Topic James Deen?
07 Dec 2013 15:40
Quite a lot of animosity in here. To be fully honest, I'm glad that people took out their frustrations on me rather than on someone who would have taken any of this seriously and been offended by it. In fact, I expected that a lot more people would have joined this crowd. I've been criticized harshly for just about everything by many random persons ever since I landed on this site, from the fact that there were 2 minor grammatical errors on my profile to the shoes that I wear in my everyday life. Strangely enough, I've only rarely received positive feedback for sharing constructive opinions, helping others, provoking a laugh or asking women questions that were a bit more respectful than ' Would you let someone fart on your clit? ', all of which I did numerous times very politely and with perfectly good intentions.
Yet still, plenty of people constantly assumed the worst in me. Even in this very thread, which I created out of pure curiosity and fun, women jumped to hateful conclusions simply because I stated that James Deen wasn't any impressive to me in a jokingly and completely inoffensive manner (which was all very sincere, sorry to say). People totally disregarded the fact that I literally praised this man in my opening post and stated he had a perfect penis later on ; they also disregarded the fact that I was the one who allowed them a unique opportunity to praise one of their idols in the first place. To many, all of it was nothing more than a reflection of my own insecurities though. The thread ' General Opinion About Men? ' was also surely created because I'm clueless about sex, and the one ' Comments Preferences ' to express the fact that I had no consideration for women here whatsoever. All the rest of my actions were also nothing more than a big masquerade to boost my ego too.
I've seen all kinds of things since I joinded Lush, from the outrageously stupid to the morally offendable, yet the most intense reaction it provoked in others was nothing more than an hysterical laugh. Even more so, the comments that were directed at those were nowhere near as hateful as the treatment I've been offered here ; I've yet to see a troll being called a 'fucking irritating prick'. So, sorry to say, saying that I'm any responsible for your mean tantrums is something that I'm simply not buying. As I've said, I surely won't take any of this personally ; it's pretty obvious to me where these frustrations originate from. You may be dishonest about it all you want, I'm not that gullible myself. There could have been be five, ten or a thousand people rallying agaisnt me, it wouldn't have changed my perception of it. I'm that arrogant indeed.
I've seen plenty of avatars, profiles, attitudes and posts here that didn't necessarily appeal to me, yet it never provoked any hostile reaction within me, and if anything offended me I simply looked elsewhere. Persons comfortable with themselves and possessing just a tiny amount of maturity would have disregarded my previous comparison, laughed at it, or thought it was silly without further accusations ; I wasn't expecting to establish a fan-club or seduce any of you with it, no worries. I don't exactly rely on an internet persona to build my self-esteem either ; I had plenty of opportunities in my real life to figure out what I'm worth as a male, who I can fuck with, and how good I can fuck them. As much as I'm interested in reading others' opinions about various subjects, I'm not really willing to grant women here any authority to judge if I'm any appealing to them, especially since most of them aren't exactly part of the demographic I'm hoping to satisfy in the first place. So, thanks a lot for sharing your personal preferences and the opinions that you have of me, but none of these were exactly requested or needed from my part. I'm currently dating 3 gorgeous women who have quite a bit more manners than most ladies here, and I sincerely don't think I have anything to learn from any of you concerning seduction or civility.
I'm officially over with LushStories. I'm still not quite sure which kind of men is appreciated here, but I'm obviously not one of them. Maybe being asked silly questions by random perverts will satisfy your feminity better.
By the way, did you notice that this response was all very serene and peaceful? That's simply one of the many advantages of having a satisfactory sex life. Screw that boring confidence, I'm off fucking ladies that crave my level of arrogance so badly that it hurts.
Not really sure what to say. I went briefly through this thread because of the PA's post. All I can say is that I am sorry you don't feel welcomed. Hopefully you will overcome this and learn that defending yourself will just make it worse, if people don't understand you, explaining to them who you are won't help either, in my experiance anyway.. I found your way of expresing yourself quite interesting and entertaining, not really american type of guy, but that is just me, considering this crowd you touched here, giggles.
Anyway, I just wanted to reach out and give you my support ;)