19 Dec 2013 18:30
Agree (And you better pray that there's intelligent life in space, 'Cause there's bugger all down her on the Earth)
UFOs represent visits by said intelligent lifeforms.
Topic Platonic Cuddling
19 Dec 2013 18:27
My brain says yes but I don't have the experience to confirm. I did cuddle platonically with someone once but it didn't stay platonic for long so doesn't count here (20th anniversary was in August).
Topic This or That
19 Dec 2013 15:18
Sun. Hate shovelling.
Night or Day, when you do like to play?
Topic RUMPLATIONS: honky-tonk & cyber bar
19 Dec 2013 15:06
*Grabs a brownie and orders a round for the house*
I have got up the nerve to enter a competition (as Rump already knows). Whether I win or not, the fact that it actually got a story out of my creatively constipated brain is enough cause to celebrate. Now back to the various ideas that have been stewing and see if any of them are even close to done.
Oh, link is in my sig.
Topic "Hall Pass" - Could it work
19 Dec 2013 08:51
See, "hall pass" to me denotes kind of a one-off thing, not a clearly thought-out, negotiated open relationship. These two things are not, to my eye, the same. Would I give, or even offer, one? Probably not (and she wouldn't take it, I suspect). Would I accept one? I'd want to know why she was offering it first because it would be out of character for her.
Topic All I want for Christmas is....
19 Dec 2013 06:50
A quiet cabin in a quiet place with only myself for company. Seriously, I've been stressed out at both work and home recently and need a break from both.
Topic Underdressed or overdressed?
19 Dec 2013 06:45
I am a perpetual underdresser (that's "under" not "un" you dirty minds, though I do undress a lot, too :-" ) but I agree that from a social standpoint, overdressed is probably preferable.
Topic This sucks
18 Dec 2013 10:34
Since traffic sins seem to figure highly on here, people who streak past you as you're approaching a red light, only to have to slam on their brakes to stop in time -- letting you pass them as you calmly slow down to a stop.
Having a shoe size that's so f---ing common that it is the first to sell out in a sale.
Topic Internet exhibitionism?
18 Dec 2013 10:29
I have posted face-free pics here but not sure I'd get up the nerve for something like that. As dpw says, live streaming has some serious security and privacy implications and the ability to edit and secure a recording makes it the safer route.
Topic writing erotica & being a Christian
18 Dec 2013 10:27
I did write erotica (but only for my own ... um ... enjoyment) while still a Christian and it didn't particularly bother me. However, I was on the liberal fringe of a rather liberal church and eventually moved off into other things (I've been formally a Unitarian Universalist for a decade and flirted with UU'ism for probably a decade prior to joining). Sin, esp. around sex, wasn't a big part of my Christianity which was more focussed on justice and forgiveness of transgressions than punishment. God made sex so presumably he wanted us to enjoy it and, to my mind, it only became sin when you got into using it as a tool for control or abuse (which were the real sins).
Topic writing erotica & being a Christian
18 Dec 2013 10:23
Here in Canada, a lot of our politicians have traditionally come from law so it's a twofer. Though that has changed in recent Parliaments (our current PM is an economist, for instance, and the most popular opposition leader has an eclectic mish-mash of half-finished degrees).
Topic Why are all Christmas songs all so old?!
17 Dec 2013 12:22
I've come across new, original Christmas songs and some of them aren't bad. I think the problem is that it is (a) getting hard to say anything new about Christmas and winter and (b) the nostalgia factor that others talk about makes it hard for new songs to get into the "canon".
"When a Child" is a good one that was written in my lifetime (though it's a bit generic, referring to "a child" rather than specifically to Jesus, though that suits my personal theology well). Lennon's "Happy Christmas, War is Over" likewise, though it may not have dated well (it was basically a protest song about Vietnam). I like it, though. I suppose, though, that even those seem old to persons born after the seventies when they first appeared.
Topic Awesome Moments
17 Dec 2013 08:44
A twofer from me:
First time hearing Beethoven's Ninth Symphony live.
Finding a favorite movie on TV right when you need it for a pick-me-up.
Topic 20 photos which prove...
17 Dec 2013 08:40
Some bloody good ones there. A couple that didn't register with me though. Sigh. Maybe I'm not as dirty as I thought.
Topic Day Or Night?
16 Dec 2013 05:54
I'm generally more on the ball in all areas, including creativity, in the morning but sometimes find a second wind in the late afternoon or evening.
Topic Spoil my Wish
13 Dec 2013 12:33
Granted, but you miss a chance to meet the lover of your dreams.
I wish I could sing like Pavarotti.
Topic Penelope Cruz
11 Dec 2013 10:16
My favorite Spanish hottie to be sure. And while dating Tom Cruise could be seen as a black mark, in the end she married Javier Bardem which I would see as a positive.
Topic Blow Jobs
11 Dec 2013 10:12
But if she is not really using her mouth, just has the tip of cock in her mouth but not sucking or using tongue, is it a BJ or just a "glorified" HJ?
Not asking if it feels good or not. I am sure you will come either way, especially YOU! LOL!!
If she is not sucking, then I see a case for it not being a blowjob (though it is still oral stimulation since the touch of the lips is also stimulating, at least for me). It's nit-picking though and I'd never take a woman to task for it in bed.
Topic Blow Jobs
11 Dec 2013 10:09
If it is in her mouth and she's sucking on it, it's a bj regardless of whether other body parts get involved. IMHO, YMMV, of course.
As the ones above said, if she's doing you with her mouth and hands, why complain? Some of us don't get that, believe it or not.
Topic What's the one thing.....
11 Dec 2013 08:22
Anal play on me. I know she wouldn't go for it, but I'd love to have a prostate massage or even strap-on sex. A finger or toy in my ass as she sucks my cock would be heaven.
Topic Stright Guy in a gay bar: You go in, not realising it is a gay bar, and get hit on.
11 Dec 2013 08:16
Never had the pleasure but if the guy was attractive, seemed sober (or at least not too drunk), and wasn't too obnoxious, I'd be willing to chat him up and see where it leads. Of course, that would also likely be my reaction if a woman hit on me in a regular bar.
Disclaimer: While I've identified as straight most of my life, I have become aware of a growing interest in sex with men and am starting to consider myself bi-curious so may not fit the parameters of the poll.
11 Dec 2013 08:02
Recently, I've been measuring it in times per month. Probably 3-4 times a month. Could do more but life doesn't seem to have a lot of room for me to really, really take it slow and enjoy it and I'm a bit tired of "quickies".
Topic Dungeons & Dragons - My secret shame
11 Dec 2013 07:42
I doubt there is an RPG made before 2000 that I have NOT played.
While D&D was one, my personal favorites were Rolemaster and Space Opera
Never did play RM with my group, but owned Space Opera for a while. Loved some aspects, not so much others.
Topic Dungeons & Dragons - My secret shame
11 Dec 2013 07:40
I played pretty much constantly from 1977ish (Basic D&D) until 1989 or so, then sporadically until the mid-nineties. Haven't played in probably close to 20 years, though I keep up with the scene via web forums. I would gladly play again if I had a group (the friends I played with have scattered and, in one case, passed on). A cleric (priest) and a thief were my two major characters.
We played more than just D&D, though. Most major role-playing games passed over our table during the eighties and I had personally become fond of products from Hero Games by the time I stopped playing regularly.
So, lots to confess, I guess.
Topic Masturbating To Your Crush?
08 Dec 2013 13:50
Actually, back in my teens and twenties, I often got off to fantasies about my crushes, both the real-life ones and actresses. For instance, there was this pretty, busty English girl that I knew in university that I had a quite a fantasy life with in private but was just good friends with in public. There didn't seem to be a conflict between fantasy and reality. Of course, I wasn't the sort who would hit on pretty, busty English girls (or any other girls) at the time anyhow.
Topic Female vocalists:Any genre Come on in
03 Dec 2013 12:39
I'll toss in a plug for Kina Grannis. I just discovered her via Youtube (which seems to be her natural habitat) and quite like her singing. Her original songs aren't bad, either, though I'd say she's stronger as a singer than as a writer but that may change with time.
No specific video in mind. I'll just post a link to her channel and let you discover for yourself: http://www.youtube.com/user/kinagrannis
Topic Putting yourself in your stories,and re using the same charater's in some of your stories.
03 Dec 2013 12:34
I would say that my first person male characters all, by and large, contain elements of myself without necessarily being 100% me. None of them are autobiographical except to the extent that they explore fantasies and desires I have. When I write third person, there is generally a male in there who is my "viewpoint" male and, again, that person will embody some aspect of me or my desires without automatically being me.
As for recurring characters, I haven't done any yet but ideas are floating around for additional stories about some of my characters. In some weird part of my brain, all my characters exist in roughly the same place in space and time and could meet each other at some point but it just hasn't happened yet.
Topic threesome : which one you prefer FFM/FMM/FFF/MMM ?
03 Dec 2013 11:05
I'm just generally intrigued by the idea of a threesome but some are more intriguing than others:
First choice: FMM (indulge my bi fantasies)
Second choice: FFM (indulge her bi fantasies, if she had any)
Third choice: FMF (because every guy needs to be shared at least once)