Topic looks, body or personality?
06 Jan 2013 11:12
Looks and body will get you through the door... but if there is no personality... there is no relationship. However... I've found that personality can make or break looks real fast. A bad personality makes for an ugly person and a great personality enhances looks.
Topic Feelings towards longer Lush story
05 Jan 2013 10:25
I have never worried about the length of a story... sometimes they are fairly short... others are pretty long. My longest on Lush had to be broken into 2 parts as it broke the 10,000 word limit. I didn't intend it to be that long... but it was. So... I reviewed and split the story at where I felt was a logical split point. Each part is clearly marked as part 1 and part 2, and both parts have scored well. Actually... that story was the first time I realized there was a "size" limit. This won't affect any future stories I write... just how I post them. And now that I'm aware of the word limit... I'll be mindful of how I post them.
Topic Can I get an interview with you?
04 Jan 2013 20:16
Introduce the title of your story: Cala de Sirena & Return to Cala de Sirena (parts 1 & 2)
Genre/Category: Love Stories
Provide the link:
Cala de Sirena
Return to Cala de Sirena Part 1
Return to Cala de Sirena Part 2
1. What first inspired you to write this particular story? I have a large collection of unicorn pictures, and one of my favorites is called "If I Were a Mermaid & You Were a Unicorn" where a little girl is pretending to be a mermaid reaching up to touch the horn of a unicorn, that's really a horse.
2. How did you come up with these characters? The male lead, Don, was my first attempt at writing a story from a mostly male POV and was modeled after a few gentlemen I know. The female lead, Angel, is kinda me... but not... and her name was a pet name someone called me & I thought... that makes a great character name.
3. How does it differ from some of your other stories? It's the first story with a sequel. Both were told in a 3rd person POV, with limited omission, from the male character. We hear his thoughts, we see his dreams, we learn things as he learns them. I've always written from a female POV in either 1st or 3rd person... but this was my first from a male... and I think I was pretty successful.
4. What was the most challenging thing about writing this piece? Writing a story that focused on the male, putting him in a positive light, while still keeping him somewhat realistic.
5. Anything else you want to tell us about it? It's a sweet, romantic tale about love, heartbreak, and a touch of magic.
http://upload.lushstories.com/330-If I Were a Mermaid & You Were a Unicorn.jpg
Topic Why Do You Not Vote/Comment
04 Jan 2013 19:02
I rarely don't vote unless I don't finish the story (and that's if it enters an area I'm personally not comfortable with or I have to leave before I can finish.)
I don't mind leaving a comment, but I don't like being "forced" to comment. I usually leave a comment if the story was really well written. However, I like the option. I'd rather leave a comment because I WANT to... and not because it's the only way I can vote.
I leave positive comments if I really like a story... if I don't or if I see some problems... I will send the writer a private message as the comments are public and can actually hurt a story's success if there are too many negative comments.
As my mother said, "If you can't say something nice... shut the hell up!"
04 Jan 2013 09:08
I'm so tired of being told shaved is the only way to be. I'm proud of my curly blond bush & I have no intention to shave it off.
Besides... when I did... I discovered for me personally... how fucking uncomfortable it was that way. I couldn't wait for my hair to grow back.
Topic Why swallow?
03 Jan 2013 11:42
For me... swallowing started as a "challenge" of "I'll bet you can't get me off and swallow." I did it and discovered that it actually aroused me even more. Plus... there is something to be said for the sound a man makes when he's cumming... the moans, the gasps, the cries of passion... so fucking sexy.
Besides... I expect a man to know how to please me orally so why should I return the favor? My man deserves my best. And if that includes swallowing his cum... so be it.
Topic CYBER SEX
03 Jan 2013 11:36
I guess it depends on your imagination & the person you're chatting with. I've had some cybers where it did nothing for me... and I've had some that had me so aroused and wet that when I did finally reach orgasmic climax it was almost painful.
Actually... some of my best cybers have become the foundation of my stories. I can name at least 3 or 4 or my stories that were once a cyber scene I was doing with a "stranger" on another computer. I like my cyber partner with a great imagination and vocabulary. The more detailed (within reason) he or she can get... the better.
I also agree with Gurlyboy... seduction is key to a good cyber... unless I'm in a chat room for cybering... don't just assume I'm going to want to cyber right away... chat with me... ask me about my day... make sure I'm in the right mood. I'm human... I have feelings... & like all of us... I have shitty days too. So... seduce me... talk to me... flatter me... make me feel sexy & beautiful.
And understand... I will try to warn you if I need to leave soon... and please LISTEN or READ what I write... nothing I hate more than someone who doesn't pay attention to my words. Cyber is an interactive process... and must go both ways. I will read your words if you are willing to read mine.
Topic Do you believe in Ghosts
02 Jan 2013 10:05
Yuppers. And just like people... some are good and some are bad.
Topic Writer's block
02 Jan 2013 09:59
Try the paper and pen/pencil approach. Just jot down the idea even if it's in an outline form.
Another thought... is record your idea with your voice. There are several free programs where you can record your voice so instead of trying to type... just speak your idea (you can also use a tape recorder or other devices) and later, listen and type.
I think it's more of a psyching yourself out... too much stress at a blank word document. Also, do you like quite or are you a noisy background person. I personally do my best writing when there is music or the TV making noise in the background. Some need absolute quite.
Okay... I wish you lots of luck & I hope one day I'll be reading your story.
Topic rubbing dick on teeth do u do?
31 Dec 2012 09:39
I have many a time allowed my teeth to gently drag along the shaft to enhance the sensation. I've never had a guy complain.... they might be spooked at first... but once they realize I won't actually bite them or hurt them... they realized how fucking erotic the sensation really is. Thus... they tend to cum even harder.
Topic How important is the title?
30 Dec 2012 17:20
Often my titles start off as a way for me to remember the story as I save it. Sometimes it changes to better fit the story... but it's not something I put a lot of though into. I've had stories that have been posted with the original title, and others I have changed the title on as it fit the story better.
I do wish I put more thought into some of my titles... and lately I have... some are more "cryptic" than others... but if you read the story you understand it quickly enough. Might be why many of my stories don't get the hits I would like... but I do try to provide a hint or two in the description of the story.
Topic Sex Toys
30 Dec 2012 15:52
If you're a single gal... a bullet is great for clit stimulation... I loved mine. I've had vibrating & non-vibrating dildos and I found I prefer the vibrating ones as I'd get off faster... but be warned that you can easily over do it and make it to where you can't get off without it.
And yes... always clean it. I used just plain old soap & water with a cloth. If you can look at the toys, touch them, maybe turn one on & feel it in your hand, it might help you decide as well (I know it would be best in other places... but I'm assuming they won't let you use the product as they are intended until after you buy.)
Good luck with your purchase. I hope you get many hours & nights of pleasure.
Topic Oh God I'm bored but love my wife
30 Dec 2012 11:00
Well... I used this site to post my stories initially... then I would chat and on occasion found the chats aroused me. I'd rather my husband come here to fantasize and jack-off then fuck some whore & ruin our marriage.
Try talking with her... share the stories... if she doesn't go for that... share your fantasies... even if you know you'll never act on them... communicate is the key to any good relationship. You might find she likes them, has some in common... or some of her own you never thought of.
It's worth a try right? Fantasies aren't always meant to be a reality... that's why they are fantasies.
29 Dec 2012 11:11
My husband and I have had many a cuddling session that didn't lead to sex. Cuddling is about intimacy, and closeness that two people share. Sure sometimes it leads to sex... but it's not a mandate... it's really about being close to someone you really care about... someone you love.
Topic The real reason why girls don't voice chat/voice message with online programs?
29 Dec 2012 11:02
My reason is practical... my husband doesn't mind my writing erotica or chatting... but if he heard me talk dirty with someone, it would cause a problem in my marriage. Even though he benefits from my arousal from typing, having to hear me talk with another person about sex, sex acts, etc., would upset him.
When I was single... it was different. Now that I'm married... I won't voice chat. I've been asked before... I explain my "why" and if someone doesn't understand or respect it then that's their loss.
Actually, I'm glad Lush doesn't have that and if I were to want to voice chat... which as I stated earlier... I don't... I will use a program like Skype or Yahoo Messenger for that.
Topic Girls, do u like sleeping naked? What do u usually wear to bed?
28 Dec 2012 22:33
If I've just had sex... I'll stay naked & cuddle with my hubby.
Otherwise... a tank top, panties, & shorts... no long pants... no long sleeves. I know my best friend thinks I'm a nut... but it's the way I'm most comfortable.
Topic How do you like to be contacted here on Lush?
28 Dec 2012 22:28
Well... I've like the e-mails as it allows people to introduce themselves. I don't always chat as it becomes a bit time consuming. I do the on line chats with those on my friends list. The pokes are fun... and sometimes they start a conversation. I love comments on my stories & my profile page. If a guy has a picture of his cock on his page... that's his choice... don't assume that any of the pics on my page are really me... because none are. If at some point I feel comfortable enough... I might share my pic... but it won't be a nude.
Topic Readers: Do sex scenes have to be explicit?
28 Dec 2012 11:04
If the story is well written, it doesn't matter. For me, as an author, I go with the way the scene feels. I might have one explicit sex scene, and follow it with two quick ones... or it will all be implied. I read one that didn't have explicit sex... but the build up was great... the cliffhanger left me wanting more.
Write a great story... word of mouth will get you noticed. I always share good stories by either making them my favorite... or telling others... to read this person's story.
Topic women and sucking a mans penis.
26 Dec 2012 18:42
It's the pleasure I bring to my man... he enjoys what I do & I can tell by the thickening of his cock and the soft moan from his lips... and if I'm lucky... he'll cum in my mouth & reward me with a sweet treat!
Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
25 Dec 2012 09:39
Though I've never read any of Poppet's stories, and for that I do apologize and will work to rectify soon, I like how honest she is in her bio. I know we aren't friends & probably won't be as I live on the other side of the USA from her, but I am impressed with her ability to state clearly and with class what she will & won't don. I have seen her on the forums and that's probably where I know her best... or rather... her writing.
Don't worry about responding to me Poppet... I plan on reading your work as some of it has my attention. And don't worry... I won't request to add you as a friend as I do respect you words. How can I not? You were honest and eloquent. A quality I personally admire. Hope to read more from you soon (besides what I read on the forum).
Topic Sex with another man while husband/partner watches?
24 Dec 2012 10:15
1) Do you ever fantasize about your husband/partner watching you have sex with another man? Yes
2) Would you really like it to happen? Maybe... if he were willing or really wanted it
3) Has your husband/partner actually seen you have sex with another man? No
Topic detailed masturbation survey
23 Dec 2012 18:14
Are you male or female? female
How old are you? 43
How many times a week do you masturbate? 2-5, just depends on my mood
How many times do you orgasm each time you play? once... it's just a stress reliever
Where do you masturbate:
In bed? sometimes
In the shower? yes, but a hand-held shower head makes it much easier
In the bath? rarely
Outdoors? Even more rarely than in the bath
At work? No, but there is a reason for that
Every room in the house? Yuppers, except my son's room
In a car while traveling... ? I have
What do you fantasize about when you play:
A significant other? Usually
A friend? Sometimes
A friend's spouse? No
A stranger? Sometimes
A student? Sometimes
A member of the same sex? Sometimes
A past lover? Sometimes
What position do you play in:
On your back? Yes
Lying on tummy? No
How do you play:
With left hand? Yes
With right hand? Yes
With a toy? Not at the moment, but only because I need to get a new toy
With water from bath? No
Written erotica? Yes
Movie clips online? Yes
Something on TV? No
What is your favorite porn:
Straight sex between man and woman? Yes
Gay or lesbian sex? Sometimes
Group sex or orgies? Yes
Blow jobs/oral sex? Yes
Age play? Depends
Role playing? Yes
Have you ever masturbated to:
Email messages? Yes
A chat room dialogue? Yes
Exchanged stories or pictures? Yes
Have you ever:
Been caught masturbating? Yes
Masturbated for a man/woman? Yes
Masturbated for the same sex? Yes
Masturbated in a group? Yes
Masturbated for a photo? No
Masturbated for a webcam? No
Masturbated for a video? No
Do you ever:
Play with nipples/breasts when masturbating? Sometimes
Insert something or play with your ass? No
Insert something in mouth when masturbating? Yes
Use pain as a method of playing? Hell No!
For men and women:
Do you taste your cum? Yes
When was the last time you masturbated? A few days ago
Are you wet or hard now? Not really
Are you going to masturbate now? No, but I may later
Are you a masturbation addict? No
What is the most you have played in one day? 3 times