Forum posts made by pat278

Thank you everyone for your thoughts and suggestions. I will for the time being keep it as fantasy and perhaps when she put she puts the dildo to my lips, I will ask her if she likes it when I suck it and take it from there.

IF I ever did get to do this with my wife, I definately would not leave her alone. Not just because I would want to watch her be pleasured but for her safety. I guess where this all started in my head was to watch her with another woman. I really would love to see her experience another woman to see if she would like it or not. She has said she has thought about it before but just not sure she could go through with it. Over time it has started in include me sharing her with another man. There are time when I have cum and need some time to recoup and she is still wanting to go, she really loves sex and love to go a long time. I want her to be satisfied. If I can not always satisfy her then I am open to having someone else help me. But then that's where my problem comes in. I want her to be satisfied but I guess I would want to choose the person that is satisfying her. Please do not get me wrong there are more times than not that she is fully satisfied.

I love watching my wife suck my cock. Love watching her enjoy herself and giving me pleasure. Watching her lips around my cock, moving in and out of her mouth is awesome. The only thing better is watching my cock move in and out of her pussy!

I find myself wanting my wife more when she is on her menstruation time. I do not know why, maybe something to do with not being able to have her gets me really horny to try harder.

I share because I care! To see my wife enjoying another is a huge turn on.

This one of the reasons I would like to share.

I am married for over 20 years, but have secretly within the last few years had cravings for cock and have sucked a few and really enjoy it. How do I bring the subject up with my wife, I want to tell her I just do not know how she would react. I do not want to change our situation just do not want to hide it from her anymore.

Some more background. We have a couple of dildo's and we have gotten to the point of her fuckin herself with the dildo and when she pulls it out, she would lick and suck it and I sometimes she would rub the dildo on my lips and I have opened my mouth and she would have me sucking it. She seems to really get turned on when I suck it. She has also fingered my ass on numerous occasions and a few times have tried to fuck me with her dildo.

I do not know if she is just caught up in the heat of sex, does cause I seem to like it or if she really gets turned on by it.

I definately love having my cock sucked, and have recently found that I also love to have a hard cock in my mouth. But like others the opportunity to suck a cock doesn't come as often as I would like.

I would tell my wife to have fun, be careful and do what she feels comfortable doing. If that includes all out sex then I'm fine with her doing that. As long as she is honest with me and I'm honest with her there is not reason we can not have fun, especially when it is not love, just sex. There is a difference. One is a physical and the other emotional.

Cheryl, you just have to do your thing! If others do not like it, they do no have to look. What is important is how you feel about yourself and for you to dress the way you feel comfortable. For those that do call you names, they probably are jealous that they do not have the courage to dress the way you do or the way they want to but are afraid of what other people think or will say. Not to mention they are jealous about not having as good a body as you!

There is no hard rule for me as to what is too big.....with that being said, the breast size need to be porportioned to the body. I myself really like medium to small. No more than an handful.

I have thought about it and acted on it. I have so far only done oral (blow jobs), and throughly love it!!! If the right situation comes around I'm curious about topping and bottoming.

I guess it would really depend on the friend. If my wife asked me I probably would do it because I just can not say no to here.

I want to thank all three for reponding to my post. I will keep in fantasy land. It's a strange feeling, to want it so bad and yet get so mad and jealous.

Ladies, what would be your first response if your boyfriend/husband asked you to have sex with another guy/girl in a threesome?

I get incrediably turned on with the thought of sharing my wife, the idea of watching her with someone else. I think about it all the time. The problem I am having is I think about and it gets me excited, but when a guy flirts with my wife or gives her a friendly hug I am incrediably jealous and mad. I can't have it both ways. What is wrong with my head. So confused. Anyone else experience this or have any words of wisdom.

I have tried, like most men no luck. If I could I would all the time!!

It's always good to recieve but even better to give!! ;)

I see some responses where it's o.k. if it's porn or if it's another man but not your man. What is the difference? Your man, another man two cocks and two mouths.

I am also curious what the ladies would think about guys swallowing? Should they swallow? Is it assummed that they should since guys usually want their lady to swallow?

I have tasted my precum, but always seem to not follow through on actually eating/tasting my cum. I really want to lick/eat out of my wife's pussy after cumming, but like most guys after cumming I lose the desire.

I would love to try it once and see what the turn on is about. Dont' knock it until you've tried it.

Wow so many things....I guess I should get busy.

3-some with wife (FFM) (Where there is bisexual contact)
3-some with wife (MMF) (Where there is bisexual contact)
Being a slave for my wife in a MMMMF
Anal (wife using a strap on, on me)
Bisexual 4-some (my wife and I and another couple)

I didn't see where this topic was in the forum already, if it is I am sorry for the duplicate post.

Just curious how many women wether it's your boyfriend or husband or just a friend would love to watch a man suck another mans cock?

Is it a turn on or turn off?

Speaking as another man with the same desire and situation except we have not openly talked about it. She has a dildo and she loves to see me suck it after she has had it in her pussy and had an orgasm. She loves to lick and suck it as well to taste her juices and she really seems to get off on watching me suckit. I do play if off sometimes asking her to stick it back into her pussy so I can taste her some more.

I however am curious and have fantasized about sharing my wife, not sure if it will happen and while I know while it's happening I would be very excited and horny I'm not sure how my emotions will be after I have shared her and especially if she likes it and wants more guys and we end up not having as much sex because of her desire for other men.

Back to your orginal cry of help. I would go for it and discuss it more with her and see what happens. But be sure to set up the ground rules. You will only do this, she will only do this. If one side doesn't feel comfortable then it stops. But as for me I would jump at the chance to explore new things with my wife. But I have a fantasy of my wife watching me suck a mans cock and I'd love to watch my wife lick a womens pussy. I have in fact told my wife I would love to watch my wife with another women and I will not participate, other than stroke my cock.

Boob size really doesn't matter to me, of course I would something there. Other than the ass, it's the only female body part that really sticks out.

Size doesn't matter right!!! For me boob size really doesn't, I love them all, big, medium or small. I will state that my preference is medium to small. I guess the boob size has to porpotioned to the body. If you have really big boobs on a small body that just doesn't look right to me. Same would go for small boobs on a large women.

Absouloutley would love to try it!!!

Never done it but it has sparked my curiousity. I would of course try once and see if I liked it. Any volunteers? LOL

I think there are different situations that would call for different types of dress. I know my wife dresses very causual and doesn't show off her body. There are times when that is appropriate but there are times I want her to show off or should say I want to show her off.

I guess what I want when I want to show her off is for her to dress seductively. Tight clothings, low cut top to show cleavage, short skirts or shorts to show off her legs and ass.

1) Do you ever fantasize about seeing your wife/partner have sex with another man?
All the time!!!

2) Would you really like it to happen?
I think I would, Initially I would be very excited and horny, but I'm not sure how I would feel after the deed is done when she really likes it and wants more or wants they other guy more than me.

3) Have you actually seen your wife/partner have sex with another man?
No

You know I ask myself the same question, how do I trust someone who cheated. My wife a while back was engaged to be married and she cheated on her fiance with me and of course we went on to get married. It's been over 20 years now that we've been married but sometimes I question if she's cheated on me. I do not have anything specific that she's done to cause me to wonder if she's cheated but like the original question said, how can you be sure they wouldn't cheat again?