About Ravyn

I am a very strong willed woman and I have a mind of my own and lots of opinions about lots of things. I tell it like it is when I'm ready to tell it. I can also be shy and reserved.

I am a mother of 2 amazing kids whom I love more than life itself. I was married for 28 years and am now learning to live my life as a divorced woman. My life is undergoing significant changes and I have just this year returned to school majoring in Criminal Justice. Above all that, I am a woman, a woman with needs, wants and desires and I am not ashamed of any of them.

I am submissive. Am I submissive to anyone who asks? No I am not, so don't ask. I have kept this part of myself hidden for many years and I am done hiding. The thought of giving that one special man complete control is intoxicating. It's not something that I will ever just "do" and its a desire that starts at the very core of who I am and a very strong need that I am no longer ashamed to show.

One can learn so much just through observation and paying attention. If you wish to get to know me it takes time and yes.....work. Am I worth the time and effort? Only time will give you that answer.

The avatars and backgrounds I use are NOT me but merely pictures that I like. The black and white gallery photos are also NOT me.

PLEASE UNDERSTAND that I am straight I am NOT into women!!! If you and I have not chatted in the chatroom or ... forums - please DO NOT send me friend requests - I will delete your request.

GUYS***I am NOT interested in cybering so please do not ask. I am here to chat and write stories....not to get you off.

I have been on Lush for over 3 years now and a moderator for over 2 of those years. This is an amazing site and a wonderful community.

As a Chat Room Moderator I will gladly talk to you in private if you have a question or a site related issue you need taken care of. I will NOT however, help you cum, suck your e-cock, use a strap on in your e-ass, give you access to my e-pussy or anything else.

Date Joined:
25 Apr 2010
Relationship Status:
Bend, Oregon, United States
My kids are my number 1 priority and I love them more than anything. I enjoy Reading, I love to cook especially for those whole enjoy to eat, I enjoy reading and writing erotica. I love BDSM, straight sex, oral, masturbation, anal and some voyeurism stories
Favorite Books:
I love to read, and I like most all books except Sci Fi.
Favorite Authors:
Danielle Steele, Nicholas Sparks, Rick Riordian, Stephanie Meyer, JK Rowling
Favorite Movies:
Twilight, New Moon, The Blindside, Road House, Dirty Dancing, Pretty Woman, The Notebook, A Walk To Remember, Any romance movie lol, action is always good too.
Favorite Music:
Classic 80's Rock and Country.
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Latest Forum Posts
Topic: Alright Guys, Fantasy Time! A GORGEOUS Female Sex Slave
Posted: 09 Apr 2014 16:53

{notta guy~}

Independant, strong minded, intelligent and free-willed, confident in and of themselves persons can STILL have fantasies of having a sex-slave or being one! annnd great to have experienced "the ultimate orgasm/multiple"s! Hellllooooo. lol Of course! XD


Topic: Happy Birthday Callisto!
Posted: 15 Feb 2014 20:53


Topic: what are you drinking?
Posted: 12 Feb 2014 21:49

Fireball whiskey

Topic: Collared submissives
Posted: 11 Feb 2014 13:20


Topic: Looking for a BDSM Book or Story
Posted: 11 Feb 2014 13:01

Google is a great resource to find what you are looking for :)

Topic: Can you really ever stop loving someone after a relationship is over?
Posted: 15 Jan 2014 15:52

It really depends on how your relationship ended and what kind of feelings you had for that person at the time, as well as what brought the relationship to an end in the first place. Falling out of love with someone after being with them for over half your life mixed with other things felt as it came to an end. For me, yes its possible to stop loving someone. There will always be a connection especially if you have kids with them. You can love someone as a human being or as the father or mother of your children. Some relationships end where neither love the other anymore, and its often one sided. Its really a question that is as individual in each situation as it is to the two people involved.

You can choose to move and live, or you can be stuck in the past with the what if's. It's a hard thing to do, I know am living it now. The hardest thing is to trust again, if you can figure that one out, then you truly are one step ahead of the rest of us.

Topic: Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted: 15 Jan 2014 15:41

A very well filled out and thoughtful profile.

Topic: who wants to get dominated?
Posted: 31 Dec 2013 16:09

"My reputation precedes me" etc are not MY words they're in the op so you might be better directing those comments at her. As for your right to give your opinions it's a two way street, you seemed quick enough to jump on others when they gave theirs'. I'd suggest you reread the whole thread to refresh your memory!

I am all for free opinions, my only point was that many are quick to judge someone for the question they ask in the forums. It makes people apprehensive about posting and asking questions.

Topic: who wants to get dominated?
Posted: 31 Dec 2013 01:35

WHAT! Well I wasn't going to post until I read yours.
What gives you the right to criticise other members? Did you read the pile of crap in the op? My reputation precedes me, other doms respect me but I'm not here to blow my own trumpet!
Get real, she's asking to be shot at! If she was that good she'd have subs queueing up and not having to post ads for her services .

I have the right as any other member to state my opinion. I did not criticize I merely stated my opinion. If you do not like it, then that is your prerogative. I stand by my post, as for your reputation preceding you, I have no clue of who you are or what you claim to be. Respect is earned not given freely, if you feel you are respected by other Dom's, if that little tid bit is what helps you sleep at night, then more power to you.

Topic: Happy Birthday Ravyn!
Posted: 20 Dec 2013 21:48

Thank you all very much :)

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Stories Published By Ravyn
Lost and Found

To be lost and looking for Him hurts like no other Longing to feel His leather around my wrists To be lost and praying for Him everyday Needing to feel His shackles around my ankles His strong hands molding the clay Someday hoping to find my way Will I feel His strength, His love? Like a lost lamb in the woods My love cold like the morning frost Waiting to feel the heat...

Added 27 Mar 2013 | Category Love Poems | Votes 15 | Avg Score 5 | Views 670 | 10 Comments


What did I do, why did you leave me? Of all the moments in my life, you were the best surprise   You are deeply imbedded in my heart and I long to look into your eyes I pray to feel your touch but know I never will   We talked and loved deeper then I thought possible I love you with all my heart You broke my heart You were my wish You were my desire You were my hope I think of...

Added 10 Jun 2011 | Category Love Poems | Votes 19 | Avg Score 4.63 | Views 1,037 | 10 Comments

A Night with Jose Quervo

I have spent most of the day getting the back yard ready for my little surprise. Since it will be dark when you arrive home to me, I strung up some lights all around the gazebo that surrounds the back porch and hot tub. I purchased some tiki torch lights; I positioned them so they are just surrounding the hot tub. The sky is clear and the stars are shining brightly. The moon is lighting up...

Added 04 Feb 2011 | Category Straight Sex | Votes 20 | Avg Score 4.89 | Views 3,015 | 11 Comments

The Halloween Fraternity Party

Before I could get the front door unlocked my cell phone rings. My arms are full of bags from my day of shopping. Rushing inside the house and setting things down I reach in my pocket for my cell phone and see that my girlfriend Julia is calling. I can’t believe it she wants me to go to a Halloween fraternity party with her and her daughter tomorrow night. Do I dare go? I can’t believe I...

Added 12 Oct 2010 | Category Straight Sex | Votes 42 | Avg Score 4.95 | Views 10,288 | 25 Comments

Afternoon Delight

It’s 10 o’clock; I have two hours to prepare my little surprise for Noah. He is always home around noon for lunch and today he’s in for a nice afternoon. I want to show him how much I love him and desire him. This little encounter today will be all about his pleasure and desires. I start by putting some clean crisp white sheets on the bed, and place a few candles around the bedroom....

Added 27 Sep 2010 | Category Oral Sex | Votes 33 | Avg Score 4.97 | Views 12,450 | 21 Comments

Belle's Weekend Adventure

Driving up the mountain road with top down off the jeep the wind blowing through my hair as the radio blasts out so loud it can be heard over the roar of the tires against the hot pavement. The temperature topped 100 degrees today my skin shinning from the tiny beads of sweat forming on my skin and the bottom of my sundress whipping in the wind under the steering wheel. There’s a fair amount...

Added 13 Sep 2010 | Category Straight Sex | Votes 23 | Avg Score 4.95 | Views 5,327 | 17 Comments

Who's Really In Control?

It was a quiet evening, slightly warm but nothing too unbearable. You were sitting in the living room doing some paperwork and there was music playing in the background. I was in the kitchen preparing some food for the special evening I had planned. The aroma from the kitchen wafted throughout the house. The water was coming to a boil on the stove for the pasta, and the homemade sauce...

Added 07 Aug 2010 | Category Oral Sex | Votes 21 | Avg Score 4.84 | Views 6,676 | 18 Comments

Cassie's Burning Desire, Part 2

The work day is finally over and I can’t wait to go home and take a nice long shower. It has been a long week and I am so glad it’s finally come to an end. I have not been able to think of anything but my night with Jacob. It has been 2 weeks since our last encounter. I replay that night over and over in my head making myself so wet just at the thought. Each night there has been a note taped...

Added 13 Jun 2010 | Category Straight Sex | Votes 19 | Avg Score 4.89 | Views 4,848 | 15 Comments

Cassie's Burning Desire

Cassie finally puts aside her inhibitions and seeks pleasure in its most physical sense and meets the man she’s secretly been longing for . It’s after 1 am and I just finished taking a nice long hot shower. Wearing nothing but a towel I find myself sitting in my bedroom with a glass of wine looking out my bedroom window and staring at the nighttime sky. The moon is shining so bright,...

Added 19 May 2010 | Category Straight Sex | Votes 48 | Avg Score 4.89 | Views 8,117 | 30 Comments

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