Forum posts made by onansands

Topic Why don't women like to date bi guys?
Posted 25 Jun 2013 22:59

The presumption I take gentle umbrage with folks ,is a common thread in what you are all describing: You percieve us bisexuals as promiscuous and yet that doesnt always apply.
I mean I look at myself. I am monogamous.
When I am with a woman as a "man", she is mine and I hers.
If that relationship ends, well, I might "switch" I usually have done so.
But I was always faithful.
yes folks, just lay it on the table:
Anthropologically there is an ICK factor for straight women with Bi males.
I have always sensed that. there will always be a percieved inadequacy because How can she possibly be fucked so very good, by a male who has, and perhaps in another relationship, will: Suck Penises and take penises in their ass.
Yeah, his cock pumping in you is turning your pussy to magic mush and you are ready to burst into a cloud of stars with pleasure but you catch that glimpse of my face and you can't reconcile that in that instant you see me with a drool of semen on my chin!
Its a mess!
I mean when I pronounced myself bi sexual in college I was at times of course viewed as an unctuous, potential disease vector by straight women, and yet there were out "gays" who gave me flack for not accepting my true but latent homosexuality, they viewed my desire for sex with women as a form of denial.
At the time in retrospect, they were absoutely right inasmuch as the crunchy bi chicks that lay with me as an experiment to piss off their mommies and daddies were in promiscuous supply.
I had to prove i could seduce women.
I don't know. Bi is wierd.
Bi presents complications that must be learned.
Bi can be a lovely thing.
But it can also be a lonely thing for a while if you conduct yourself like a lech
you as a bi,
will be a pariah.
(unless you tell them of your tortured childhood dream of wanting to be a priest, then they might fuck you one time, out of pity!)
Be well all
be loved
ONASANDS

Topic Doing someone else's wife
Posted 21 May 2013 00:49

yeah I agree with the gentleman's post above me: i dont recommend having sex with another mans wife,
yeah, it may seem like fun to a 17 year old who can secretly know that he is, luxuriating in sex with a woman that his idiot compadres can only but dream of with the various school girls that wont give them the time of day.
however, ultimately you are walking into volatile situation when this woman, who is taking your lean and eager body for her pleasure. she is not only in the midst of a bitter breakup, but is also one of your scummy associate's mothers.
So, one day whilst lounging around in her bathrobe, having called in sick to her job as a professor as at a local college, she has decided that today is the day he is gonna get notice that he will be served the divorce paper's within days.
She has gone through half a bottle of wine, and thats when hubby comes home, thinking she is at work. He has brought his mistress with him and was planning on fucking her on the bed in the guest room but of course, wifey catches them... there are words accusations, slurs about sexual inadequacy, and she decides to drunkenly throw it in his face that one of her sons friends is a better fuck than he has been for years.
He rages "who"?, she drunkenly says its me.
He calls his son on the phone that night and says that his association with me has caused disgrace for him and their family and what is he, the son "GOING TO DO ABOUT IT"?.
Meanwhile, hey I dont know its going on. And a few days later I get invited over by my scummy associate and having nothing better to do, come over, whereupon he drunkenly beats me down (he was a karateka, and much bigger and stronger than me) overpowers me and then rapes me in the ass.
He threw me out of the house, my clothes were shredded. I thought I would split in half and bleed out, the blood saturating my jeans and staining my shoes. I was trying not to cry as I walked home so I wouldn't draw attention to myself. I felt I shouldn't exist. The sun was painfully bright, people were out mowing their lawns and kids played on back yard swing sets. I didn't want people to see this big stain of blood. I could smell that wet iron odor. I got home and staggered into my room and just lay in bed as day turned to night and thought about ending my life with a linoleum knife through my throat.
no, it wasnt worth it...
bad ju ju, yall

Topic Breaking up, when do you know it's over?
Posted 07 Feb 2013 19:43

I have read most everybody's writing about this subject. I really cant dissagree with any of that which was written, particularly about when conflict continues unresoved, and if the hope is gone for improvement together.
I read great things and can think only of a memory where I got into the shower with the woman who was at the time, my tortured beloved,
We stepped into the shower as we would always do together, and it was absent, strange and perfunctory and I knew something was amiss, it was surreal: I felt that I had got into the shower with a different person that I got out of the shower with.
Outside the shower, silently toweling off, she seemed strange and alien all of a sudden, and I asked the fateful question and it was confirmed.
All part of life. It was a good thing we parted, but boy it was puerile showy kid stuff when we reastablished our boundaries and identities... I am not proud of my behavior...

Topic These US gun control / law debates are pointless, here's my opinion why
Posted 25 Jan 2013 22:28

i see an exchange on here that seems to be between gun owners, the arguments are well constructed and thought out. as for the assertion that the second ammendment served as an institution to perpetuate slavery, i have no comment except i have never heard of any such thing and if the writer reads this I would love to be pointed to a history book that contains that information. That is pretty shocking stuff.
I want to say to the gun guys, pro and con of bans: i appreciate your attempts to convey your ideas in a civil manner with one another. The whole tenor of the media debate is extremely shrill and uncivil.
I will disclose that i am a 'mentally ill" individual who would suffer from these regulations because even though i have no significant history of violent behavior, hey, people don't have much faith that a person with even a treatable chemical imbalance is not a psycho: Therefore arbitraily, even if I wanted to own a fire arm for protection, i would be rendered a second class citizen by said legislation. i guess if it is for the greater good then i am quite for it.

i do feel that this country has many citizenry that are not "diagnosed" with anything that should be disarmed because their politics renders them dangerous.
I just feel that there are too many heavy action mass murder weapons around and as our politics becomes more volatile and confused people would essentially start aggregating and para-militarizing themselves,
I mean the rhetoric on virtually any subject in politics is so vehement as to be blood thirsty vitriol, like they are just egging somebody on who is on the verge of "going rogue" so to speak.
i dont know, i just appreciate that you folks are arguing this in a rational, non abusive manner. THANKS, no ill go back to oogling naughty pictures before i really put my foot in my mouth. i am out of my depth here most times!!!

Topic Abandoning a story?
Posted 23 Jan 2013 21:50

Hello and I thank you for the frank but kind response.
I don't know, I guess I just have this idea that something somehow "literary" (or "experimental) could be pulled off by me with a story,
I guess it's a personal sort of challenge for me to try to create erotic tension with "other" writing methods, however ineptly I may attempt to do so. Hey, I would rather be rejected by you kind folks than anyone else right now!!!
take care all....

Topic Abandoning a story?
Posted 23 Jan 2013 21:45



yes, we are. here's the thing... well known authors who write 'visceral stories that aren't traditional in structure' usually know a LOT more about the ins and out of grammar than most of us and follow the rules, or break them with consistancy, in the same way. it's not random. as a mod, I see, on a daily basis, what is submitted here - some very wonderful stories can be sidetracked by poor grammar - when I am pulled out of the story because of the way it is written, the story becomes frustrating. The goal here is to write accessible stories that can be enjoyed by all.

yes, we hope for a certain amount of artistry, but honestly, stories that are experimental to the degree you seem to be indicating won't find an audience here. this is an erotica site, and that is what we prefer to publish. Yes, I find passages of Joyce's Ullysess incredibly erotic (Molly Blooms's closing speech) but I would never suggest the novel should be published on Lush.

Know your audience. For an example, btw, of how to write in a somewhat non traditional manner and still adhere to proper grammar and spin an erotic tale, my i suggest the works of this woman:

:)

Topic Abandoning a story?
Posted 31 Dec 2012 22:48

I guess I have had to abandon certain ideas for purposes of propriety, even morality, I mean, it is good that this site has standards that are high in a lot of respects. They have kept baser aspects of freewriting in check: I started experimenting with sex young, far to young some would say and for me to finesse these memories into a story can actually be very unsavory. Then, the intensity can sometimes be lost if I have to "modify" these stories to protect the innocent, so to speak.
OR
Then I have to abandon stories which are in some ways violent or have what is considered a violation/exploitation by intoxication of some sort, that gets frustrating because well, if I were a better writer I suppose that proverbial paper bag would be easier to write myself out of...
OR
I have to abandon certain stories because, well, they arent stories truly, but wierd writing "gestures" that are scrap tappings of half poetry, or whatever, I don't know, I just have to keep trying I guess...
Oh, and the folks here are sticklers about grammar, structure and punctuation which can be stultifying inasmuch as that which I have submitted at times is meant to be more visceral, but in my mind not in need of traditional "structure"...
ehh...
i just keep trying I guess, right now, having pulled most drafts from my page, to work up new ideas.
hmmmmmmm

Topic just wonder if there is any interest in reading real life sex bio?
Posted 21 Dec 2012 14:30

Hey if its all true its better for you, if its well written then its better for us! As long as you violate or slander no one, go ahead! I write from personal experience in the sense that I do my best to identify noone specifically. Being Bi Sexual helps me obscure genders even more. Anyway, with notable exceptions, people on LUSH have been quite supportive and helpful...computer

Topic What is love or What do you think love is about
Posted 20 Dec 2012 19:48

Love is what survives when lust is no longer adequate...

Topic How did you first discover you liked reading sex stories?
Posted 20 Dec 2012 19:46

When I was 10 there were books my parents kept taking away from me as being "innaproprate" for me to read. I learned the words I wasn't supposed to read as fast as I could thereafter...

Topic Are all men unsatisfied with the size of their penis?
Posted 20 Dec 2012 19:43

I am not "all men", but I wouldn't blow me, accept for my wonderful personality, seriously, I wouldn't slobber over a cock like mine, usually!

Topic Ever think about getting together with a crossdresser?
Posted 03 Dec 2012 21:16

oh yes i would and have done so, though i no longer "pass" myself... in my younger days some of my earliest and most beautiful sexual experiences involved playing "boy-girl", dressing one another up to fuck when no females were at our beckon...

Topic Shaved, Trimmed, or Natural??
Posted 30 Jul 2012 22:52

Oh ladies, please, put down that trimmer and hear what I must say!!! A womans pussy is a divine thing and if you want to trim, coif or whatever, within reason, OK, but shaving, heavens no...
Its nice to have that gorse and bracken there adorning those sweet labia of yours and the hair retains heat and scent and moisture as well, so please, girls, put down the razor.
True:Not all of you look good or will even feel comfortable with an expansive bush, but if it feels ok to have your hair as it should be naturally then do so.
I looovvveeee the sensation of the hair ringing the labia as I touch my cock head to it, and that initial prickly slide into wet lusciousness after is a beautiful contrast in sensations.
Moreover, aggressive pubic hair can be th essence of sex itself.
Please I implore you, think before you shave!!!
As for males, I am less toleratant of a crazy mess of hair down there.
Trim it lads as I dont like flossing in general and it is sure tedious when I am trying to suck you off!

Topic Sexy Self or Mirror Pics
Posted 15 Jul 2012 21:06

WOW most of these are actual works of art, I am impressed at the framing of hese shots, as well as the seeingly casual composition of them which is clearly not so casual but well composed. Very good.

Topic why do men always want to stick their cock in someone's ass?
Posted 05 Jul 2012 19:27

As for the guys that insist on fucking the women they are involved with in the ass go, they are almost always pretty morally and psychologically suspect in my opinion: It is a pathetic domination thing, particularly if the woman doesn’t get anything out of it but pain. Some women do get pleasure, but most in my experience, don’t… It tended to get used when there weren’t condoms and she wasn’t on the pill which makes ZERO sense as far as protection from the virus, goes…
A guy who chooses most any woman’s asshole over any woman’s vagina has a prurient, abusive, or other type of corrupt agenda. Yeah, het anal was like the holy grail with so many guys I knew, it was crazy and really very vile, if you think about.
Relationships ended over it. It was actually a passive way to end a relationship for some guys. "Won't do anal, then you don't really love me" or some nonsense... Sick.
These are the kind of rotten boys who would just bend me over. For Shame! Then they could just think of a girl whilst I made very convincing girly noises, pump a load in me and treat me like a pariah afterwards…
As far as sensation goes the vagina is a far more comforting place to be when I am with a woman! There is simply no choice to be made, there is no comparison as far as your sensation and her responsiveness and kinetic variety goes. You can give so much pleasure with your cock, hows that for a reason?
Your question excluded us Bi and Gay boys, however, tsk tsk, :)! We have something special at times - A magical thing called a prostate and a perineum that is electrically charged. Thats just my take on the subject!

Topic short snappy cheeky poems
Posted 01 Jul 2012 20:16

Your clit is red
My balls are blue
lets get to a bed
and work this through

Topic Sexless life or lifeless sex?
Posted 01 Jul 2012 20:12

I think I am by a certain standard, the "dissatisfied" partner but I love her up with Joy every time. She is my beloved, we are neither of us young anymore and we are there for each other but we also have a mature separateness.
The best sex is always in the minds eye.
I just "settle" and let my imaginings be free. No one body can satisfy, ultimately.
Imaginings of others while with someone feed our mutual desire for each other. Longing or remembering another lover can spike a new interest in her or him. I for one, am thouroughly satisfied.

Topic Lush Photographers, Post "Your" Photos Here
Posted 29 Jun 2012 20:51

WOW. those are some beautiful photos, I truly am a newbie photographer when it comes down to it. I may have artistic pretensions but what pix are posted here are the real deal. Stunning.

Topic How kinky are you? TEST
Posted 29 Jun 2012 20:44

How kinky am I? I don't know I guess the term kinky is in need of definition. The kinky comes from context. I might have missionary style intercourse with a male or be fisted lovingly by a girfriend who then has me doggie style her. It's all about the moment. I go where it takes me. Sometimes it takes me far but I can still be surprisingly modest, uncertain at times, sex is part of life and mood and exigencies and everything can effect it. If PV intercourse is not kinky but being roistered jubiliantly by a male is then I am all over the spectrum...

Topic How long can you guys bang a girl for?
Posted 29 Jun 2012 20:03

4 hours, eh? Wow. to each his own good pleasure, I mean with either sex I can get in a zone and if he or she is with me in that zone, a fair amount of time can pass. Not to be trite but I am satisfied with quality, not quantity!

Topic naive and embarrassed
Posted 29 Jun 2012 19:52

I have had a female GUSH when she cums, not the sexiest but I knew I had done right by her and besides, I loved her!

Topic Which is hotter.. first kiss or first fuck?
Posted 14 Jun 2012 22:24

The first kiss is the best. the first sex should be a bit tentative in my experience, fiery pretense of expertise can spoil that first actual lovemaking, but the kiss that leads to the promise, that flash forward knowlege of the blissful sex to come after, is truly the best.

Topic Why do guys like lesbians??
Posted 17 May 2012 01:20

two women are beautiful to men, two men are non threatening to women as porn, perhaps... as for us Bi's well, I myself like all sex images for the most part if they are joy and pleasure