Topic A guy just pleasing you is not enough?
07 May 2013 21:34
I don't see the problem... it seems you're just a generous lover ;) Hopefully you find one as equally generous, then you both find a happy medium :D
Topic Alpha Female
07 May 2013 20:06
I completely agree! This article does feminism no favors by 1. only defining femininity through masculinity as if "dominant traits" are innately linked to male identity and 2. using such a hetetonormative lens to explore the layers of female identity. Lastly, if childbirth isn't seen as THE indicator for defining/locating "alpha" behavior, I don't know what is.
Nice to see you cruising the forums ;) you make me feel so uneducated haha ^^^
Brilliant - I concur.
Topic pissing during sex
07 May 2013 01:12
Perhaps... in time. With the right person.
Topic Stopping yourself from cumming
06 May 2013 21:52
Yes I have had to hold back from the big 'O' on occassion. It is slightly different for me in that my partner was telling me I wasn't allowed to come... it mostly comes down to a contest of wills between my brain and my body. Generally thinking of unrelated things tends to help disrupt things, and gives me a moments respite in which I can quickly reign myself in. It's tough though, exquisite torture. Definately increases the intensity of my orgasm a hundred fold.
Topic The animal in you.
06 May 2013 19:00
LOL I'm a Bison
"Never kick a cow chip on a hot day." ~Proverb
The bison is a pragmatic, strong shouldered individuals who excel in the art of compromise. They are resourceful and dedicated to the pursuit of success.
As is typical of a herbivorous personality, the bison is a resourceful, determined individual with a strongly conservative bent. Not one to rock the boat, it avoids drawing attention to itself while it quietly goes about it business.
The stoic bison is deceptively intelligent, although most of the time its mental processing is done behind the scenes. Bison allow situations to unfold as they must without feeling the need to change the flow of events, all the while watching thoughtfully behind an implacable exterior.
As a migratory animal, bison love to travel and do so in large, organized groups. They are often seen in popular vacation spots, herding around local landmarks before stampeding off to the next predictable tourist trap.
No one would ever accuse bison of being handsome; they have plain, placid faces that are difficult to remember, and their staid temperaments complement their looks. Although their large frames can handle any physical confrontation, they would never go looking for trouble.
Conservative and fearful of change, bison steer clear of radical ideas that might engender a shift in the social order. Righteous indignation is a hallmark of a bison temperament, and they are determined to maintain their status in the workplace hierarchy.
By keeping a low profile, the bison's reputation as a methodical plodder often elicits unkind remarks from jealous associates. As a consequence of this backbiting, their implacable expressions sometimes mask a deep seated inferiority complex.
Topic My wife doesn't like me to go down on her - is this unusual?
03 May 2013 03:20
LOL yeah... I am kind of like that. I LOVE to have it done, don't get me wrong, but I'm rather OCD about cleanliness, I need to be freshly showered etc to feel comfortable with letting someone get down there haha
Topic Do you ever wish you had a cock?
03 May 2013 03:18
I can't say I've ever had the desire... though on very rare occasions, I do think it would be convenient. When I am in an aggressive mood, and I just want to make a claim on my girl, I'd love that strong manhood, to just completely possess her. But that happens very rarely, I'm happy taking her 'cock' for the most part ;)
Topic Have you ever fantasized about having sex with your teacher/professor?
03 May 2013 03:14
I have there was at least one every year ahaha. And, coincidentally, they were always my English teachers, and always female. Well one was my science teacher, but that was the only exception. I guess I was attracted to the authority and the intelligence?
Topic Pet Peeves
03 May 2013 02:25
Ok Lushies - I think there's a high possibility that there could already be an open forum discussion on this but if there is I have no idea where it is and also, more importantly no idea how to find it... (i'm kind of useless with Lush tbh - there was no search bar where I could just type in keywords and anything related came up as a hit haha) So yeah, if there is a similar topic, I'm sure some of you will let me know and I'll get rid of this thread haha.
Ok one pet peeve for myself would be when I'm following a slow driver through hilly or windy roads, and then when we get to a straight or a passing lane, they speed up suddenly which means I have to go fugging 300 miles an hour to get past them, to beat them to the next set of hills so I'm not stuck behind them again. Grrs. ha...