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TheScheherezadeFeint
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female
United States

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Quote by Dani
Most people see the 'online' status as being available.

Sometimes I'm just here to read. Sometimes I'm just here to enjoy the chat rooms and not really hold any one-on-one conversations that people try to initiate when they see you're online.

And as someone else said higher up, sometimes I'm just here to handle mod stuff, which sometimes entails correspondence with just about any given number of members simultaneously.

Overall, I show up as invisible because I like to control who I interact with and when, without having to worry about a barrage of black boxes or private chat requests.


Verily.
Museums, mostly. The classier the better. The British Museum, The Louvre, The Guggenheim, you know. I actually did get a bit naughty in the hedge maze at the Louvre, but I'll leave it to the imagination.
Well I'm glad I just read a couple of these. I was about to tell the story of my username. I'm still waiting for my coffee to kick in. I think it's broken. Anyway, this is just my Halloween avatar. Decided there was no harm in getting a little bit dressed up this year, if this is the maximum effort I put into it. Got my breast cancer awareness ribbon going on for October also.
Don't look or act your best. Or worst, like one of my uncle. Be yourself, unless you're an ass. Try to be charming but not at the expense of sincerity. You know, the usual. In general, I'd say don't get too sexy on a first date, and definitely don't be pushy. I will say that it's great when it goes that way, but only if it happens naturally.
Sure, lots of times. I suspect that you'll get similar responses from most of us. I guess I haven't engaged in group oral all that much, but oral sex is a good time, and I think we've almost all enjoyed it at one time or another. I'll be interested to see if I'm wrong.
I have to be pretty close with a guy to know both that he's into this, and that I'm the girl to do it to him. I love what I get later when I do it, though, ;)
Why not both?

I'm not sure one is better than the other. They're obviously different, if related experiences. I enjoy both a lot, but probably equally.
Quote by HeraTeleia
Wrong guys, as is the popular opinion. Don't get me wrong, I love performing fellatio, and I don't expect immediate reciprocation, but absolute refusal to explore your desires is an absolute refusal to care about you as a partner.


I agree with this, but with rare exception. One which springs to mind is that I had a boyfriend who wouldn't even consider going down on me, but it was relating to a specific trauma in his past. Of course, with one night stands you don't find out what's under the surface so they just seem like an dickweasel. Perhaps they are, but maybe there's something driving that.
Is it cheating? Probably.

In reality that's going to be between you and whomever your partner is at that time isn't it?

I've been in strictly monogamous relationships, and completely open relationships, and that situation would have been different with each partner. Right now I'd say my girlfriend and I are somewhere in the middle of open and not, and I can tell you that this would certainly not be acceptable behavior for either of us. I have been in relationships where that would have been fine, though.
Quote by sprite


who said i wanted to get back to civilization? i was just looking for a nicer island. smile


Oh. I see. Where was my invite?
Quote by sprite
a motor boat and gas to power it with. biggrin


As the genie granting your wish I would screw you over here because you didn't specify that you wanted sufficient gas to get to civilization.
Quote by simplyjohn
I have never done this and not sure I want to .. on her chest/breasts fine. On the face just seems a bit like defacing something nice .. like graffiti if that makes sense.


I totally get this, but well placed, well executed graffiti can be as beautiful a form of art as any. Just extending the metaphor, not sure I buy into it one way or the other. A little, maybe.
I've done quite a bit of collaborative writing in my life, with a number of different processes, and I love it. It's pretty different working in a pair or with a group, in my experience but I generally say it's fun all around as long as you find well suited partners. Looking forward to collaborating on Lush. Working with somebody now, but not sure when we'll get anything up. smile
Typically, it's one of two things. First, everyone is built differently, and sometimes it's just painful. I have to be treated very gently to enjoy anal, and some guys are just too big, and it won't happen. Sorry, sad

Second, some people are skeeved out by germs. Usually bacteria, specifically; but yeast infections along with a handful of other things are also valid concerns.

For the record, I do love it. I think most people who give it a fair shot do, but I tend to think that about most things sexual. Everyone has boundaries of course. Even me.
Many, many times. Walked in on, and been walked in on. I live with my girlfriend, and I've had dozens of roommates/housemates/flatmates over the last decade or so.