Topic Do you have a goal as a lush author?
13 Apr 2013 14:14
My goal is to have a famous story.....I think my "Mom's Special Request" story might get there!!! If you haven't read it, please do. I think it is my best story to date!!!
Topic Women with big breasts are always more sexy!
07 Mar 2013 18:03
how can the size of a woman's tits make her sexy when she really has no control over the issue....her body will do what it wants....unless of course she gets surgically altered. I am a very large breasted woman and I love my tits and the response I get from men because of them but that is NOT what makes me sexy!!! What makes me sexy is my sexy imagination and that can be seen in my stories. Most of the friends I have on lush have become friends because of my stories...not my tits!!
Topic What is the ultimate compliment for a story?
30 Jan 2013 05:44
I have had three comments that were my favorites. Two of them were from couples and they said that reading my stories made their sex even better and the third was a private message from a new member and he told me that my stories is what convinced him to join the site. What better compliments then that can you get!!!
Topic The real reason why girls don't voice chat/voice message with online programs?
30 Dec 2012 07:23
For me...I enjoy voice chat or video chat but I will only do it with someone I have gotten to know on lush and that I feel is a gentleman. I hate it when someone i have never type chatted with asks me to skype because to me that is too much too soon. And believe it or not there are some very nice men on lush. Not all of them are assholes. Another reason I am particular about who i video chat with is because I am a plus size woman and not all men like that....the last thing I need is a man that will ridicule me because of my weight.
Topic new story idea for the 2012 Phenomenon competition (women only please)
08 Dec 2012 18:09
I have a great idea for the new competition they have anounced and it involves a lush orgy. I want to use actual lush memeber's screen names for this story but I need your permission to do it. I have a lot of men already signed up fo it but since I am straight I have very few women friends and thus I dont have any women besides myself for this story idea as of yet. So if you would like to be involved could you please send me an email verifying that I can use your screen name? I would greatly appreciate it. Thanks everyone.
Topic Do you have a problem with men who have had a vasectomy?
28 Nov 2012 13:22
I prefer men that have had vasectomy because I am 41 and have never had kids and don't want any. As long as he is disease free then we can have fun without any condoms or any other BC to worry about.
Topic Relationships-More trouble than they're worth
28 Nov 2012 11:28
I was married for 9 years and even though we had some good times we also had a lot of tough times because he was sick with heart disease for 6 of those years. I stood by him through it all and he passed away in April of 2011. I have no desire to ever remarry again and go through that again. I know it would probably be different then it was with my husband but there is also the fact that men and women think very differently and bridging that communication gap is a lot of work. I'm not sure the benefits are worth the effort, especially when most of the men I have ever known in my life are not willing to work at a relationship as hard as a woman usually is willing to. Most of the relationships I have seen up close are like a team of horses hitched to a wagon and they are supposed to be working together but only one horse is doing most of the work. And usually, but not always, it is the woman that does most of the work. Here is a perfect example....when a couple has children, who is the one that does most of the raising of those children? Generally it is the woman. Most of the time the man is on the fringes and earns the money but doesn't necessarily do all the rest of the work required in raising children, like changing diapers or cleaning up after a sick child etc.... That is why I am glad I do not have children and don't want any. Now before anyone has a fit at me ...these are all generalities...I am fully aware that there are some men out there that do the majority of raising their kids and I applaud them for it!!! But, in general, this is what I see and what I have no desire to be a part of again. That is why I like lush....I can have some fun online but do not have to deal with the complications of a relationship!!
Topic are the Evolutionary Psychologists right? Do women really prefer the dominant alpha-male asshole typ
25 Nov 2012 19:06
I don't know about other women but I do not like dominant males and i especially don't like assholes. I don't want to control a man either. I want to be an equal partner with him in and out of the bedroom. I am a very intellegent woman and I want to be treated that way; with respect and dignity. That is how I would treat my man and I expect the same in return. I hate all this degradation stuff...what kind of person gets off on degrading someone else? I would never put up with a man that did that!!!
Topic Before You Submit?
24 Nov 2012 17:49
I usually get an idea from a friend and i let my imagination run with it. Sometimes it has to stew in my head for a while before i write it down. But when it finally gets down on paper it usually flows. If it doesn't flow then I stop writing and let it simmer a bit longer. I find that if i try to force a story then it is not very good. I do write in word and I try to make sure i correct all the mistakes that i can before i submit it. I also send it to a friend to read before i submit it to get his feedback and then make any changes if neccessary.
Topic Anyone have any tips on how to write in such a way that appeals more to female readers than male.
24 Nov 2012 17:37
I like stories that have a plot line to them and are not just about sex. Most of the women I know are looking for some romance and not just a quick fuck. Also when it comes to the sex...draw it out and use all five of the senses to describe what is going on. Put how you feel into the story and not just the sexual part of things. I agree with Mark (thegulfcoaster), I am one of his friends and I love his stories.....they move me to tears at times because he puts his heart into it and not just his dick.
Topic do you let you heart get involved with a woman on lush?
21 Nov 2012 09:23
A lot of the guys I talk to are just here for some online sex and that is fine with me but I have felt as if a couple of them have developed more feelings for me then just sexual. How many of you guys have actually let your hearts get involved with a woman on lush? Please be honest!!
Topic What's The Best Comment you've received on a Story????
18 Nov 2012 18:29
I have three favorite comments...2 of them were from couples that had read my story and it got them both hot enough that they told me they had to relieve each other and the third was from a guest that when he read one of my stories it motivated him to join the site....all three were huge compliments to me.
Topic What does your username mean?
18 Nov 2012 18:13
I am a plus size woman and BBW stands for Big Beautiful Woman and I consider myself to be very sexy. 71 is the year I was born.
Topic Ladies...what's more important? The size of your mans cock or the size of his wallet?
18 Nov 2012 12:50
Neither....it is not the size of the cock that is important but how he uses it and if he can be creative in the bedroom and romance me. And money means very little to me....i care more about a man's heart and his character and how much time and effort he will put forth to win my heart. If a man has my heart then he has the rest of me as well and he becomes the most gorgeous and wealthiest man in my opinion.
Topic Possible to fall in love over the net?
18 Nov 2012 12:32
I met my husband on a phone dating line before the internet was around much in 1996. we were married in 2002 and we had 9 good years together. He died in April of 2011 so yes i do think it can happen. I am currently chatting with a man from England that i met through lush and I care for him a great deal. But we both live our own lives and just come together to chat and for each others companionship. He cares for me as much as i care for him but we both realize that we could not have a real life relationship because of the distance(I am in the states) and we each have our own lives that neither of us are willing to change for the other. As long as the expectations are very clear and one person is not expecting more then the other person can give then I think an internet relationship can be very successful. I am very happy with mine. but I also have no interest in getting remarried...i like my independence.
Topic How to attract you? Online or Offline
18 Nov 2012 12:15
both online and offline....be a gentleman and make an effort. I love a man that can make me laugh and is willing to put a lot of time and effort into being with me. I don't mean money...I mean time and energy....buying me a gift is too easy....will you make me a homemade candlelight dinner or write a song for me or draw a card for me? I can tell how much you care for me by how much effort you put toward me and that will make me want to give to you in return.
Topic Forced Commenting for Writing Improvement
16 Nov 2012 16:37
I comment if I loved the story but if it was not good i do not want to embarras them by leaving a bad remark that may hurt their feelings.
Topic Older Men and You
15 Nov 2012 12:31
I prefer older men for many reasons:
!. Most of the time they are more of a gentlemen then younger men are and I am very attracted to that.
2. I am a plus size woman and most of the time older men have realized that a woman is much more then just big boobs.thin waist and a bubble butt.
3. Most of the time older men are more patient and that patience makes them much better lovers. Women, at least this woman, loves a slow hand rather then a wam bam thank you ma'am.
Topic Long or Short...Stories
15 Nov 2012 10:34
For me it isn't the length of the story as much as it is the details. I am a writer and I love to write....I was taught by one of my writing teachers a long time ago that your readers are not in your head so they can't picture what you can unless you involve them with all five of the senses. When I write I try to imagine what the taste, smell, texture, sound and look of a particular scene and write all or it down. It makes my stories a bit longer but I have been told by many people that they feel as if they are there...that they actually experience what I write. That is a huge compliment to me because that is what I am striving for and that is also what I like to read. If I feel as if I am in the story then the length doesn't matter!
Topic why are girls so difficult?
21 Oct 2012 18:09
If you would truly care more for her then you do yourself then that would not happen as often. I and many of the women I know truly give from their hearts and all they want is a man that will do the same. Make an effort to do something for her that you know SHE would like and not what you would like. Men and women both do this. We give to others what we want from them....learn from that and learn what she wants from what she does for you. That will not always be easy because usually what she needs from you is the last thing you want to give....but I guarrentee that it will pay off in the end with a happier and more fulfilling marriage.
Topic What are your Lush "Pet Peeves"?
21 Oct 2012 16:19
I hate perverts...I want to chat with men that will be gentlemen and will talk to me for a bit and if i don't want to cyber sex then respect that, please!!!
Topic Interview Questions - add more depth to your profile page
21 Oct 2012 15:36
How did you get in to writing erotica?
I started reading erotic fiction on literotica.com and then found lush. One of my first friends on lush was a man by the name of dwells and he encouraged me to write. I wrote the first chapter of "The Cruise " and emailed it to him and he loved it. He told me I should post it and I did. Ive been hooked ever since and I write as much as I can in my spare time.
Topic Am I The Only One?
21 Oct 2012 14:46
Women are wired differently then men. Men are much more visual and sex is a much higher priority for men then it is for most women. Women, at least most women, want romance and sweet words and a man of character; at least that's what I want. When you have sex with a person you care about and respect it is so much better then just fucking. Animals fuck...I want a man that I can make love to and will make love to me as well. Most men just see with their eyes and their cocks...but a true gentleman will see with his heart as well. When you find one that sees with his heart don't let him go!!!
Topic Is a passionate sex life important to you and why?
19 Oct 2012 18:49
Sex should be fun and it should be about pleasing your partner first. My husband was sick for 6 years and even when he wasn't in the mood because of his health, he would still get me off. But also for the same reason, our sex life was rather boring. He was never one that wanted to experiment much. When I do have another lover, i want someone that will be willing to have fun with sex and experiment but that experimentation would only be restricted to fantasy and the 2 of us. I'm not a swinger.