No in all cases... Don't get this myself, but don't need to :)

Thanks to all. Pretty much supporting my thoughts on the fantasy being more than the reality.

blazestcyr, Interesting post, but a bit off the mark on me - must have wrote something between the lines I guess, lol. As you noted, Lush is to be a community open about sex, so didn't expect to get kind of blasted for my question.

I am just trying to sort some things out personally - why I am feeling and thinking of certain things. My affair is in online conversation only and I do want it to stop and go no further. This site is loaded with stories of spouses and couples cheating (searching "cheating" comes as a keyword 686 times), so I am trying to learn why. Why is it so good to get written about so much? Clearly others enjoy cheating or the topic enough to write about it!

I am not looking to get jumped on by any woman. You mentioned not confusing cheating and sexuality, but I think you've done so more than I. Or maybe confused being turned on with sexuality. I simply wondered if the marriage aspect, the taboo or betrayal nature of it, is part of the turn on for others and driver of the sex and attraction for others. From a fantasy standpoint, yes, I like the idea of a married woman being so attracted to me and turned on by me that she would take that step. Personally however, I am not interested in me cheating - I know, a double standard and it wouldn't ever happen with out both cheating anyway... I felt that the chatting I have done was enough to warrant the "cheating" status on profile... will change I guess.

I appreciate your thoughts, its why I asked the question.

Hmmm... Interesting than that it seems such a popular topic in the stories... Thanks for your thoughts!

I like whatever makes her feel the sexiest and most willing to enjoy herself and me...

Any single or married ladies out their - - Does seducing a married man get you off, knowing that he is wanting you more and risking a lot to be pleasured by you and to pleasure you? Is that part of your turn on??

Guilty...

Had sex with your SO's friend or sibling?