Forum posts made by seeker4

Topic a question for guys about 3-sums...
Posted 18 Jul 2014 08:46

I'm another guy like clum for whom it isn't high on my list. I would try one if the opportunity presented but I'm not hounding my partner to have one or anything. I think clum hit a nail on the head with this line:

It's also possible that the guy never really wanted a threesome in the first place, but was more in love with the idea of a threesome. Maybe he felt, because of this "common knowledge" you talk about that he's supposed to want a threesome.

If the guy is having a threesome because it really is a fantasy of his, then he is likely to go through with it. If he's doing it because "it's cool and all the guys are doing it" (meaning they claim to be doing it), then he's probably less likely to complete.

Just my thoughts, though. If someone is brave enough to admit to being a guy who backed out after pushing for one, he would be able to shed more light.

Topic Over 600 paedophiles have been arrested in the UK today.
Posted 17 Jul 2014 13:35

It's been obvious for ages that the UK is teeming with paedophiles. There's stories nearly every week about some sort of child abuse or another.

It is not just the UK. We've had some high profile paedophile busts here in the former colonies, too. I think that the Internet makes it easier for them to operate and, more importantly, digital photography and video are easier to make and distribute than print and videotape. The number of paedophiles has likely not gone up as a percentage of the population but there is more material and it is more accessible so more of them are actively seeking it out, leading to more of them getting caught. In the old days, it went on in back rooms (including the back rooms of rectories) and the images had to be passed hand to hand (since post would have been risky).

IOW, the number of twisted sick fucks has not gone up, we're just seeing them more.

As for politicians, I'm not sure how much they have to do with it. Don't know about the UK, but we have pretty strong laws here (we can even prosecute Canadian offenders who abuse children outside Canada). If the laws are there, then enforcing them is the responsibility of law enforcement and you need to ask why they aren't keeping up with the bad guys. Unfortunately, as I suggested in my exchange with dpw, part of the answer is that the bad guys are pretty sophisticated technologically to the point where you almost need to be getting the spooks involved, not just regular law enforcement. If the laws are not there, then someone needs to ask the politicians why not and try to make it a campaign issue.

Topic Alphabet Songs (A-Z)
Posted 17 Jul 2014 11:44

Take On Me - A-ha

Topic Alphabet Movies...
Posted 17 Jul 2014 11:43

Watership Down

Topic Forum Game: Sexy Chain
Posted 17 Jul 2014 11:42


Topic Use My Last Word First - in a 5 word sentence..
Posted 17 Jul 2014 11:38

Hand slowly slides down back

Topic Who would you rather kiss? (above or below)
Posted 17 Jul 2014 11:37

Long, slow, sultry kisses above...

Topic This or That
Posted 17 Jul 2014 11:36

Pasta Salad

Read a book or watch a movie

Topic Car sex - what make/model?
Posted 17 Jul 2014 07:09

The classics - a Bentley or Rolls - comfort and style enough for any mid-life crisis.

Yeah, but this guy isn't pulling in that kind of cash otherwise he'd be driving a late model Continental GT. I love Bentleys. Rolls are beautiful to look at but have never struck me as a car to drive so much as a car to be driven in.

The one and only time I have had car sex it was a Jaguar.

OTOH, he might be able to afford a Jag. The current lineup are some of the best Jags ever built (esp. on the quality front) and I love Jags as much as, maybe more than, Bentleys.

Topic Over 600 paedophiles have been arrested in the UK today.
Posted 16 Jul 2014 14:12

The problem is the use of VPNs and similar technologies. The traffic is encrypted so even the ISPs can't see what's in the data packets (the NSA and your signals intelligence blokes might be able to depending on the encryption being used). It is a legitimate technology that businesses use to enable field workers to make secure connections to their offices, but it can also be used to hide illegal Internet activity like this.

Topic Over 600 paedophiles have been arrested in the UK today.
Posted 16 Jul 2014 13:33

It is easier to hide on the Internet than many think. You build a secure server, have people access it using a VPN or via proxies, and so on. Use peer-to-peer networks (like Torrents) rather than open websites. The files are scattered across all the hosts on the peer-to-peer to network rather than being gathered in one place where they can be found easily. For the most part, the ISPs can't track that activity or else intellectual property piracy would be a dead end crime now. Wouldn't surprise me if some still use old protocols like FTP (File Transfer Protocol) and IRC (Internet Relay Chat) that no one really pays attention to anymore.

Topic Should couples have threesomes?
Posted 16 Jul 2014 13:05

Doubt it could ever happen for me. Spouse would not go for it (either with a man or woman). But I can see the appeal and if both halves of a couple feel comfortable doing it, then it might be a good thing. "Should" is probably too strong, though. I don't think it's a "should" so much as "could if both are willing". I think the biggest issue would be finding the right person.

Topic The perfect girl
Posted 16 Jul 2014 12:11

Here's the trick. If you want to write a really good story, don't make her a perfect dream girl. Make her a real human being with a few flaws. Draw on your experiences and you own fantasies and create a character who is believable even if not "perfect".

Topic Use My Last Word First - in a 5 word sentence..
Posted 15 Jul 2014 16:46

Days we spend playing together.

Topic masterbating
Posted 15 Jul 2014 13:31

This will, of course, be one of the benefits of the self-driving cars. Makes road sex easier, too. Hurry up, Google!

Topic Car sex - what make/model?
Posted 15 Jul 2014 11:33

I am working on a story and have a couple getting it on in a car. Now, I'm thinking the car interior may be a bit cramped to get much happening but I have never done this (I have never done a lot of things) so I am not sure. Is sex possible in a Corvette (assume a C5-era 'Vette, so maybe 2000ish)? What about foreplay and oral with the action happening outside on the back or something? If not a 'Vette, what other sporty, sexy cars might be better (the man is kind of in mid-life crisis mode so I want him in a sportscar or something approximating one)?

Topic Guilty or Innocent.
Posted 11 Jul 2014 12:45

No *sigh*. Some folks get all the fun.

Have you ever watched another couple and had them invite you to join them?

Topic Whats on your sex playlist?
Posted 11 Jul 2014 12:43

Just a nice mix tape of cool jazz.

Topic The person below me is...
Posted 11 Jul 2014 12:41

Only if the wind is at my back ...

TPBM loves to soak in a hot bath at the end of the day

Topic This or That
Posted 11 Jul 2014 12:40

New Zealand (though given the distance, I'd likely hit both on the same trip)

Kayaking or Bicycling?

Topic Free adult games
Posted 11 Jul 2014 12:31

Unless someone can come up with something better and less repetitive than the "erotic games" I've seen elsewhere on the Internet, definitely not. Even if they did, I don't really think I'd care to see them here. Words are our thing.

Topic Who would you be?
Posted 11 Jul 2014 12:29

Doctor Who, probably either the Third (Jon Pertwee) or Fourth (Tom Baker)

Topic Use My Last Word First - in a 5 word sentence..
Posted 11 Jul 2014 12:26

Say something sweet to me.

Topic Title of a song or my ASS.
Posted 11 Jul 2014 12:25

Aliens ... in my ass (so that's why they can't find them dontknow )

Topic Use My Last Word First - in a 5 word sentence..
Posted 11 Jul 2014 12:22

Today, I missed an opportunity.

Topic Would you like a 3some with the 2 members Above You.....Yes or No?
Posted 11 Jul 2014 11:02

Indeed it could. Another yes.

Topic This or That
Posted 11 Jul 2014 11:01

Early bird

Germany or Argentina

Topic Alphabet Songs (A-Z)
Posted 11 Jul 2014 11:00

Love Me Tender - Elvis

Topic Forum Game: Sexy Chain
Posted 11 Jul 2014 10:59


Topic Last Two Letters ....
Posted 11 Jul 2014 10:59