Topic Older or younger?
01 Dec 2012 10:56
1st husband - 19 years older
2nd husband - 9 years older
Current husband 15 months younger
Age is just a number... I don't care if he's older or younger as long as I'm treated well.
Topic A question for Women
01 Dec 2012 10:53
I find these questions overly generic.
Yes I think men enjoy sex as much as women. But to say ALL men are this way is unfair. Some men are looking for their next fuck but so are some women. I think that some men are looking for both someone to share ideas with, both sexually and otherwise. Some men are looking for suggestions and advice to please their real partner without jeopardizing the relationship they are already in. I've never seen chatting here as being unfaithful, but more as a way of safely exploring new ideas to better please their partner.
Topic do u feel sexual need while u chat in lush with a stranger?
01 Dec 2012 10:46
It really depends as I don't always talk sex with people on Lush... sometimes we share story ideas or talk about stores we read that we really liked or didn't like. But I have indulged from time to time and it would be a lot easier if this site didn't glitch so much like it has lately.
Topic Anal on him?
01 Dec 2012 10:44
Best strapons ladies r those that can ejaculate up there.Luvly.
I wish I had known this as it might have been more fun for both of us.
Topic Anal on him?
01 Dec 2012 10:44
I did it with my ex-husband twice. He fucking loved it but it was majorly weird for me.
Topic Heartbreak-Which song sums it up for you?
29 Nov 2012 14:40
Lisa Lisa & the Cult Jam sang it best with this 80's classic. I even saw her perform this live in concert in Vegas once and it was amazing. All Cried Out says it all for me.
Topic Crotchless Knickers
28 Nov 2012 18:55
I have one pair... if I wear them... I wear them for both our pleasure & I expect to be rewarded for this... with either being fucked or eaten... or both!
Topic Going without...
28 Nov 2012 17:08
Going without sex for awhile, lets say a couple of weeks. Will you be sore when you have sex for the first time after going without for a couple of weeks?
If anything... I came so fucking hard it was amazing. He made sure I was wet enough and the orgasm was mind blowing. It's not that we don't love each other... but life got busy and we just didn't... but when we did... when we do... it's fucking amazing.
Topic Be honest: Do you REALLY like sucking a cock?
28 Nov 2012 16:57
I know some find it repulsive and gross because men use their cock for both sex and urination, but I think it's worth trying. My first time was I was spooked as I didn't know what to expect, but I was with a very patient gentleman who told me what he liked and basically walked me through, though some of what I did was instinct. I have successfully sucked a man to climax (orgasm) and swallowed his seed. I will honestly say that of all the men I've taken to this point (not all my lovers) that each one "tasted" differently. Some were better than others. It's not something I do as often as I once did as I miss the sensation of raw sex and I haven't meet a man who can still fuck after cumming from a blow job (and for the record... I'm not saying there isn't such a man out there, but I haven't met him.)
I know some men like certain aspects of oral sex and I think the best thing is for the two people to talk about what each likes and is willing to do. I can't DT a guy but I am willing to swallow. Another woman can DT but might not be willing to swallow. The key is... communicate what you do & don't like and what you will & won't do.
Honestly, if a guy doesn't like his cock sucked, or can't eat my pussy, for me that is a deal breaker. What can I say... I really enjoy good oral sex!
Topic Blow Jobs: Balls or No Balls?
19 Nov 2012 13:02
Sometimes I lick the balls... but mostly I use my hand as I can't DT a guy, even though I've really tried. When I first learned to suck a guy's cock, he never said anything about his balls. My hubby does shave his balls so it saves me dealing with the hair. He likes it, but prefers the attention to his cock.
If a guy likes his balls licked & sucked... he should tell his partner that. I know I've told my partners of my past and present what I like & don't like. Not to be a bitch, but so he knows what will & won't please me.
Topic Panties or commando?
06 Nov 2012 11:17
I always wear panties, mostly thong panties (except when Aunt Flo pays me a visit), but I do have a pair of crotchless panties that I have worn under a skirt a time or two... but even still, a thong isn't that difficult for a guy to bypass.
Topic Would you like your partner to pull your panties/thong to one side and make love to you in public
05 Nov 2012 18:32
I've actually done this... in a swimming pool. He pinned me against the wall, pulled my suit aside and fucked me silly. We even had people walk by & they thought we were just making out... I did once wear a pair of crotch-less panties to a bar and my then boyfriend who was in a wheelchair do to a motorcycle accident and though we couldn't fuck, he did finger me in the bar as I sat on his lap. Since he was in the chair... no one thought twice about me being in his lap.
Location is the key to this... I'd do it in a bar, or a dark theater... but not in school or a church.
Topic circumcised or uncircumcised?
05 Nov 2012 18:03
do you prefer one or the other I prefer circumcised, but I've had more "cut" men than "uncut" men
do you have any fetishes with uncircumcised Nope
is it gross...if your not into uncircumcised... Not gross... just weird. I've only been with possibly 2 uncircumcised men (might have been 3 but he never showed me his cock) and I didn't actually fuck either of them (their choice... not mine as I was willing to try it out) but I did give one of the two a blowjob. It didn't seem that different to me, but he was a bit fussy and bitched about what I was doing. In all my years I've never had a man bitch like he did before... or after.
is it a special turn on when a guy tells you or when you see that he is uncircumcised... A hard cock is always a turn on... period
and just any other thoughts on the subject... I guess it's what you're used to... I mean... I didn't even know what being circumcised was until after I lost my virginity and a boy and I were talking about surgeries, and he said the only one he had was a circumcision. Then he had to explain it to me. It was the one thing my ex-husband and I agreed on with my son, getting him circumcised. For me, it was about hygiene, especially after my friend's son got an infection and had to be circumcised at the age of 3 (not a fun thing).
Topic Ladies and masturbation
01 Nov 2012 21:28
I guess I'm going to sound a bit odd but I masturbate 1-2 times a week. Sometimes more, sometimes less. Just depends on my energy level & sex drive. When I do it I'm either in bed or in front of my computer watching a video or reading a hot story that makes me so horny I have to masturbate so I can cum. However, if I have a hand held shower head, then I do a lot masturbation in the shower.
Topic Halloween outfit
01 Nov 2012 20:52
Hmmm... of costumes I've actually worn in public that were "sexy" were the sexy enchantress, a unicorn, a fairy, but my sexiest was my mouse... extra mini skirt, fishnet stockings, & lots of cleavage.
Topic if you will give a head to your man, will you spit or swallow?
01 Nov 2012 20:48
I've always been one to swallow. My only request... and it's a minor one is that my man give me a bit of warning if he can. Not asking for much, a moan, an "Oh fuck I'm cumming!" or whatever he wants. I mean, my breathing changes and I tend to yell or scream when I cum so why can't he.
24 Sep 2012 09:36
I have done roleplay here and other places. It's a fun & safe way to explore fantasies. Especially the ones you would never be willing to do in the real world. As far as what... depends on the other person. I'm a flexible player, but I prefer to be an adult female.
Topic Cock pics
24 Sep 2012 09:29
I have found that some men are more comfortable showing off their cocks than others. To me, it's a personal choice. I'm neither aroused nor turned off. I only get upset when they as for pictures of my boobs or my pussy. I know some women are more comfortable than others & again, those ladies who are willing to show off what they got, then good for them. For those of us who aren't comfortable with that... we have our reasons & we don't care if you understand them or not.
Topic wet dreams for women??
24 Sep 2012 09:19
Obviously its a well known fact that men have wet dreams, but do any woman experience similiar experiences.
Yes, ever since my 1st one (I can't say what age I was) I have enjoyed these and woken up with the onset of my orgasm. Often they are deeply rooted in my fantasies and involve either people I know or total strangers. I know it's my body wanting sexual release and my mind makes it happen. I have found these to be wonderfully normal and a safe way to explore fantasies. Besides... a good dream can be the inspiration for an even better story.
Topic Getting "Negative" Numbers
15 Sep 2012 09:54
Though I haven't had any "bad" scores here... on other sites I have. At first I did get upset & offended, until some nice readers contacted me (via e-mail or private messages) and pointed out my errors or brought spelling & typos to my attention so I could fix it. Once I realized that those with a brain and some compassion were bringing my flaws to my attention not to shame me, but to help me improve, I was grateful. Now, when I see errors in a reader's story, I send them a private message instead of posting a public comment as those could warp someone's views.
It's never easy to read criticism, but if you look at as a tool to help you improve... it can make you a better writer in the long run.
Topic 50 Shades of Grey hits 20 million sales in the US alone - it could happen to YOU!
15 Sep 2012 09:42
The 50 Shades Trilogy was the 1st thing my cousin's wife & I could talk about & it opened up not only a great dialogue about the books, but it opened a door for the two of us to become friends. She read the books when I had posted on Facebook that I was reading them. After reading them, I thought, I could do this, so I dusted off some old stories I had written, re-read them, edited them, and began to post. Since then, I've had a lot of positive (and a few negative) feedback which has inspired me to continue writing. I have personally always wanted to become a published writer... maybe, thanks to sites like Lush... I'll do it.
Thank you to anyone who's read my stories & given me feedback btw... you've inspired me to be a better writer.
Topic Authors, If you could recommend only one of your stories, which one would it be?
15 Sep 2012 09:29
I read this post and some of the replies and then I thought about what I would recommend if someone has never read any of my work. So, here's my thought.
If your in the mood for a good cry, I suggest reading "The Funeral"
A great love story would be "Cala de Sirena"
If your into Mature love stories, then "Frankie & Mrs. Young" is a good choice.
But my personal baby, the one I'm the proudest of, it the one I can only post the 1st chapter of, and that's "Parent-Teacher Conference" . For those who have read the entire novella (all 24 chapters) know why Lush won't post the rest & as sad as made me, I respect Lush's rules.
Topic What's on your sexual bucket list?
02 Sep 2012 19:07
1. To fuck a man between the age of 18-20, can't be any older than 21, may be a virgin.
2. Sex with at least 2 men, so I can have my MMF 3some (but if possible... I'd fuck 3 or 4 men)
3. Become a member of the mile high club... yuppers, sex in an airplane
4. Be bound, blindfolded, and sexually teased and fucked for hours (no physical violence except for maybe a mild spanking)
5. To lose my anal virginity to someone who understands how to train an anal virgin properly.