Happened to me yesterday. I wrote everything in a draft email on yahoo mail. I corrected all spelling errors within there as well. When I pasted here though, there weren't any errors on first glance (no red lines under any text) but as I went through to proofread it one last time, it was only when the insertion point (the blinky vertical line which poops out letters) would reach the next paragraph that a red line would appear under stuck together words in that paragraph. kindalikethis

Oh geez... I didn't explain that very well. Hehe. Anyway, bottom line, it happened to me. Correcting it wasn't much of a bother though

I don't know, but isn't the thought of making your children on the same bed you, yourself, were made kind of sweet? Haha.

Kidding aside, I still would choose to have sex in my parents bed while they were out. That way, I wouldn't have to worry about the noise :)

http://www.youtube.com/embed/b-iGZPtWXzE

Running itself isn't the problem. Its running properly. Running is one of the easiest and cheapest sports to get into. Mastering proper form is is much harder. Some people can naturally run properly or are just plain more resistant to injury than others but for most runners, injury is just "part of it".

Lately, people have been turning to barefoot running (or minimalist shoes) to combat the slew of injuries. After all, our ancestors didn't have any of the advanced and supposedly "injury preventing" footwear that we have today and they never had issues with it.

The commonly held belief amongst barefoot runners is that footwear gets in the way and should be done away with or minimised (shoes have little or no cushioning, flatter, etc.). The human body was, after all, built to run. Think about it, say that advances in running shoes have been taking place for some 100 years (and injuries are still pretty common)... well, the human body evolved into what it is now for tens of thousands of years.

Check out the video above. Really worth a watch.

(I may be oversimplifying... I'm no expert on this. Just passing on what I've read.)

My still-favourite erotica series is The Sleeping Beauty Trilogy, written by Anne Rice, under the pseudonym A.N. Roquelaure. It's very hardcore, even today, but especially considering when it was written - the early 80's.

As Wikipedia says: The trilogy was written in the 1980s when many feminists denounced pornography as violation of women's rights, but Rice firmly believed that women should have the freedom to read and write whatever they pleased, and considered the trilogy her political statement.

I loved it!




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OMG! I stumbled upon this book when i was 14. Devoured all three books in a week. I'd say that it heavily influenced my "tastes" and highly recommend it.

Or more precisely, how do you get off on porn? I don't normally ask this when I'm around my guy friends because the answer should be pretty obvious and they don't know that i'm bisexual.

I like watching porn, i guess, because that is what I'd like to see happen to me. I enjoy watching gangbangs and stuff on sites like public disgrace (w/c you should really look up if you think your taste for porn is a little kinky). I caught myself, once, mimicking the girl's facial expressions while watching. Subconsciously, I guess I'd like to be that girl. I sort of empathize with what I watch and internalize some of that. When I'm with other guys in the bedroom, I act like the girls in the movies I watch and they quite like that. I'm not aroused watching gay porn though but I enjoy reading gay erotic stories. I'm really just not too aroused from seing two strong, fit guys pounding each other. I do like gay stories because more is left to the imagination.

Although a corollary of me wanting to be in those girls' positions, is also the envy of knowing that I'll never be one of those girls. And girls are so pretty that I get jealous :p grrr.

But then again, maybe the arousal derived from watching porn is more base than that. Perhaps its also just the sight of entangled limbs and flesh, dicks and cunts.

So, what do you guys think? what about you guys? what is it about watching pornography that turns you on?

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I just a newbie here and I admit, I also have the same dilemna. (I also have posted a similar post elsewhere) I'm sure there are more experienced people here that can enlightened you more. But, I just like to tell you that if you are uncomfortable about anything, then do not do it! even though, it is so pleasing and self-satisfying. Know what you want but know also what are your limitations.

They are right, it can be OK as long as we don't mix real and reel things. But, it can happen. If you gradually allow it because you are only thinking these are the things that make you happy.

You don't owe those other people anything. So, only you have the option to do what is OK and comfortable with you. Oftentimes, we feel guilt because it's the conscience that somewhat working here--it's a sort of guiding and reminding us what we usually do not like to admit readily with our own selves.

Lush, I guess, is a great site and also a nice community. You can somehow enjoy your stay here without feeling that sickening guilt.

I wish you well!


Thanks for the advice :) Nice to see a fellow filipino here ;)
Anyway, yes, I've been doing some reading and am trying to learn to moderate myself more. Self control is a really hard thing to master and I honestly struggle with it CONSTANTLY. I actually think that that's why I like it so much when I'm just taken and ravaged during sex. And, I guess, why my stories are written the way they are :p

http://www.youtube.com/embed/C11P77031UQ

(this song gets me so hot)

agree about the attitude and the practice.

The first time I was asked to perform a striptease was with a foreigner I met online. He asked me to do it out of the blue so I was painfully conscious of my arm movements and of well, everything actually. I must really have looked so awkward. I felt terribly embarrassed too after the "ordeal". I devoured videos online after to try to see how the experts did things.

I don't have a mirror in my room so I actually recored myself on webcam. Watching yourself afterwards lets you get really objective with criticizing your moves.

My subsequent performances went much better.

Another thing, get the atmosphere as erotic as you can get it. Light some candles, dim the lights, or spray some perfume. It really helps.

This is a problem for me because in my head, I do fancy being fucked hard and fast but in the real world, that would plain hurt.

Ditto everyone else who said that it is really important to stay relaxed. Otherwise, the asshole simply won't give way. Gandalf himself actually appears and shouts "you shall not pass" ...True story.

Seriously though, since I'm often in the S&M game I have to get myself in the mood before hand and 'prep' my asshole. I have a but plug (which I highly recommend to anyone who wants to get started with anal sex) and play with myself before my partner arrives so that when he does, he can go straight into ripping my clothes of and pounding me. Butt plugs are great because their conical so you can slowly work your way up. Second, you can go at your own pace without worrying if your partner is getting bored or anxious. That's a HUGE bonus.

But once it is done, I sit back and read it, editing spelling, phrases and tweaking the story for proper continuation and perhaps adding details such as a certain location, drink or such. All of this I am editing for the reader.


Wonderful discussion! FtlMale, I agree with you on this point. I am of the opinion that writing is for both the author and the reader and that the "weight" given to each depends on the piece being written.

I just published my first story here and prior to this, I had maintained a blog whose subject matter was me and my sex life. I was younger then and writing down my experiences and ideas helped put things into perspective. The act of writing was a personal thing. When I'd take a breather, come back to my draft, and edit it, though, that was for my readers. They gave me advice and support and I felt like I owed them that much.

That was on my blog though-- filled with my experiences, my feelings (geez.. sounds so cheesy), and my opinions. Here, my first "story" was semi-autobiographical... So I have yet to find out what my motivations for writing a purely fictional piece I would be. I guess much more consideration would be given to the readers.

I love cyber. I have a couple of regulars. And I agree with all those who don't like being close to those they engage in cybersex with.. Its all just an act for me.

Nothing beats the real things though ;)

The first time I watched porn was in a room with three other guys. A typical form of male bonding, I figured. We were all touching ourselves and finished off in the bathroom one by one. Unbeknownst to them, however, was that as we were watching that girl in the movie get gang banged by four other men, I wanted so badly to be that girl-- kneeling on the floor, surrounded by a ring of cocks,...

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