Forum posts made by seeker4

Topic Use My Last Word First - in a 5 word sentence..
Posted 20 Apr 2014 13:32

Safe sex is good sex.

Topic The Incest Category is going to be removed
Posted 19 Apr 2014 18:41


Nothing more to say here.

Topic The Incest Category is going to be removed
Posted 19 Apr 2014 18:21

There could be a badge where people pay $100 every 3 months and the only perk is incest stories

I was giving that as an example, not a suggestion. Given my stated moral objection to the category, I would not support this idea.

Topic Guys, have you ever paid a woman for sex?
Posted 19 Apr 2014 18:18

also, thank you for changing it. flower

She had to due to the Incest category being removed.

Topic The Incest Category is going to be removed
Posted 19 Apr 2014 18:14

Fun fact Microsoft has listened to companies demanding XP support and announced last week or so that they will continue support for corporations.

For a cost. That hardly helps the home users or mom and pop shops who can't pay the cost and who are likely the majority of those affected. It's a case of a few customers with deep pockets being heard rather than the customer base as a whole. Not really comparable unless you're suggesting those who want Incest should be able to pay Nicola copious sums of money on an annual basis to maintain it.

Topic The Incest Category is going to be removed
Posted 19 Apr 2014 18:09

Its quite interesting and very personally telling about when someone get so vehemently opposed to something THAT ISN'T FUCKING REAL.

Read my post a couple above yours, duke. Incest is very real for some people and turning that reality into a fantasy can trivialize some very real pain and trauma.

Topic The Incest Category is going to be removed
Posted 19 Apr 2014 18:00

Please stop trying to remind us whose site this is. I don't own McDonalds but if they decide to discontinue the Big Mac I'd be upset.

Right, but you also don't have any special right to expect that McDonalds will listen to you and bring back the Big Mac. In their stores, it's their business what they sell. If businesses had to listen to people, MS would still be selling and supporting Windows XP.

Some people here talk of "censorship" and "restricting freedom of speech". That is not what is happening here. That happens if the government steps in and bans the writing and publication of erotica. Nicola making a business decision is not a freedom of speech issue.

And I, personally, do not necessarily think incest stories are wrong because they are "unsavory" or "perverse". I have read some very well-written, sexy incest stories over the years and wrote one myself (which I deleted before the category got dumped). My problem with incest stories is that fantasizing over something that has traumatized so many people is, or at least risks,trivializing their experience. Can you imagine how a person who was sexually used/abused by a relative must feel at even the thought of someone getting their rocks off to incest? They can avoid the category but not the fact of its existence, however hidden it may be. For these reasons, my story was going to go sooner or later anyhow and I support this decision as a thoughtful, necessary one.

Topic The Incest Category is going to be removed
Posted 19 Apr 2014 16:24

Sounds like censorship to me.

Most fiction mags turn down more stories than they accept and some of those are because of unacceptable content. Are they censoring?

Libraries generally don't buy anything too explicit (though I notice that the current erotic romance boom has changed that to some extent). Are they censoring?

Most blogging sites have rules on what is allowed, often excluding some or all sexual content. Are they censoring?

Perhaps. But we generally don't use that term in these cases. We call it selection. We call it setting standards for how that "site" will use its resources.

Nicola is within her rights to set whatever standards she wants for HER website. This is not a publicly run and funded site where there is some constitutional onus to accept everything. It is a privately run site that can, and should, set whatever standards it feels necessary.

It may be censorship by some definitions but I do not think it is. It is SELECTION. It is setting standards for what you will "buy" (or allow on the site, in this case, since it isn't a paying market). No one is stopping the authors from publishing incest somewhere else.

You have a right to write whatever you like. That's free speech. You have the right to post it on a public sites that allow it. That's free speech. You do not, however, have a right to publish in a specific market. That is subject to the standards set by that market.

Topic Would you like a 3some with the 2 members Above You.....Yes or No?
Posted 19 Apr 2014 07:12

Yep. We can do it on Bill's boat.

Topic Use My Last Word First - in a 5 word sentence..
Posted 19 Apr 2014 07:11

Stuff that never goes away.

Topic The person below me is...
Posted 19 Apr 2014 07:11

Never had them but they sound good.

TPBM is basking in the spring sunshine

Topic Ask the person below you any question
Posted 19 Apr 2014 07:08

A couple hours, with a couple orgasms apiece.

What is the largest number of people you've had sex with in a single encounter (couple, threesome, foursome, whatever)?

Topic Have you ever turned down a blowjob?
Posted 19 Apr 2014 06:38

No, but I haven't had that many offers, either. crybaby

I love blowjobs so beyond being ill or something like that, I cannot really see me refusing the offer of one.

Topic The Incest Category is going to be removed
Posted 19 Apr 2014 06:34

This is Nic's site...her business. If she wants to delete the 'incest' category, that's her call.

Bingo. Even in the US, I don't think that freedom of expression enters into this. A private business is free to decide what they will and won't carry. Even with public institutions, limits are allowed. No one is arguing that public libraries have to carry hardcore porn.

I have deleted my incest story. I like the sex scene so I may reuse it in a new story with the background rewritten to ditch the incest element.

Topic Spoil my Wish
Posted 18 Apr 2014 19:31

Granted. The shower door is stuck shut.

I wish one of these lovely Canadian Lush ladies lived near me.

Topic Dominate or to be dominated or pass the above person?
Posted 18 Apr 2014 19:28


Topic Drink, Date or Fuck no passing!
Posted 18 Apr 2014 19:27

One Michelob light coming right up. Then we can get to that fucking part.

Topic Use My Last Word First - in a 5 word sentence..
Posted 18 Apr 2014 19:26

Lately, I've been feeling lonely.

Topic Guys, have you ever paid a woman for sex?
Posted 18 Apr 2014 19:21

I have. A few times. Wonderful ladies who taught me a lot about sex. In response to Gramps, I'd say it was more than just physical release. These women spent time talking to me and we had some fun beyond the obvious. Needless to say, these weren't street girls but very professional escorts.

Topic RUMPLATIONS: Honky Tonk and Cyber Bar
Posted 17 Apr 2014 19:30

It's April 15th...a day that continues to live in infamy, at least here in the States.


Ours is normally April 30 but they extended to May 5 this year. They had to shut down their public servers due to the Heartbleed bug so they added a few days. I'd already filed so didn't affect me.

Turned out they were too late though. Someone (a 19 year-old university student here in London, Ontario has been charged) nicked 900 SINs (equivalent to US Social Security Number) by exploiting it.

Topic Ask the person below you any question
Posted 17 Apr 2014 12:34

As long as I had some books to read and a lover to keep me company, I'd drop the web like a hot potato (keep in mind that the web has only existed for c. 1/2 my life so I do actually remember life without it).

Has the web been a boon or a bane for your love life?

Topic Use My Last Word First - in a 5 word sentence..
Posted 17 Apr 2014 12:26

Start something you will finish

Topic If you could do one fictional character.
Posted 17 Apr 2014 12:08

Natasha Romanoff aka Black Widow (played by Scarlett Johansson in various Marvel movies).

Topic If you could lick any flavour ice cream off someone, what would it be?
Posted 17 Apr 2014 12:04

Rainbow chocolate ice cream. Almost as good as sex.

Actually, I have had sex that was qualitatively inferior to eating ice cream.

On the original topic, vanilla with some toppings, maybe a nice, warm caramel sauce or (Canadian alert!) maple syrup, would be something I would enjoy eating/licking off of a body.

Topic 100+ Slang Terms for Penis
Posted 17 Apr 2014 11:24

For some strange reason, this thread made me think of this:



Topic Editing Caution
Posted 17 Apr 2014 11:21

I offer to edit for friends and occasionally a writer that I see potential in but needs some help. Rarely get taken up on it so far but a private thanks will be enough for me. If they acknowledge me publicly, that's gravy.

Topic What if Ukraine join NATO?
Posted 17 Apr 2014 11:07

The bigger problem is that there are NATO members (e.g. the Baltic states) that are close to Russia and do have ethnic Russian populations. If Russia started interfering in those countries, then NATO has a problem on its hands and I'm moving to the basement.

As Volya says, Ukraine won't be joining NATO any time soon so even a full-on Russian invasion won't trigger the North Atlantic Treaty and draw NATO in. I hate to say it, but if NATO is smart, responses to Russian actions will remain limited. My heart would be breaking for the Ukrainians but it is really not worth triggering WWIII over.

Topic Announcing our new "Oral Sex" story competition, $600 in prizes.
Posted 17 Apr 2014 10:56

Boo...hiss...grumble...grouse...mutter darkly

That's okay by me, Nic, honest. It just postpones another ego-shattering disappointment by a week. ;)


After the announcement, we can commiserate together in the bar. Pint Drunk

Topic Drink, Date or Fuck no passing!
Posted 17 Apr 2014 10:20

Drink and Date. Fuck can come later if we click.

Topic Guilty or Innocent.
Posted 17 Apr 2014 10:19

No, but it sounds wonderful (the two tallest skyscrapers in Shanghai have hotels on the upper floors so this is not impossible, by the way).

Have you ever fooled around on public transportation?