I agree with everything that's been said (and I'm still going to toss my two cents into the conversation).

Collars (in all their many forms and styles) are wonderful as a symbol of love, devotion, trust, faith, possession, submission, domination...(there's more...but I'm sleepy and my brain is a bit fuzzy). I adore my collar, it makes me feel safe and loved. I only wear it when I'm with my Master. All the other time I wear a wrist cuff. It's cool looking and handmade--subtle and less obvious than a traditional collar. Both of these items are utterly sacred to me.

That being said, I understand the feeling of a collar feeling degrading. Traditionally, we as people toss collars on dogs and cats (creatures that we view as less than us. ) Certain standard neck collars look more like a standard animal collar (some Doms/subs prefer this look), others look like pieces of jewelry, some have bells (mine doesn't but it was a close one :)), and some are simple and relatively standard within the lifestyle.

Perhaps it is the fashion the collar that doesn't sit well with you, or perhaps you are not familiar with the feeling of a collar (I'm not sure it that is the case, just kind of wildly and randomly thinking). As others have suggested, talk with your Master. I've seen your Master's posts in response to what others have said and He strikes me as an open individual who genuinely wants you to be happy in your life with Him. Be honest with Him, but also be willing to try out things. Never know when something will click.

Just remember, the collar (in whatever form) isn't about punishment. It's a circling of the heart and it shows your Master's devotion just as much as it shows your devotion.

....wow...sorry about the rambling meandering post. I do hope it mades sense.

Cheers.

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lovely licks

As with others...racial slurs are right on top of my list..

But as for words I just don't like...

"yogurt", "guesstimate", "ooze", "pus"...and especially "phlegm"

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2 is nice, 3 is wonderful, 4 or more is lovely if I'm in the mood for it.

I dunno...I agree with some of them...

S: Cute
U: Is Very Sexual
B: Loves People
T: Very Good Kisser
I: Loves to Laugh and Smile
G: Very Outgoing
G: Very Outgoing
Y: Is Loved by Everyone

*climbs up on the big kitty and and curls up on top of you, purring loudly*

Kitty-cuddle-pile! Hullo dear. *purr purr purr, tail swish*

*tiger-grin* Most of the time a lot more!

*stretches and flexes claws lazily* It's going to be a quiet day for this kitty, which is purrrrfect.

*sprawls across a pile of blankets and naps for a bit*

Her hands were clasped behind her back, fingers interlaced, and her head was down, demurely. She wore nothing but what He had given her, hand-made cuffs and matching collar, and her skin was raised ever-so-slightly at the chilly temperature of the room. She was the picture of submission, save for the slight shift of her knees as she waited, anxious. She resisted the urge to raise her eyes to...

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She knew better than to move, knew that if her hands wandered, she would be punished. He had ordered her to keep her hands where they were, above her head. He was not kind enough to restrain her—to keep her from moving. He wanted her to break, to disobey. His eyes told her to misbehave, that he needed to earn her submission. She whimpered as his fingers moved deeper, rougher. She wanted...

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