Topic RUMPLATIONS: honky-tonk & cyber bar
04 Jan 2011 10:16
hey, i was lulled in her by the scent of freshly roasted coffee beans as well the the sound of voices, Alan - now that i've broken my cherry, i might make a few more visits, seeing as the regulars seem quite lovely :)
Topic Guilty or Innocent.
04 Jan 2011 09:57
every have cyber with your Lush friend while your SO was in the house?
Topic Erm i need abit of help.
04 Jan 2011 09:39
Yeah...go read "the rules" like Nicola says...and then you can tell the rest of us what they say...
Really, you don't have to be a rocket surgeon here...as long as the story is not about forced sex with underaged inflateable barnyard animals or something, you're not going to get banned...
I mean really, I've been here over 14 months and they haven't kicked me off yet... How hard can it really be???
despite my over-zealous campaign to have you removed. Inflatable barnyard animals have rights too, buddy!
Topic Your Favorite Celebrity Crush
04 Jan 2011 09:36
Gary Oldman...Don't ask why, but definitely Gary Oldman
lol - i read that as Gary COLEman at first!
Topic What is art?
03 Jan 2011 22:24
ok, this has been eating my brain a bit today, the subject i mean - first off, i don't think there's a right or wrong answer - everyone's going to sort of have their own opinion, and that's perfect - i really just wanted to hear them, see if they change my thoughts, make me think about why i might have one point of veiw over another, get exposed to ways of thinking i'd never considered...
now, suddenly, in the shower of all places, i'm struck with a thought - art vs. craft. it started thinking about photography - after all, to some extent, isn't it all about knowing which camera to buy, settings to use, lenes, etc - these are all things that you can be taught, like any craft - be it driving a car or programing a computer. So, why is it that someone can come along and take incredible photos and someone else takes pictures that are mundane? somehow, they are able to see things the other person can't see? is it intuition? craft? a feeling? an artistic eye?
and that's when it all went to hell... you could say the same about Renoir or Miro or Degas - did they simply learn their craft? years and years of practice taught them which brush to use, how to appliy the stroke, which colors to use? is what we call artistic genius, merely incredidble craftmanship?
when we hear Debussy's Preludes, is it the music written down that moves us, or the performance of the musicians? can't an argument be made that both are merely the result of craft? the musicians learing how to play the notes on the paper while the composer learned what chords would make the most pleasing sequence? certainly, he didn't just pick up a pen and write music without any formal training. craftmenship must have played a major part - so, when we hear a recording, who is the artist? it stand to reason that some recordings are better then othres - the muscians are to praise or blame? the director?
so, by this, can't we say that the artist with no training is the true artist? those who create without having learned the proper craft are somehow better then those fettered by technique and knoweldge?
yeah, it's twisting my brain as well... LMB said 'i know it when i see it' but then, i can imagine standing next to her and saying 'hey, this is art' to which she replies 'are you crazy or blind?'
oh, and there was the comment that porn can't be art, and i am racking my brain, recalling certain directos of porn who did more then shoot straight to video - they had a style, it was artistic, and i have to think that in their mind, they were elevating the medium to art... Alex DeRenzy and the Dark Brothers (thank you Google) are examples of such.
Topic Last orgasm
03 Jan 2011 20:48
*giggles* wow, umm... not sure i should admit this, but i was kind of in heat today... last one was about 7pm while reading erotica.
Topic What is art?
03 Jan 2011 18:59
somethings, however, even i can't validate as art... but then, i think... great chefs create art as well, and even those of us who simply cook, create something? is it art? what if it's just about intentions? it's art because that was how we intended it?
Topic What is art?
03 Jan 2011 18:48
What about art that makes you think, rather then feel? or art that feeds negative emotions, such as anger - it can even do it in sublte ways - i went to an art exhibit - one of the peices was a purple slab - no texture, no shades, pure purple - my partner hated it so much that we spent 45 minutes discussing why it wasn't art and, at some point, i began to wonder if perhaps that was the point? to make us think about what art was, to feel something about it, to draw out those emotions, just as intense as the awe one feels when confronted with the actual Night Watch, or when someone hears Ode to Joy - so perhaps, it's sole purpose was to inspire that journey, that discussion? in that, perhaps it achieved making us both think and feel? in the end, we were divided - i called it art, for those very reason, and she thought otherwise, her argument was that it was merely pretensious BS for eggheads to sit around and feel superior while they discussed why the common veiwer 'just didn't get it' - who was right, or were we both right?
Topic What is art?
03 Jan 2011 16:18
what is art? it's a good question. what makes something art? yes, somethings are obvious - oil paintins by Van Gogh, Rodin's sculptures, Shakespeare's works, Michael Angelo, great Ballet, Mozart, Ansel Adams. But the, there is the less obvious. Pollack, Mapelthorpe, J. Cameron, Graffite artists, Eminem... why do we looks at some things and instantly recognize them as art, and other things and break out in heated discussion? what is it about a blank canvas with a single splotch of black paint that identifies it as art, or not art? is it the artist's intent? is it what thoughts or ideas or emotions it brings out in the veiwer? are popular movies or music art? what about porn or erotica? Ballet is, but what about the art of pole dancing? is there a right or wrong answer?
just thought i'd give everyone something to think about besides politics and religion - we have some truly great artists here, not only writers, but dancers, painters, photographers, and everyone has opinions. let's hear them.
Topic Masturbation survey
03 Jan 2011 13:21
Q: How often do u Masturbate?
A: Like anything else it varies, but I’d have to say that 2 times daily is average.
Q: what is your record times in a day
A: I’m fairly confident that my record is 7
Q: how long do you normally last?
A: could be anywhere from a 10 minute quickie to a nice hour long slow burn.
Q: how you ever used a sex toy or a object?
if so what did you use?
A: I actually enjoy using my fingers. That said, I’ve used veggies before, as well as candles, and a hairbrush. Mostly, tho, I’ll play with my trusty Hello Kitty vibe, a rubber dildo, or my wireless egg.
Q: Place you usually do it?
A: in bed or at my desk.
Q: How many fingers do you put?
A: 2 is the norm, sometimes 3 if I’m really getting into it.
Q: Do you like watch porn?
A: I’m not really into porn so much – I DO enjoy reading erotica, usually really nasty stories, or just closing my eyes and using my imagination.
Q: What kind of porn?
A: mostly it has to do with bondage, but not always.
Q: Has anyone caught you?
A: yes – in fact I’m not shy about masturbating in front of certain people, and I can be a bit of an exhibitionist.
Q: Do you masturbated in a public place?
A: god, yes. At work, in my car, clubs, dressing rooms, sometimes I just get too turned on not to take care of myself if I can find somewhere even remotely discrete. Rock concerts, movie theatres, public transit (bus or cab), restaurants… I think that covers most of my indiscretions.
Topic Lush Matching Photo Game:
03 Jan 2011 10:17
Topic Person above you is naked and tied to your bed?
03 Jan 2011 10:12
It would involve nipple clamps, anal beads, vibrators, light whipping, and lots of pleasure.
damn, i knew i forgot something last night! anal beads! thank you for that! :) oh, and umm... well, i'll think of something involving my mouth wrapped round your cock while you're helpless to do a thing about it... ;)
Topic Guilty or Innocent.
03 Jan 2011 10:07
have you ever had sex with the pizza delievery guy?