest one was me being fucked by a centaur. The orgasm always wakes me up as my body convulses as I cum. The first one I had freaked me out (I was quite young) but once I found out they were completely normal, I stopped stressing about it. Now I just accept it as my mind dealing with my sexual urges, and possibly stress as I always feel better afterward.
I mean... it's not like I'm cheating on my husband... it's just a dream. And it's a safe way for me to fuck someone I'm not married too... but I often dream of my hubby.
Though... not always.
Topic Does age really matter?
23 Jan 2013 11:48
I have a bit of experience with this. My 1st husband was 19 years older than me. It wasn't our age difference that was the problem, it was his desire to change me, & his cheating that did us in. My 2nd husband was 9 years older than me. As with the first husband, it wasn't an age issue that caused our demise, but his drug use and cheating ass.
My current husband is almost 2 years younger than me, and we've never been happier. He doesn't do drugs, he doesn't cheat, he doesn't try to change me, and we respect each other. To me, age has always been just a number. It's about the relationship the two people share. It is harder for couples with an age gap as so many don't understand. But here's the thing... a good man is a good man, a cheating bastard is a cheating bastard. Doesn't really matter how old or young. Any man that expects a woman to change to what he THINKS he wants is doomed. Any woman who thinks she's going to change her man to what she THINKS she wants is equally doomed. My husband & I have accepted our differences, we respect each other, and learned from one another what works & what doesn't. We've even discovered new things that the other liked that we like.
The key is communication. I wish you luck in your relationship.
22 Jan 2013 20:11
When speaking, some contractions are interchangeable, should their use be different when writing? Such as...
We're not vs. We aren't
She's not vs. She isn't
Does it matter to you as the reader? Is it better to let the person He,She, They stand alone?
I think for me it depends on the dialect of the character speaking. The hard part is making the speech understandable.
22 Jan 2013 10:55
I have a son that i breastfed and im pregnant and plan on doing the same. I was a little shocked and disgusted when i read online that a woman's husband would NOT let her BF because he found it offensive and told her they were for his sexual pleasure.
So my question is, If you've ever seen a woman BF do you find it offensive and would you care if your gf/wife wanted to BF?
Wow! Sounds like my ex-husband.
He didn't like breastfeeding because he "Couldn't see how much the baby was eating & didn't think the baby was getting enough to eat." His 1st wife and mother of his 2 kids either couldn't or didn't breast feed her two kids (I say couldn't because I once heard her nipples were inverted and if that was the case, then it wasn't her fault.) Either way, she did what she felt was best & had her reasons.
Now, our son (who is 19 now) gained weight nicely, and the doctor was pleased with his weight gain, and felt I was doing the right thing. I would have breast feed him longer had I not lost my milk after 3 months (an issue that sadly runs in my family).
There is nothing offensive about breastfeeding as long as it's within reason. It's one thing to breast feed until the child is 6 months to a year, but these "extreme" moms nursing a 4-6 year old child... that's just weird to me.
I think the men's issue is jealousy. We can do something they can't. For me, it was a special bonding time for me & my son. I treasured my time and I don't regret a single moment of it.
Topic Missionary Sex
22 Jan 2013 10:44
Missionary has always been my personal favorite as I love having the man looking deep into my eyes. Plus, Cowgirl/Reverse Cowgirl causes problems for me (it's a physical issue). Though I like Doggie as it's fun to "mix it up" at times.
Plus... in Missionary... my man can go from fucking me to eating my pussy much faster.