For me its always been the first kiss, there is so much anticipation leading up to that moment. When you kiss someone for the first time, if there are no fireworks then it's never getting to the first fuck, at least not for me.

Okay, for me and my husband this is simple. A connection in the virtual world (lush, chat room, yahoo, etc) where it is words on a screen or even on the phone (with someone known and trusted) is not cheating because it's not real. Anything real world (skin to skin even if its with a hand) is cheating. It makes it easy. I can play on lush and get warmed up for him and it's not cheating, because he (and I) are the only ones touching me.

I was in a private chat with someone and when I clicked block user in the chat window, my chatroom window went to the friends/blocked user screen of update my profile. JerseyLynn said I should send this for it to be looked at.

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My ex was bi, and things didn't work out. I don't think that had anything to do with him being bi though. I tend to be a bit territorial and I don't know how I would react to having to share my man LOL.

I have and the lead up to the actual sex over the course of the semester was crazy. I would recommend it to anyone who has the opportunity as long as you don't end up getting in trouble. Sneaking around and meeting in his office for my tutoring sessions was crazy hot and just made it better when we finally fucked four months later (he made me wait until grades were turned in)

Before I can answer this truthfully, I need to know your version of big/fat.
My husband is a bigger guy, he's a biker and a bouncer so he has a little extra weight on him but isn't morbidly obese. I like guys who aren't skinny emo tight pants boys. I want to have someone who looks like he protects me, not the other way around, and fat guys don't look at you cross-eyed if you order an appetizer and dessert. I need to feel comfortable in my skin and the skinny guys I've dated have never done that for me.

I have, more than once. It depends on the story though - I don't have a "type" per se, it's more about whether the author has painted the right picture in my mind . . .

My ex was ridiculously large and especially when doing it doggy-style I would feel it the next day, or even for a day or two after that. The sex was amazing but if I let it get a little out of control there would be pain for a few days - it was usually worth it though

I actually prefer someone who is more intelligent and tries to stimulate my mind in ADDITION to my body. My best friends are geeks, and I am no intellectual slouch either. I agree that confidence attracts women, but it doesn't have to be sexual confidence alone. Of of the greatest lovers I ever had is a nuclear engineer!

You Scored as Walrus

You scored the Walrus! You like to look after yourself and indulgence is your favourite vice. You use charm and manipulation to get what you want and don't mind taking someone else's share... if they aren't watching of course.

Walrus
92%
Tweedle Dee & Tweedle Dum
83%
Mad Hatter
83%
Alice
67%
Carpenter
67%
Caterpillar
67%
Cheshire Cat
58%
The Dormouse
50%
Queen of Hearts
50%
Flamingo
50%
A Playing Card
42%
Oyster
33%
March Hare
17%
The White Rabbit
17%

I lay my shattered twisted heart at your feet, and look into your soft, welcoming eyes. Those who came before you all promised to keep it safe and protect it; followed only by repeated blows to my safety and security for nothing more than their entertainment and amusement. I was merely a toy, something to bide their time with and toss away like garbage when they were through with me. ...

Added 02 May 2013 | Category Love Poems | Votes 4 | Avg Score 5 | Views 243 | 3 Comments

Heart guarded from pain Walls surrounding all you see, Scared to let you in. My heart beats faster, Breath quickens; body trembles I need a release. Now is not the time, Too many complications. Will you wait for me? I should have turned after you. I should have followed you home, damn the consequences. Why do I always have to be the good girl, the one who tries to do the...

Added 18 Dec 2012 | Category Straight Sex | Votes 10 | Avg Score 4.8 | Views 1,426 | 7 Comments

Hearing the dogs scratching at the door to go out, I rolled over to look at the clock. Wow, eight AM already . I thought to myself. I don’t think we even attempted to sleep until five-thirty, I was beyond exhausted. Hearing me stir, you snuggled behind me, and I could feel your cock hard against my ass. “Morning wood, sir?” I asked playfully, reaching around to stroke it. “No. Just...

Added 12 Nov 2012 | Category Straight Sex | Votes 7 | Avg Score 4.71 | Views 2,789 | 5 Comments

Walking into my sister’s house I see the clock on the stove read 2:35 am. I have to be up for work in about six hours max, and I am nowhere near sleep. It’s nice when she goes out of town and I get to watch her house, but at the same time my commute to work is doubled. I let the dogs out, and once they are settled back into their beds, I wander into the bedroom. I reach over and grab my...

Added 14 Oct 2012 | Category Reluctance | Votes 13 | Avg Score 4.46 | Views 7,423 | 8 Comments

This is one of those "almost true" stories. It's something that should have happened, even though it never did . . . or did it? ******* “Hi Pete, its Lisa; Matt’s girlfriend.” I said into the phone. “Hi Lisa, How are you? You do know Matt is out of town right?” You said. “No, I know he and his dad are out of town. I was just wondering if you had any plans tonight. My parents are at...

Added 03 Sep 2012 | Category Straight Sex | Votes 8 | Avg Score 4.63 | Views 6,026 | 2 Comments

It’s been about a year since we’ve met, we even worked together for a few months. We often meet at the bar, giggling over beers and shared cigarettes as we roll our eyes at the boys trying to get in our pants. I tease you every time that one of these nights I am going to get you drunk to take advantage of you; you just laugh it off as me being playful. You have no idea how serious I am, and...

Added 24 Jan 2012 | Category Lesbian | Votes 7 | Avg Score 5 | Views 2,625 | 2 Comments

Years have passed since I last saw Ben. He moved from Michigan to Virginia almost six years ago, and the events that happened on that spring day back in 1998 are just a memory that helps get me off from time to time. It seems like every time Ben has been in town, something has come up and prevented me from meeting up with him. Tonight I was determined to see him, no matter what. I was...

Added 07 May 2011 | Category Straight Sex | Votes 9 | Avg Score 4.67 | Views 3,286 | 1 Comment

So my last tale ended with my quandary of giving up dangerous desserts for true love; in the short week that has followed, the dessert got even more dangerous and left me with an even more troubling question. . . Monday night, I fell asleep in Rich’s arms with him none the wiser about my afternoon adventures. He was feeling a little frisky that night and started gently rubbing my...

Added 25 Apr 2011 | Category Taboo | Votes 4 | Avg Score 4.25 | Views 2,395 | 3 Comments

Another story with names changed to protect the not so innocent. Partly truth and partly fiction, I'm not telling you where the fantasy begins :) This story is one of the hardest I have ever written; not only is it a mixture of reality and fantasy, but it is also about a person in my life I don’t talk about much. When I was 17 I met a boy named Steve who at the time I thought was the love of...

Added 19 Apr 2011 | Category Taboo | Votes 19 | Avg Score 4.74 | Views 7,424 | 8 Comments

I see you across Rick’s crowded backyard. It’s another mid-summer barbeque party at Rick and Vanessa’s with all the friends. Last time we were both at one of these parties it was when Rick and Vanessa were getting engaged and you were with her, and I was jealous. None of that matters now, fate has blessed us today with the perfect opportunity, and we just have to play it cool until then. For...

Added 15 Jun 2010 | Category First Time | Votes 3 | Avg Score 4.67 | Views 4,018 | 1 Comment