Ever since my wife and I were married and she started being seen on military bases for the majority of her medical needs, I have noticed a trend. Up until just recently, the wife of a man who is in the military has her doctor on the military base. She is assigned a primary care manager (PCM) and he or she takes care of most of her routine appointments.
Now, unlike private practice doctors who might be older, military doctors can be Captains or even Lieutenants and could be in their twenties or thirties. Also, in the military clinics, regular doctors (PCMs or Primary Care Managers) perform women’s annual exams and the only time that a woman goes to a real gynecologist is if her PCM finds a problem during his or her exam.
Let me tell you a little about my wife Ava. She is Asian and is very beautiful, sexy, slim, and attractive. She has light brown skin and long straight jet-black hair. She goes to the gym five days a week and has been working out for a long time and she is in incredible shape. She is five-foot-three and weighs about one-hundred-and-fifteen pounds. She is somewhat shy and does not enjoy having her annual checkups.
When we first got married, Ava got a female PCM assigned to her and then went to have her annual exam. She complained that the PCM was rough, fast, and didn’t explain what was going on. The next year her PCM was gone so she had to see a male PCM and after the checkup was over, Ava said that he was much gentler and more thorough with her and did explain what was going on. Since then, she has preferred to have her PCM be a male.
I started to think that something fishy was going on because every time she went to see her PCM for any kind of problem, he would always start off the exam by telling her how many more months than she had before she was to come in for her annual pelvic exam and pap test. He would always explain to her how important it is to get the exam done on-time and not let it go over a year between exams.
Now, this is good but I thought that it might be a little suspect. It seemed almost like he couldn’t wait to get her in the stirrups. I mean, did he make certain that all his patients had their annual pelvic exams every twelve months without question; even fat and ugly women? I don’t know for sure.
One time she had gone in to be seen for dizziness and was told to have a blood sample taken. She was later notified that she was anemic and to come back in so that her PCM could try to figure out what was going on.
At the appointment, her PCM asked her some questions and told her that he had to check her out to see if he could find where she was losing blood. He had her remove her clothes and get in the stirrups and then he put a spotlight on her privates. She said that she didn’t watch but she could feel him spread her pussy open with his fingers. After that, he opened her with a speculum, shined a spotlight inside her, and thoroughly looked around.
She said that she felt that since it was not a routine exam and that he was actually looking for something that this could be a normal way that doctors search for an area that she may be losing blood. I personally thought that it was suspect of a young Captain taking advantage of the situation. But I am not a doctor, so I wouldn’t know and as long as my wife was OK with it then I was OK with it and if it was not a normally routine procedure to check for anemia, then it was the Captain’s lucky day to see and feel my wife.
We then moved to another base and then she got a new male PCM. He did his initial evaluation and noticed in her medical records that Ava had been diagnosed with anemia and believe it or not, he told her that he wanted to see if he could locate the problem for himself and did almost the same exact procedure on her as the other PCM at our previous Base by having her get up in the stirrups and completely check her inside and out. I guess it was his lucky day too.
At this point, I was definitely seeing a trend. It seemed like almost every time she would go to see a PCM, he would find a reason to put her legs up in the stirrups and spread her open.
We stayed at that base for a few years during which time my wife went to dental school. She finished her schooling just before we moved to a new Base. At the new base, she got a new PCM.
When I signed in at the hospital, they asked me if it mattered to my wife if her PCM was male or female and I told them that she wanted a male doctor. She said okay, then she gave me three choices of possible male providers that were available. I don’t remember their names but one was a Colonel, one was a Major, and one was a Captain. Logically thinking about it, I chose the Captain because he would be the youngest of the three.
An initial evaluation was scheduled for her and one of the first things that her new Captain PCM noticed during that evaluation was that she was due for her annual physical exam. He did the complete annual exam to include her pap and pelvic exam. She said that he was nice, courteous, and very thorough with his exam.
A few months after that, my wife saw that there was a job opening in the dental clinic on the base which was in the same building as the family practice doctor’s offices. My wife put in for the job and got it. So now she worked in the dental clinic within the same squadron and building as her PCM.
Ava had made a lot of friends at the squadron and seemed to be very popular. I know this because when I went to the gym and worked out with her, there were always guys saying, “Hi,” to her and she told me that they were either her dental patients or guys from her squadron.
So now she told me that she felt kind of uncomfortable about having her annual exams done at the base clinic because she saw her PCM sometimes in passing in the clinic. I told her that he had already done an annual exam on her and so it would be nothing new to him if she were to continue to do her annual physical exams.
Now that she was working with the military and had also gone to dental school, she had learned about chaperones and the importance of them to most doctors. What she was surprised to find out, is that in the military clinic the policy is that if a patient wants a chaperone, he or she needs to request one.
The funny thing is that unless you specify that you want a male or female chaperone, you will just get a chaperone. It could be a girl or could be a guy. It is basically anyone who works there and is available.
Now in the military, the guy-to-girl ratio is about eight to one and in the medical clinic. There were about fourteen people working there. Most were lower-ranking males but there were a few females. These people do not have degrees and were just working there because that is the job that they got when they came into the military. Basically, they were just there by chance or maybe by their request to have that kind of job.
Now in the past, whenever my wife’s PCM would ask her if she wanted a chaperone, she would always decline because she said that it would be just one more person who was going to be watching. Over the years, I have told her from time to time and it was kind of a running joke with us that her PCMs had been doing extensive vaginal exams on her as often as they could and that the exams were more thorough than normal because there was no chaperone present to witness it. She didn’t agree with me and thought that was just crazy.
To try to prove my theory, I made a bet with her. Since her annual was coming due again, I told her to ask for a chaperone at her next annual exam just to see what the PCM would say and do and how he would react to not being able to be alone during the exam and to see if the exam would go more quickly or less thoroughly.
I guess that she forgot about the protocol in the clinic about having to specify a male or female chaperone and taking the first available person unless specified by the patient. I bet in my mind that she would end up getting a male chaperone simply because there were more guys working in that clinic than girls.
Just like she always did, Ava prepared the night before her exam by neatly trimming her bush and shaving everything from her clitoris down. She went to her exam the next day and I talked with her afterward. She was upset with me. She hit me on the arm and said “Thanks a lot!”