Topic Getting pregnant in your 20s
09 May 2013 08:22
This really depends on the person. There are some mature women in their early 20's. I had my fun during my college years from age 17-22. Then I got married and had my first child at age 23. I think it was a great time to have children. My husband and I had lots of energy to care for them.
I have several friends and relatives who waited until their 30's to try to have children. Many of them ended up with fertility issues and regretted waiting. There's a flip side to everything.
Topic Interesting article
22 Apr 2013 11:46
Ideally, women want a man who has it all: looks, status, intelligence, loyalty, financial stability, etc.
If I was going to choose a mate solely for breeding purposes, then I would choose him based on his genetic material, namely looks and intellectual ability. For breeding alone, I would not need loyalty.
Topic Cock pics ?!
14 Apr 2013 14:35
I have no desire to see someone's cock pics. A nice bulge covered with boxer briefs...well, that is sexy.
Topic RACK vs SSC
14 Apr 2013 14:32
Risk Aware Consensual Kink. Personally, if I feel that my life, safety or health is at RISK, I would tell the guy to fuck off.
Topic Aggressive vs Dom
14 Apr 2013 14:24
I will end communication with a Dom who speaks to me as if I belong to him before I have agreed to such a relationship. Just because I am A sub that does not mean I am YOUR sub. I prefer Doms who are patient and wait for me to offer my submission to them. This tends to weed out the abusers. They make some stupid comment about me not really being a submissive and then they go on their merry way prowling for a weaker submissive.
Topic Ok With
13 Apr 2013 19:57
Doesn't bother me at all.
Topic comfortable butt plug?
03 Mar 2013 11:39
@Sensei - The bigger issue was getting it out! I was pulling on it for 10 minutes and finally had to enlist some outside assistance.
Topic going from online to Real life
03 Mar 2013 11:33
This has happened to me a few times. I like to meet people online first, chat a bit to see if we click and make sure our definitions of domination/submission match up. We talk/play for a few months online. Then meet for coffee to see if we click in person as well. Then play time!
Topic comfortable butt plug?
17 Feb 2013 19:31
I'm wondering if anyone here can recommend a comfortable butt plug. I have a small silicone one and I absolutely hate it. It's uncomfortable while it's in and I have difficulty getting it out. I'm quite petite and cannot consider anything large. Any recommendations or advice would be appreciated. Thank you.
Topic period sex
01 Feb 2013 08:47
I don't love it but it doesn't bother me.
Topic whip or paddle
29 Jan 2013 09:01
That raises some questions for me.
1. Did you refuse because he had gone past your limits and you were squicked?
2. If the answer to 1 is yes, did you have a safeword? Did you use it?
Consent is key to these kinds of activities. Both parties need to feel that they can perform these activities safely. The dom needs to trust that the sub continues to consent, perhaps in the face of behavior (crying, screaming, etc) that would ordinarily be counter-indicative. The dom can only rely on the fact that the sub has *not* called out the safeword, and can really only feel safe to proceed if he feels that the sub *would* call it out if they needed to. At the same time, the sub needs to feel safe to use the word. They must trust that if they use it, that the dom will take them out-of-scene (which includes clearing all restraints) and immediately offer after-care in a context without hierarchy, and further that there will be no future repercussions from using it (with the possible exception that there will be no repeat of whatever caused them to use the safeword to start with).
I missed this. Sorry for not responding sooner.
I did not use my safeword. I tend to avoid them as I feel they can really be a mood killer. The man whom I was with did realize that I was having a difficult time and he lightened up after that. It was his first time using a paddle so I think that was the problem.
Topic A Sad Day A Hard Goodbye
22 Jan 2013 08:18
Break-ups are never easy. The relationship between master and submissive can be quite intense, so I'm sure you're feeling a great loss right now. It's nice that you can still be happy for her. I wish you the best of luck.
Topic whip or paddle
16 Jan 2013 19:18
I've never been whipped, but I have been belted and paddled. I found the paddle to be much harsher than the belt. I remember rolling off his lap and sitting on the floor, protecting my bottom, and refusing to go back over his knee :-)
Topic Masturbating wife
15 Jan 2013 10:03
Women are multi-orgasmic, so sometimes we feel we are not quite finished when our men are.
Topic Body Hair on a guy
15 Jan 2013 09:58
If she doesn't like your back hair and you're open to removing it, then go for it. Just watch out for ingrown hairs!
Topic How To Write Good
13 Jan 2013 19:25
I really enjoyed this!
Topic Must we woman accept?
10 Jan 2013 19:50
A guy dressing down at a restaurant wouldn't be a deal-breaker for me. I don't really care one way or the other. It would bother me if he was my date at an important work function though.
Topic What type of sex toys do you own?
20 Dec 2012 18:57
Hitachi magic wand
eroscillator with multiple attachments
vibrating panties with remote