Forum posts made by oldfaithful

Gillian Anderson gets another vote from me.

First crush was Kelly LeBrock, surprisingly not from Weird Science but from The Woman in Red.

Not trying to hijack this thread but from the title i thought this was going to ask people what their favourite movie sex scenes are.

Ones that jump out for me are from my horny teenage years. Jessica Lange in The Postman always rings twice and Kathleen Turner in Body Heat both come to mind for me.

perfection is boring..i loved flawed people

but having said that...i dont think u have a person that is perfect for you..that would just set you up for failure & unrealistic expectations

what u look for is a lover who makes u laugh, loves a GOOD romp in bed & is loyal

the rest is all icing...

I keep thinking what i'll write in a thread then find that blazestcyr has pretty much summed up what i was going to say!!

The word perfect should never be used as you set someone up to fail by setting impossible standards your partner could never achieve.

I am 100% committed to my wife. She is my soul mate and has been for 20 years now. God that makes me feel old as i'm still in my 30's!

I still wouldn't use the word perfect. It's because perfect does not exist that i am on Lush every day. Lush gives me something i don't get elsewhere.

I agree with the other posts but would ask 'are you definitely happy and committed to your boyfriend'? Or is your fantasy a sign that something is missing from your relationship?

If all is well witn your boyfriend then you need to commit to him fully - both mentally as well as phyisically.

Because even if someone is a fuckbuddy, we usually want the person to put in a bit of work behind the scenes to keep the fire/interest burning. It doesn't have to mean a relationship, but you probably want to stay vaguely in touch during the downtime - maybe some flirty texting/sexting now and then, just to touch base. It can be no-strings, no-commitment, no-relationship, but if the guy acts *completely* indifferent and just gets in touch like "hey, I'm in town, wanna hook up" or you *only* hear from him at booty-call time, then yeah, it can be hurtful/annoying. There's a way for a fuckbuddy to play a situation that doesn't actually take much effort but still keeps the interest level there during down-time when you're not hooking up.


As usual another very insightful and intelligent contribution from DD!

Sorry MM but i have to agree with the others in that its time to move on. A fuck buddy works only if you're both completely happy with it. But as you said yourself it is getting to you. It sounds to me like deep down you want a more solid relationship based on more than just great sex.

I believe masturbation, male or female, is first and foremost a healthy part of life. Nobody should feel bad about something that is perfectly normal.

And of course the idea of a woman masturbating is also VERY hot. I wish my wife would do it. She hasn't done it since she was very young. It's not something she even thinks about....i think about her doing it more than she does!!

I was watching a dvd of Irish comedian Dara O'briain last and there was a great bit asking the audience what super hero you would be (real or invented) and what power you would have?

I thought this question on Lush might generate an interesting twist.

I like the idea of lizard man with an extendable tongue. Think what i could do with that!

when i even dream about being on Lush. I think i need to read a few stories today. Sorry folks but dreaming sexy stories is preferable to dreaming about chatting on forums!

I'm thinking about a frosty mug of ice cold beer.
Now i'm thinking that too. Thanks, i've got no beer in the house!

Oh dear, another bad day eh? Mine's not been too hot either. 25 hours work done in the lasr 2 days am now knackered. Knock on effect is to be really short tempered with the kids followed by guilt cos its not their fault. So.....Meh from me too!!

Hearing that advice i gave helped a fellow lushee have the best sex she's had for ages!!! It makes me feel real good to know i've done a good deed and someone has reaped the rewards!!

Well straight talk worked and last nice was the best sex we have had in a LONG time Thank ya'll for all you input

Really pleased to be of service! I feel all pleased with myself...even though you & your hubby did all the hard work!!

I have and he doesnt seem to get the hint but Im gonna try again tonight

Remember us blokes are not good at subtle hints! We need straight talking instructions!!

Ok well basically i have gotten pretty bored with mine and my husbands sex life and reading these stories has made me realize I like being controlled and I REALLY like rough sex I just don't know how to approach him about it
How about telling him what you would like him to do whilst in the throws of passion? Lot's of 'harder' and other such comments? Maybe he'd get the message pretty quick once encouraged?

The most important thing to consider here is that helping out around the house makes you a nicer person.

And of course the bonus is you will get more sex...just don't EXPECT more sex...keep on doing it and it will come!

Hey all I am new! I am not a writer but I LOVE to read the stories they are so hot and make me want to try new things.

Anything in particular you have in mind....which you'd like to share with the rest of us?

I wasn't sure where to post this, and then I saw the Pub is for hanging out, which you have to do, I think, for a blowjob.

So, once, I asked a mate why a blowjob is called a blow job, was it because you're meant to blow up his little hole? And she said nooooo, if you do that, he gets airbubbles in his blood and dies.

So then, I thought to myself, is it called a blowjob because you're meant to take him out of your mouth and blow along his shaft a bit? :-"

Or, is it called a blowjob because he blows his load after you suck him?

I've learned a lot since being here, but I still don't know this most basic of things.

Please help me. The Sexy Fairies will kiss your Happy Bits if you do.

Alas Shylass i cannot provide the definition you seek either. But thank you for reminding me of a family meal we once had during which an 85 year old auntie loudly asked my father in law across the restaurant table..."godfrey dear, what is a blowjob'. The restaurant fell silent and my father in law nearly died there and then. Priceless!

Hello and welcome. I'm officially new to Lush too although I have been a regular guest for the last year. I started visiting at first purely for the stories but soon moved over to the forums where I was constantly surprised by how welcoming everyone was. I remember loads of people being really kind and welcoming when Shylass first joined! So eventually i found myself visiting every day and finally joined myself and i can also say hello to you all!

I may be wrong but i wouldn't be expecting too much support from the girls. I reckon that's a fantasy that should stay firmly as a fantasy, especially as your wife doesn't want to go along with it.

u get HUGE props for your honesty..as long as u dont cheat on here...i am inclined to say ok....i mean most guys dont fess up each time they masturbate do they?

VERY good point! Thank you

I dont have an answer but id just like to say it makes a difference to see a guy who is actually committed and faithful for once!

Thanks MM, that's nice of you to say. Not that i find being faithful difficult...i've never even had an argument with my wife...mind you i do what i'm told most of the time so that helps!!!

Though i have been guesting for a long time, i finally joined Lush this weekend. I have a loving and completely open and honest relationship with my wife. Lush is my one and only secret and i can't help feeling a little guilty.

Are there many others out there who are married and are secret Lush members. Did you feel guilty in any way when you joined?

Or do i just need to man up a bit!!

This seems as good as any a time for my first ever post...even if it is on ask the girls. My number is one and one only. I've been with my wife my whole adult life. Sometimes i wish i'd met her a few years later but at the same time i'm kinda proud too for some reason.

So for better or worse i have no comparison and never will have.

My solution is reading the honest and engaging posts on Lush.

So hoping for many friends here on Lush for honest straight talking friendly banter!