And I finally did it for the first time at age 46, around two years after I got divorced and I was free to fuck and be fucked by whoever I wanted - after 22 years of an monogamous and very sexually satisfying relationship with my ex.
Once I made my decision I never looked back. I was excited and nervous too. I fantasized about what it would be like constantly, and when I fucked my new girlfriend I wondered what it was like to be fucked instead of being the one doing the fucking.
I'm bisexual and my sexual DNA is overwhelmingly straight so I knew that I wouldn't have - and I didn't want to have - too many gay encounters. So I took my time and waited until I met a guy who I was really hot for. And who also was really hot for me. Mutual lust is what makes a fuck a hot fuck and I wanted every one of the handful of gay fucks I would soon have to be a really, REALLY hot fuck.
My gay sexual attraction is driven by two things: a cute black man with dark skin and a very big dick between his legs. And I went out to find a man like that.
I went out a few times alone to some gay bars which was a totally new experience for me. I got comfortable the second or third time and around six months after I began my quest I finally met someone who fit the profile. I saw him across the room and walked up to him immediately and said hi and soon we were talking and flirting. Ten minutes later we were in a taxi and heading back to my place.
I won't get into all the sexual details and that's not what this story is about anyway. But I'll tell you how it all felt to me.
"Jamal" had a big dick - 9.5 inches and when I got down on my knees and pulled down his pants and I saw that black monster for the first time, I felt a rush of sexual thrill run through my body that was as intense as any sexual feeling I've had in my life.
I almost shot my load when I opened my mouth and put Jamal's dick between my lips. His dick wasn't hard at first so I felt it get harder and bigger in my mouth and that was incredibly hot - both physically and also because I knew it was my tongue and lips and black dick worshipping that made it happen.
But after the initial thrill wore off I started to get bored by sucking his - or any other guy's - dick. Which I didn't expect and actually I expected I would have the exact opposite reaction beforehand.
But I really loved kissing him.