About subside

Highly educated, great sense of humor, well-liked, a great friend, inshape (work out 3-4 times per week) and very attractive. Still seraching for a female dom playmate/friend. I really like afternoon rendezvous. Tend to be on the subside, but I Switch often. I have some true stories that I believe are pretty hot, which I hope to post soon. I am very friendly and always respond to any question or requst. I am a fixer, which means I am always helping people get out of their "jams". I guess that is why I have so many friends and people know they can count on me. If you want to chat, hit me up. Lets have fun and play nice.

Relationship Status:
In a Relationship
Wine, traveling, cooking, history, crossword puzzles, sports, jogging, motrcycle riding, the arts, museums(Prado, Louvre, Musee d'Orsay, Uffici, Borghese, MOMA, Guggenheim, Am. Museum of Natural History, Barberini collection, Academia, Van Gogh Museum in Amsterdam)
Favorite Books:
Of Mice and Men, Call of the Wild, Huckleberry Finn, the Art of War, The Power Elite, The Pearl, DaVinci Code, Angels and Demons
Favorite Authors:
Steinback, Arthur Zinn, Jack London, Poe, James Patterson, Mark Twain, Dickens, Grisham, Dan Brown, John Steinbeck
Favorite Movies:
Casablanca, Duck Soup, Frankenstein, Taxi Driver, Raging Bull, All Quiet on the Western Front, The Day After, The Day the Earth Stood Still, Ground Hog Day, Deuce Bigelow, Matri-all three, the Jason Bourne series- All James Bond Movies (although not crazy about Roger Moore), The Maltese Falcon, Treasure of Sierra Madre, Clockwork Orange, Dr Strangeluv, Full Metal Jacket, Platoon, Titanic, American Beauty, Ray, The Graduate, Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf, Shrek
Favorite Music:
Classical, Rock, New Wave, BLUES, Jazz, Country-pretty much anything-not to big on rap
Date Joined:
02 Dec 2010
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Topic: Curlygirly and Mazza's BIG sandwich!!
Posted: 22 Sep 2011 10:10

Anyone want to go take a stroll

Topic: Curlygirly and Mazza's BIG sandwich!!
Posted: 22 Sep 2011 08:44

How Aprapo. I have just been informed by Travelzoo.com that a night trip to Rome over thanksgiving day holiday (other dates are available) hotel, breakfast and Air -out of JFK Area (check the site for your nearest airport) is $699. Not familiar with the hotel, but that can always be upgraded. Perhaps We should charter a plane filled with lush members!

Topic: Curlygirly and Mazza's BIG sandwich!!
Posted: 22 Sep 2011 08:39

If anyoine would like a tour meet me at the top of the spanish steps, in front of the Hassler Medici Hotel around 1 pm.. Let me know if there are any specific points of interests you would like to see. We will stop at Tre Scalini for some wonderful creamy, smoth deliciosa geallato at the piazza navona. Ciao Amici

Topic: Curlygirly and Mazza's BIG sandwich!!
Posted: 22 Sep 2011 08:18

Maximus decimus meridius has returned to glorius rome. My first stop shall be the forum-"Friends, Romans Countrymen, Lushies-lend me your ears, toys, and anything else you have..."

Topic: Curlygirly and Mazza's BIG sandwich!!
Posted: 27 Jul 2011 11:49

Mazza, that is a perfect choice for the music for this evenings festivities.

Topic: Curlygirly and Mazza's BIG sandwich!!
Posted: 27 Jul 2011 09:29

Thank you Curlygirl. I hope work doesnt keep me late. And the damn Ferrari is in the shop again-may take the bentley

Topic: Curlygirly and Mazza's BIG sandwich!!
Posted: 27 Jul 2011 09:27

Excellent suggestion Mazza on the venison and wild boar! The wild boar will go well with the Barola and the venison will go perfectly with the Burgundy. we will splurge too-only a grand cru. Perhaps the venison could be made grilled and topped with a balsamic mustard sauce(-easy on the balsa))mic so as not to interfere with the wine)? what do you think. Will anyone be bringing dessert? Perhaps Tiramisu? Creme Brulee?

Topic: Curlygirly and Mazza's BIG sandwich!!
Posted: 27 Jul 2011 09:01

Hello everyone. I believe we will need some great wine for the festivities. I think a 1997 Borola and Bertani Amarome will do. Lets also have a 2003 bordeaux, I do like Chateau Margaux and Chateau Haut-Brion. Perhaps a Petrus too. For White wines I think we should have a nice crisp Pouilly Fusisse and Montrachet 2007. I also like the Gavi di Gavi from italy . A great red burgundy(Echezeaux Grand Cru) and some champage-lots of it. I like Bollinger and Roeder

I will prepare athree mushroom Risotto (potabello, shitake and regular musshrooms) with sausage and olive oil I just brought back from Sicily-from my mother's olive trees. I will also prepare lobster ravioli prepared in white wine and pink cream sauce with shallots mushrooms and a touch of red crushed pepper. We do need a meat dish to go with the reds. Any suggestions.? perhaps a roast leg of lamb or osso buco ina a balsamic sauce (just had it in Rome-awsome)For an anti-pasta - Fresh provolone that I purchased at the factory and also brought back; home cured olives from sicily and home made sun dried tomatoes (stuffed with garlic, pepper and parsley).

I will assume this is black tie_- looking foward to meeting everyone- Bon appetite

Topic: Curlygirly and Mazza's BIG sandwich!!
Posted: 26 Jul 2011 11:38

Hello everyone. Thanks for the invite curlygirl. nice soiree (although i know its daytime) i c someone likes JD and coke. Has anyone tried the Honey JD-AWESOMEEE!!!!

Topic: What justifies war?
Posted: 25 Mar 2011 12:38

Ideally, nothing justifies war, but in the real world it will become unavoidable. Darfu, Congo, Rhwanda these were civil wars. Internal disputes that in theory outsiders should not get involved with-just like our Civil War between the states. In fact the UN Charter specifically states no country is to interfere with the internal conflict of another nation. This generally relates to the charter's view on self determination. However, Darfu, Congo etc should have been addressed by the western nations. What makes these civil wars diffrent is exactly what was mention in one of the above- widespread (not isolated random) crimes against humanity were/are still being commited-horrible attrocities. The west did get involved in bosnia, but not those other area-why? because of geo-political concerns. Bosnia, Kosovo etc. were part of europe and threatenen to destabilize the surrounding european nations with refugees, economic chaos etc.

So, where horrific crimes against humainty are involved-yes war is justified. The problem is that countries cant agree on what type of force to use or whether they have the resources and can afford to spend those resources half way around the worl. Is africa more important than Europe.

Also, war can be justified when one country threatens another. Again, the UN charter specifically provides that a nation has its right to defend and protect itself. Thus, clearly if ther is a clear and present danger of attack, i belive a country has the right to go to war to defend itself. However, here, here again the problem is what is clear and present, how rea/crediblel is the threat? Is this just a pretense to start the war for a country's benefit.

Oppression in a country does not necessarily mean crimes against humanity. Religious , societal norms, or internal predjudice is does not necessarily rise to the level of justification to go to war. These may be revolting to some cultures, but interferring would be chauvanistic.

So in conclusion war , I believe is justified if the situation involves (1) crimes against humanity; (2) protection and a "clear, present , credible threat, to your country; or, (3) if a country has been premptively attacked.

The botom line is nobody wins in war. Both side lose, but one sometimes loses more

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