Topic I am curious about married Dom/subs
09 Oct 2013 19:05
I've managed to juggle both. I currently have a Dom and we are both married. When we are online or texting, I am his. When we meet up, I am his. We do not interfere with each others' married life in any way. For instance, he would never order me not to have sex with my husband. It works for us. That said, I could probably get into a deeper submission if I was single and truly belonged to him. But I'm happy nonetheless.
Topic Why do men ask for the truth then hold it against you later?
07 Jun 2013 11:45
Why do women get pissed and refuse to tell us why?
People, men and women forget themselves and put their pride in front of their love. Is being right or vindicated worth angering the one you love?
Because we wish you would figure out what you did wrong. You've done this 1000 times before. How could you not know why I'm mad at you now. Just saying
Topic Ladies ever had sex with you Ex?
07 Jun 2013 11:14
I've done this. Usually after a breakup with the next guy. It's a quick and easy way to get the job done.
Topic Driving in heels
05 Jun 2013 19:37
I can drive in heels but have a hard time driving in platforms.
Topic Toe Sucking?
03 Jun 2013 19:55
I love having my feet massaged and my toe knuckles cracked (yes, I know that's odd). Toe sucking doesn't do anything for me, but it's not a turn off either. My current play partner loves sucking on my toes and doing things to my body that makes my toes curl.
Topic Switching it up
02 Jun 2013 19:39
I'm definitely more submissive by nature, but once in a while I do switch. I try to think about what I enjoy as a submissive: What would I like said to me? What would I like done to me? How would I like to punished for that?
Topic Have you? Would you? Do You? Will You? (Dungeon settings)
27 May 2013 19:44
I am currently seeing someone who likes to take me to a dungeon from time to time. I actually prefer the intimacy and the 'real-ness' of a home or hotel, but the dungeon is good for certain things like hard spanking sessions (no need to worry about noise), bondage (there are hooks on the ceiling) and various role-play scenarios. They also have every toy or implement imaginable in the dungeon; however, in my opinion, some things should not be shared (gags, vibrators, dildos, etc.).
Topic pissing during sex
24 May 2013 09:26
There was one time I stood in the shower and spread open my lips and let a guy pee on my clit. It didn't really do anything for me though. This same guy wanted me to pee on him during sex and I tried but couldn't get it out while he was inside me; maybe it's not possible?
Topic What do girls look for in other girls?
24 May 2013 09:16
I prefer women who are about my age, slender, narrow hips and not too busty. That's just my preference though and certainly not a requirement.
Topic Did you initiate a MFM?
24 May 2013 09:13
I have asked my husband about it but he will not consider it. My husband cannot stand the thought of another man touching me, even in his presence. He also does not like the idea of being so close to another man's genitals.
I still mention it occasionally in dirty talk while we have sex.
Topic Getting pregnant in your 20s
09 May 2013 08:22
This really depends on the person. There are some mature women in their early 20's. I had my fun during my college years from age 17-22. Then I got married and had my first child at age 23. I think it was a great time to have children. My husband and I had lots of energy to care for them.
I have several friends and relatives who waited until their 30's to try to have children. Many of them ended up with fertility issues and regretted waiting. There's a flip side to everything.
Topic Interesting article
22 Apr 2013 11:46
Ideally, women want a man who has it all: looks, status, intelligence, loyalty, financial stability, etc.
If I was going to choose a mate solely for breeding purposes, then I would choose him based on his genetic material, namely looks and intellectual ability. For breeding alone, I would not need loyalty.
Topic Cock pics ?!
14 Apr 2013 14:35
I have no desire to see someone's cock pics. A nice bulge covered with boxer briefs...well, that is sexy.
Topic RACK vs SSC
14 Apr 2013 14:32
Risk Aware Consensual Kink. Personally, if I feel that my life, safety or health is at RISK, I would tell the guy to fuck off.
Topic Aggressive vs Dom
14 Apr 2013 14:24
I will end communication with a Dom who speaks to me as if I belong to him before I have agreed to such a relationship. Just because I am A sub that does not mean I am YOUR sub. I prefer Doms who are patient and wait for me to offer my submission to them. This tends to weed out the abusers. They make some stupid comment about me not really being a submissive and then they go on their merry way prowling for a weaker submissive.
Topic Ok With
13 Apr 2013 19:57
Doesn't bother me at all.
Topic comfortable butt plug?
03 Mar 2013 11:39
@Sensei - The bigger issue was getting it out! I was pulling on it for 10 minutes and finally had to enlist some outside assistance.
Topic going from online to Real life
03 Mar 2013 11:33
This has happened to me a few times. I like to meet people online first, chat a bit to see if we click and make sure our definitions of domination/submission match up. We talk/play for a few months online. Then meet for coffee to see if we click in person as well. Then play time!
Topic comfortable butt plug?
17 Feb 2013 19:31
I'm wondering if anyone here can recommend a comfortable butt plug. I have a small silicone one and I absolutely hate it. It's uncomfortable while it's in and I have difficulty getting it out. I'm quite petite and cannot consider anything large. Any recommendations or advice would be appreciated. Thank you.
Topic period sex
01 Feb 2013 08:47
I don't love it but it doesn't bother me.