When I was in high school, my American Lit teacher had us read Moby Dick. It was a daunting task at the time, but I have always been glad I did it. There is a scene near the beginning of the novel in which Ishmael, the narrator, finds himself in bed on an icy cold New England night. He explains to the reader that while the blankets on the bed are necessary to keep him warm, he likes to sleep with just his nose exposed to the cold air. His cold nose reminds him that the rest of his body is comfortable and warm.
I think Ishmael was right, but I like to take it a step further. On a really, really cold night, I like to strip down completely and climb under as many blankets as possible. My husband, Ben, certainly liked my proclivities and always said he looked forward to winter.
Tonight is the first really cold night of the year. But Ben isn’t here to share it. In fact, despite the desperate pangs in my chest, I know we are never going to share another night together again.
Ben was a U.S. Marine deployed in Afghanistan, part of the 3rd LAR Battalion. Last spring, about two months into what would have been his final deployment, his convoy was hit by an IED. Ben and another Marine were killed instantly, or so they tell me. And just like that, he was taken from my life forever.
Ben and I actually met in high school. He played football for our rival high school in west Texas, where we both grew up. Me and a couple of cheerleader friends ran into him and a couple of his teammates after the “big game” when I was a sophomore. I honestly thought he was a total asshole at the time. Looking back though, I may have been a bit of a bitch, so maybe it wasn’t all his fault.
We met again at a barn dance years later. I had just graduated from college, and he was home on leave. Long story short, we quickly fell in love. We dated as best we could for an active duty Marine and got married about a year later.
I loved Ben with every cell in my body. I still do. He was funny, masculine, brave, and tender all at the same time. He even smelled good. He had a romantic streak you wouldn’t expect in a Marine. And he treated me like I was the most important thing in his life. His first deployment after we got married lasted about six months and it was agony. Ben’s enlistment was winding down, and his next deployment, as I said, was supposed to be his last. And it was, I guess.
If you had thrust your hand into my chest by brute force and just ripped my heart out, that would have hurt less than what I felt when I learned Ben was gone. All of a sudden, I was a twenty-five-year-old widow. For weeks I felt like I couldn’t breathe. Even now at times and without warning my chest will tighten, my lungs stop working, and the enormous hole inside me overwhelms everything.
So here I am, alone in a queen-sized bed made for two. I have my blankets on (and nothing else), and like Ishmael, I feel warm on this cold night. But that doesn’t cancel out the aching emptiness that never seems to leave me anymore.
I have stacked up three or four pillows so I’m kind of sitting up. Thinking maybe it’s time to reread Moby Dick, because…why not? After a few chapters, sleep is lapping up over my consciousness like waves on a, particularly, peaceful shore. The blankets had slipped down toward my waist, I didn’t notice when.
But now something is different. I am no longer leaning—half sitting, half reclining—against my pillows. I feel the firm, warm contact of skin-on-skin. I am leaning back against a familiar chest. A man’s chest. Ben’s chest. I can’t see him of course, but I know these sensations well. I feel his thick, strong, slightly hairy arms wrap around me, embracing me from behind in a delicious bear hug. Instinctively, I relax and melt into Ben’s arms. I am safe and comfortable—for the first time in almost a year. I don’t want this feeling to end…ever.
The sensation of Ben’s hot breath on my left ear and down my neck is exhilarating. He trails his right hand downward, caressing my bare stomach, while his left hand expands to palm my breast. He pinches my pink nipple, lightly at first but with increasing pressure. Soon, both of my nipples are pert and hard as diamonds.