Our love was a victim of circumstance.
Some wounds are carried far deeper than flesh, and although we’d sewn our fractured seams with hope, my scars were etched beyond the place where love was enough to save us.
All that’s left of us now is our memories.
The apparitions lie where you are always lingering in my periphery, remnants of how we’d come to know each other in the most intimate of ways. Often the spectres flashing into view strike with such clarity I have to question if you weren’t just a figment of my imagination all along.
These vestiges of you are imprinted in everything. I hear the sweet timbre of your voice, softly singing as we danced together in the moonlight. I smell your cologne on my pillow, a woody scent that reminds me of the warmer months we will no longer spend entwined. I taste you in every meal we ever made together, the taste of your lips and your skin on the tip of my tongue. I see you in the mirror, brushing the hair off of my shoulders before gently and slowly kissing my neck each evening. I feel you, I just feel you everywhere. I haven’t seen you in weeks but I don’t think you ever really left.
These are ghosts of you, and they haunt me; ever present echoes of how effortlessly you slipped into my life…
We had barely met, when there I stood, disoriented by the immutable rush of our instantly fierce connection. I had been irrevocably marked with an enormity of emotion and a fluency of passion, such that I could never have prepared myself for.
Can we ever really prepare ourselves?
Falling in love is akin to chemical insanity, influenced by a powerful cocktail of neurotransmitters. The deluge of dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin, and adrenaline basically makes us go "ga-ga," somehow our vulnerabilities fade into a well of disinhibition, and in spite of any noticeable flaws, all we come to see is some bizarre notion of complete perfection, as we place our partners upon our tallest pedestals. Perfection... a capricious concept at best, and in this case, it's prejudiced by the clever trickery of our neurochemistry, a top-notch façade motivated by the biological imperative to perpetuate our species.
Still, I think we both felt it upon meeting. It was though we were fused on some cellular level, tangled by invisible threads, our undeniable bond fueled by parallels – as if we were mirrors. Our connection was instantaneous and unmistakable; we could never have fought it. We were immediately inseparable, and to me, you were the kind of perfection that only exists in fantasies; crafted with carefully selected words and delicate illustrations, that danced upon the pages of childhood fairytales.Yet, with every passing moment, I knew you were so much more than idyllic reverie. You walked into my life, and I soon knew nothing more than the beauty of our tender collision, as we wrote our own magical narrative.
A narrative evolving so rapidly we didn’t have a chance to spill all of our secrets, to uncover the truths that should have been told before our joining. Instead, they leaked through in another’s whispers, and then came the fragmented confessions that eventually sullied us for me.
What we had shared was tainted. You no longer felt completely safe. We no longer felt right.
That’s not to say I don’t take responsibility, too, as you knew there were things in me that made it hard to reach our true potential. We did reach it, though. Even if it remained just outside of our true grasp, it was always inside of us.
I know this because when I closed my eyes captivating visions of our whole lives together cascaded in front of me. I had seen the way we stood on the precipice of everything real and tangible. I had seen the way you always held me, as I felt the warmth and completeness of every first embrace we would ever have. Kissing gently under the falling summer rain, our heat fogging up your raindrop specked glasses. Of every argument quietly resolved in the calm words we always shared. Flashes of lust, the prickles of feverish heat telling me we would discover something new about each other every time we made love. Our bodies curled like spoons in our shared bed. Your fingers interlaced with mine, flashes of ivory silk and a bouquet of lilies, as we vowed to have and to hold forever. Your hands gently resting upon my swollen abdomen, and later, our daughter in your arms, a perfect blend of my pale and your tan complexion, with a little button nose and dark curls adorning the top of her head.
I don’t think I ever told you that. That I wanted a life with you.
I’d have frozen time to keep you.
The apparitions lie where you are always lingering in my periphery. Sometimes they are less kind, the wisps of smoke outside reminding me of how you were smoking the afternoon you called me cold, when you dared to question if I really cared. All I wanted was to cede to anger and blame, in some vain attempt to remind you how warm I truly was.
You had never forgotten, though. Apologies and hard work showed me how much you cared and how much love you had for me. This had been your top priority, and I knew that. I adored the way you loved me. You were faultless in the way you attempted to repair us, in the way you tried to show me that you yearned to give yourself to me, and only me. To always be mine.
But everything I felt had numbed, and that was when I knew I had fallen apart. That the part of me I’d given to you was irreparable. I kept willing myself to forget but no matter how much I tried to control my feelings, change them, coerce them, we were not what we once were. Weeks passed and any semblance of what was home to me still felt so foreign. I couldn’t leave it any longer.
That is how we came to end.
I was wearing my signature red lips that day. You had always loved the way the flashy sheen of white teeth contrasted against them when I seductively bit my lip, a look of knowing in your eyes, a silent plea for what you knew would follow.
But I don’t think either of us expected what was to follow that night.
With melancholy tones and hushed voices, I had brought us to an end that neither of us truly wanted. I sobbed gently as I confessed the ways I was freighted with distrust and insecurity, and how the cicatrices of pain tore through all the places you used to belong, places I could no longer give to you. My tears were not solitary, and we held each other tightly in the early evening's fading twilight sun. We soon drifted into sleep as we tried to cling on to the last moments we might share.
When I awoke, we were both obscured by the darkness. I had no sense of time, nor did I want one, as faint glimmers of the pale moonlight glowed in our room. You had awoken only minutes before me and had been watching me sleep, cradling me tight and breathing in the scent of my coconut shampoo and deeply floral perfume, as though with every deep inhalation you would have more of me to take with you, to hold on to. You had not known I was awake and were gently stroking my forearm, the pads of your fingers gently caressing my sensitive skin with delicate touches that had always made me melt for you.
You knew it too, and your touch was full of every intention you would no longer come to act upon.
It was my barely audible whimper that gave me away. Your hand came to my chin, pulling me up toward you, and you kissed me. Our lips met, gently at first, almost cautious, but before long our tongues were locked in their familiar tangle. We both knew we shouldn’t, but there was no holding back.
There is something particularly intense about finding one’s way in the dark. It’s always felt like so much more, how every sense becomes so much sharper, the way our bodies strain to sense what clues the light might have otherwise illuminated. Instead, our eyes would adjust to see through every tangible memory we had ever held in our hands.
We communicated best physically through silent exchanges and unspoken pleas, mapped entirely with other senses for there are ceaseless subtleties to be recognised if one truly pays attention. I remember the sounds of your hands running up and down my back, and the slip of material beneath them, shortly followed by the sound of pants unzipping and clothes flying as we raced to unravel one another. Feeling your skin make the subtlest changes beneath my fingertips, every smooth surface becoming littered with gooseflesh.
The sounds of our flesh colliding, of the accidental bumping of enamel in our urgent kisses. The pulse felt beneath my lips as I trailed kisses upon your jawline and down your neck. The small but distinct changes in pitch in the slightest of moans escaping our throats. You swelling in the grip of my hand. The scent of my arousal inhaled between us as fingers and hands and lips explored every single inch of one another.
As I broke away from your embrace, I felt your fear as you clutched on to me, fear that I was suddenly going to leave. I wouldn’t dare. If I couldn’t give all of me to you, I could at least give you a final memory.
I kneeled between your legs, my fingernails scraping the skin of your inner thighs, teasing you before I lowered my head to you, allowing my breasts to heave against your aching length, their warmth and softness only electrifying your every pulsation.