Forum posts made by purpleshade

Topic If a girl in her twenties had saggy boobs would it put you off?
Posted 21 Jul 2014 08:18

Since putting on weight due to medications I take my boobs have gone from a 32B/C to a 36C/D and are kind of saggy, not majorly, but they are definitely not pert anymore. I have been told by men they still look great but I think they look awful. I wouldn't dare step outside without a bra and whenever I can I choose clothing that covers my cleavage.

I've known many girls whose boobs have sagged at a very early age. Personally, it did not put me off in anyway. I always encouraged them to go bra-less under their t-shirts.

They all felt uncomfortable about their sagginess, but for me it was not an issue. The thing that matters the most is your self confidence, your nature, the affection you show to others, and your dignity.

When we used to make love, the texture, the taste, and the feel is still the same as pert breasts.

Sadly, so many women are pressurised by society to have 'ideal' shapes....

Topic Why would anyone like to be humiliated and degraded?
Posted 21 Jul 2014 08:07

I must admit that bdsm is a strange country to me, but I have read some intriguing stories here. I think I can understand the want to be dominated, to let go of some of the responsibilities of own actions, beeng led into territory you would not dare to go alone - by a person you love and trust and will not let you be hurt.

But why would anyone want to go into a relationship where they are humiliated and demeaned and degraded by their master? Will that not destroy trust and selfrespect?

I agree with what you're saying. Many years ago I was with a woman to who I showed a lot of respect. She seemed edgy most of the time, she didn't really have a great orgasm. One day during foreplay, she wanted to pretend to be raped, I played along but nothing violent, just pinning her down. She fantasised about being raped, she had the best orgasm ever.

Ever since that day, during foreplay, she insisted on being verbally abused. Even during penetration she needed to be sworn at.

To this day, I cannot understand why she needed humiliation, especially since I showed her a great deal of respect.

Like some of the other replies here, maybe different things work for different people. I personally do not care for the humiliation side.....

Topic Which improvements or features would you like to see added?
Posted 09 Jul 2014 11:31



Well, as an atheist I can assure you that calling oneself after what you're not is not always a success either ;)

Yes, I agree; profile updated forthwith :)....

Topic Which improvements or features would you like to see added?
Posted 09 Jul 2014 11:30



That won't work because we also have a Lesbian category, so it needs to be distinctly male, somehow.

You could go with Man-On-Man, or something (not that I actually have a problem with 'Gay Male', but I understand the point that's being raised).

How about 'Male same sex'....

Topic Which improvements or features would you like to see added?
Posted 09 Jul 2014 11:28



WHat about "Same Sex" - that's functional and accurate is it not? I doubt anyone could get offended by that?



That's sounds better, sweet...

Topic Which improvements or features would you like to see added?
Posted 09 Jul 2014 08:14



Why not 'homosexuality'?

It's bit of a mouthful, if you'll pardon the pun!...

Topic Which improvements or features would you like to see added?
Posted 09 Jul 2014 05:12



Like 'gay' suggests that everything else is dull/grumpy.

I don't like the word 'gay'. The word 'gay' suggests something 'non masculine', it suggests some kind of 'weakness'.

Personally, I prefer the word 'non hetro' to denote homosexuality...

Topic Which improvements or features would you like to see added?
Posted 08 Jul 2014 07:43



I actually back this (only with "heterosexual" spelt correctly). I try to avoid using the word "straight" in this context for similar reasons.

Thanks, and sorry for the typo. As far as the story category is concerned, instead of 'Hetro sex' there could be 'MF sex', i.e. implying male and female.

I just find the term 'straight' rather antiquated and somewhat insulting. The term 'straight', by default, seems to imply that everything else is 'perverted'....

Topic Which improvements or features would you like to see added?
Posted 08 Jul 2014 07:37



I note East Sussex is in the drop down list.

Thanks for that...

Topic Which improvements or features would you like to see added?
Posted 08 Jul 2014 07:36



It's divided into East and West Sussex on the list.

Thanks, sweet....

Topic Which improvements or features would you like to see added?
Posted 07 Jul 2014 16:31

By the way folks, 'Sussex' is not available in the drop down menu for UK location. Any specific reason for that?...

Topic So Rolf Harris just got jailed for 5 years and 9 months...
Posted 07 Jul 2014 16:28

It's a good job that the 'fucking goat' did escape; I can envisage that being fucked too!...

Topic Which improvements or features would you like to see added?
Posted 07 Jul 2014 15:38

Could the sexual orientation 'straight' be changed to 'Hetrosexual'. The word 'straight' resonates a certain air of superiority. The word 'straight' is the opposite of 'Bent'. The word 'bent' is usually denoted for anything that is corrupt, such as 'bent coppers, bent politicians, etc...

Topic So Rolf Harris just got jailed for 5 years and 9 months...
Posted 07 Jul 2014 10:39





It may well be that her inheritance will be HER compensation for what she will go through being his daughter after all that he has done! It's a shame that these victims have not stepped forward sooner - then he would not have been able to live the life that he has lived, and some may not have ended up as victims.

I hear what you're saying, hun. She'll have £11 million to cushion the blow. The other victims will just have horrid memories...

Topic So Rolf Harris just got jailed for 5 years and 9 months...
Posted 07 Jul 2014 08:35

Perhaps he should've been forced to use his £11 million pound fortune to compensate the victims in some way.

Five odd years in prison, at his age, is similar to a 84 year old being sent to a nursing home. His daughter will inherit his fortune, she has no plans to help the victims.

His daughter is the ideal person to help the victims; she's female, and was once a child!....

Topic Which improvements or features would you like to see added?
Posted 29 Jun 2014 13:58

When it comes to scoring on a story, we have the option of 1,2,3,4, or 5. The difference between 4 and 5 is 20%. There should be an option for 4.5 or 4.75.

At school, we were given grades A B C D E etc. but also, minus or plus, e.g. A+ , or C-.

This gives more room, rather than jumping in blocks of 20%.

What do you think?

Thank...

Topic Have you ever experienced sudden arousal due to unusual, or extreme circumstances?
Posted 24 Jun 2014 08:22

Many years ago I had to accompany my wife to her family get together. After a few drinks, things starting heating up, in terms of old quarrels and disputes. Things started getting really loud, to the extent that it looked as if it was going to get physical.

Some of the more 'sensible' members started shoving people out of the large family room. As my wife was being ushered out, she grabbed my hand. We were in here sister's old bedroom. My wife closed the door and kissed the hell out of me. I thought that she was going to rip my jaw out.

When she released me from the kiss, her body jolted slightly. When we got back home, to 'normality' I asked her about the kiss.

She said that she had an orgasm during the family punch-up. The kiss brought her to a final climax. I loved the kiss and helping her to orgasm but, to this day, I cannot understand how someone could do sexually aroused during something so anti-social....

Topic Does a girl having big breast matter?
Posted 23 Jun 2014 12:40

Does having big breast matter on a girl matter? Or is average size or small size alright?

To be perfectly honest, sweetie, I prefer women with small titties.

Topic Age preference
Posted 12 Jun 2014 05:08

Yes, preference has changed, over time. When I was 20, I preferred mature partners. Now that I'm older, I prefer younger partners....

Topic Breasts, boobs or tits?
Posted 07 Jun 2014 07:15

Top bollocks...

Topic Honestly... (Are YOU a little bit Racist?)
Posted 04 Jun 2014 08:12

Perhaps "Culture" is more important to people, rather than ""race". The latter is subjective, as opposed to objective, since all people are human.

There can be an uneasy feeling, when new immigrants come over, and have different standards.

Anti social behaviour is bad and unacceptable on all levels; whether homegrown, or imported.

Mass immigration, especially unskilled/ unqualified can bring many problems, but prooer screening brings benefits too.

I'm comfortable with my Western culture; I'm uncomfortable with anti-social behaviour, whether the person is white, or a slightly darker shade of white...

Topic Foot Fetish? yeah or nay
Posted 03 Jun 2014 12:30

saw another thread where a guy stated many guys are into foot fetish, toe sucking on girls.

I am not into that, just curious how many are, or are not.



I love her feet; kissing, licking, and massaging. It can really heighten sexual tension....

Topic a guy painting your toe nails and foot rubs
Posted 03 Jun 2014 12:27

Ladies what is your view if a guy enjoys painting your toe nails and giving foot rubs when you need one and not in a sexual way???

The reaction will vary; some women love it, others will detest it.

One female friend loves her toes to be painted by a male friend. Massages too. This is a very good bonding method, especially if the focus is not on sexual intercourse.

The lady in question loves all things girly; she encourages her guy to do all things girly, yet he is a very strong character, very self confident, and very mature for his age.

Some women may see the practice as a sign of weakness in the man, but some women see it as a comforting gesture.

I love doing it to my woman; she enjoys it very much too. There's nothing to be ashamed or worried about, if you are inclined this way, but it may be that your woman doesn't feel comfortable with the idea....

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Topic Describe yourself in one word
Posted 29 May 2014 14:30

Erotic.

Topic Girls, have you ever watched gay porn? If yes then did you like it or not?
Posted 21 May 2014 05:41

Almost all of us have seen girl on girl porn but have you ever seen men on men porn? If you have, did you like it?

My wife does enjoy girl on girl, but she doesn't like to watch man on man....
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Topic For both girls and guys: Do you prefer your pussy shaven or not?
Posted 20 May 2014 09:32

Hi! So I'm curious for both gender's opinion.
Girls, do you prefer your pussy to be shaven?
Guys, do you prefer your girl's pussy to be shaven?
I'm wondering what majority thinks. Please tell me what you prefer!
XX, Lacey

Being the recipient of both natural and shaved pussy, I would highly recommend shaved...

She prefers me to be shaved too....

Topic Nipple play for guys?
Posted 20 May 2014 05:19

Guys, just curious if you enjoy having your nipples played with during sex? Touched, rubbed, pinched or sucked on?

I love mine to be licked and sucked, with abundant saliva; this sends to me to heaven. I don't like them being pinched or pulled though...

Topic sexier skin tone ?
Posted 17 May 2014 13:33

I was always curious to know , guys and girls ...what skin tone you prefer for yourself or your partner, which one do you find more sexy and appealing- (with reason, if any specific you want to tell )

1- Fair whitish
2- Dusty Brown
3- Dark

For me , I find brown skin tone quite sexy xD


Each and every skin tone has its own merits; I find all tones sexy, but on some days I may just fancy one particular tone, and another tone on another day...

Topic shemale sex!!!!!!!!
Posted 17 May 2014 02:27

Would you ever have sex with a shemale?????

Look at my profile....

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Topic What's making you happy right at this moment???
Posted 16 May 2014 13:08

Clary sage essential oil, in my aromatic diffuser...

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