Ill have a bigger stigma over your chest, the one thing about older men is that it seems they have gotten over all the bullshit about looking like iron man... i.e. shaving all their hair off.

Some men don't have much body hair, Necho. Sometimes, it's a genetic thing.

There is a difference between not having much body hair and going for a wax every 2 weeks.

Really? You're that bent out of shape about me not having body hair?

Tell me where I can find that wax place at, I haven't been able to find one here in Iraq in the last 7 months.

I tell you what, let me know how I can get a Hi Res picture to you so you can see the 10 or so chest hairs I have and then let me know all about my shaving habits. I bet you wont do it, because you know that you'll have to eat your words & I'll make sure that you do.

I guess I should be ashamed that I like to stay in shape?? I always thought that it was the way to go, but I guess women really do love overwieght and out of shape men. Damn it, that's right, I'm in an occupation that REQUIRES me to be in shape! Oh well, I hate myself!

You people are unique, I'll say that.

Thanks Lisa & dancing Doll. Oh yeah, and everyone else too.

And we get it, you're in great shape.
Great, I'm glad you do, I can sleep better at night with this awesome news

Older lovers are great...they sometimes are less energetic and frantic than younger men but the experience of all those years make for a great experience most times.

Energetic is the least of my problems. I run at least 20 miles a week and have been on a 3 day on, 1 day off gym shcedule for the last 2 years. I'll go as far to say that I have more energy now than I did in my 20's. I can get busy!

The problem is Im fighting the stereotype and I need to get around that.....

I just turned 40 a few months back, so this is new territory for me.

My wife wants me to pick up another woman and mess around with her a little bit, but I'm having my doubts about it because I'm now 40.

She says that I'm worried about nothing & I'll be surprised, but she is my wife, so I sense the wifely obligation. Is there a stigma against older men because of their age or is more of a physical thing?

If there is one, I hope it's for the sagging body thing, because I have that whipped

kinda late in the thread, but this one sparked my interest.

I have told my wife that I want her to have sex with another man. Me there, of course. She had never told me anything about her wanting to before hand, but once i told her, she told me that it was one of her first fantasies she had after we met. Hearing that only fueled the fire.

My wife and I are completely open and honest in our marriage. She tells me her desires, I tell her mine. We have yet to go thru with it, I'm deployed, but we have had some light play with others in the past. All girls up until i deployed, and she has been fingered once by a 28yo at a party and a 23yo in the back of a bar. She is a smokin hot 38yo, BTW.

Here's the thing guys. Just like you want to fuck other women, you significant other want to fuck other men! Wether you like it or not, there is no denying it.

The problem is simple. It's a lack of trust! You do not trust your relationship with her, and you think that because another guy sticks his dick in her, she is going to either think less of you or she'll leave you. If either of those happen, your relationship was in trouble long before the other guy drops his pants

My life revolves around two things; my wife and the Army. I've been married to the Army for 20 years, and my wife and I have been married for 16 years. Without a doubt, she owns my heart, not the Army. Always has, always will. Although she is in her mid 30's, she's as hot as ever. She's a 5'-4 power house that looks better than most women in their 20's. A nice, supple athletic build with...

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The day starts like most days. It's Friday and the boys are not in the picture, we are on our own to do as we please. You call me at work, and very excitedly you ask if I feel like getting dressed up and going out for dinner and drinks since we are free to do as we wish. I of course agree the thought of taking you out for a special evening has always been great because of the build up....

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