After living in southern africa for 30 years, and knowing how dangerous that paradise is, I think people should wait for the story to unfold before thinking suspiciously about this, he may live in a security compound but, as has previously been noted it's not a fortified complex, living in South Africa( Johannesburg is one of the most dangerous cities in the world ) will put you in a state of high alertness and things can happen very quickly, my parents were robbed at gunpoint, in a friend's house, luckily nobody was hurt but there could have been a different outcome had someone lost "it". I've come home to find a burglar in my home and only managed to stop him by drawing my weapon ( gun laws are different compared to the UK ) then calling the cops after he realised he couldn't escape, he had a machete on him, I dont want to think what would have happened if I had been sleeping or relaxing in my home when he broke in as my weapon was normally in the safe when at home. So please lets wait for the facts

love red's, most of my girlfriends have been red's ! not that I went out of my way to find them, it's just the way it happened, however, in saying that, I married a brunette. I then divorced a brunette andam living happily ever after(for now)

depends where i'm masterbating, but mostly on the underwear i was wearing before i started, if not my underwear then tissues

Trnd to agree with JohnC I'm 100% hetero so even the top pic does nothing for me

read every day i don't know what i'd do without literature, tv's shit, always re-runs or soaps and I can only play so much online gaming

read every day i don't know what i'd do without literature, tv's shit, always re-runs or soaps and I can only play so much online gaming

nice avatar, good choice of movies.

I'm one of the " nice guys " i'm also divorced and well into my 40s i don't meet many women but when I do i push my insecurity to the side and treat them with real respect, if things go the way i hope i dont waste time, i let her see i'm interested in her and watch ( hopefully ) for a positive reaction. If it's negative I behave like a gent should and respect her decision , DONT leave it too long or she WILL get the wrong idea and slot you into the friend line, also, if she is interested in something other than " friendship " she would give you some signs, if you fail to notice them... welcome to friendville buddy because she WILL think you don't see her as girlfriend material. SHOW a positive attitude even if you aren't, DONT leave it too long, TREAT her with respect

why does a scotsman wear a sporran ? .... because if he gets mugged at least he'll get some enjoyment out of it !!

art is any medium which compels an emotive response, whether that response is good or bad, as long as it moves your senses, art can be found everywhere and anywhere, only you can label it as art because everyone perceives things differently. I draw ( and I like to think i'm pretty good ) but I dont consider myself an artist, however I love art, but what I consider art you mightn't.