Topic Wetting yourself with excitement
10 Aug 2015 19:57
Wetting myself - not to the stage of urinating but yes to the stage where I do get moist,damp,wet from mental stimulation involving sexual activity.
I am well past my teenage years but very active sexually and frequently have damp patches in my pants from stimulating thoughts.
Touching myself or being touched is a guaranteed dampness. I don't squirt when having an orgasm but I do become quite wet.
Thanks for stating the normal for most of us females. As you all know I am much older than the median on Lush, but I still become very excited about sex.
Topic Would you let your wife or gf have sex with another man if she demands or asks?
05 Aug 2015 15:26
Well, the word "demand" doesn't work for me either, but "ask" does. And within certain boundaries, my answer would be yes.
I have had that conversation with my wife in the past. She was surprised I would be ok with it. She never took me up on the offer though and I never pushed it. She didn't seem to feel comfortable with the idea. She did ask me once why I would be ok with it and asked me wouldn't I be jealous?
So to answer your question as to why, I will try to explain by what I told her many years ago when we had such a conversation.
1) I can separate sex from love
2) I am not the jealous type, which she already knows, since guys flirting with her and dancing with her - never bothered me
3) I really like seeing women let loose and enjoy sex. The more wild they get, the more it makes me feel they enjoy it. Seeing women really enjoy sex - is a huge turn-on for me. I like porn just as much as any guy I guess (we are visual creatures), but most porn does look fake. You can tell a lot of their enjoyment is an act. So seeing your partner really get into sex, would be a lot more real and way more of a turn-on than the fake stuff you see in videos.
4) I am open to experiencing a lot of different things sexually and I certainly couldn't be upset with her for wanting the same.
With all that in mind, I have some boundaries/limits, because although I would not be jealous of the sex, I would not want love to form that could end up causing problems in our relationship. There are precautions/rules that I would probably insist be taken to avoid those types of issues - my boundaries.
- I would want to watch or participate (mfm - meaning both me an the other guy giving her attention - I am not bi). Not sure if I would ever let it happen with me not there. I am guessing not. But since none of this has ever happened and probably never will, I can't be sure
- Communication would be key to make sure we always knew how the other felt.
- If I felt or she felt any deeper feelings were starting to take root, then there would be no more encounters with that person. She would have to assure me that she would speak up, if she started to feel that way. Again good communication.
- Each encounter and person would have to be approved by both of us. Because it is something we are doing for each other. Not something to be hidden and done without both of us wanting it each time.
- It wouldn't be something we do all the time, but something we do from time to time to keep the new erotic experiences flowing
- Either one of us could say we are done with this type of experience at any time and for any reason or no reason and it just stops - no questions asked.
If all those things were agreed to, I would not only agree to try it, but I would want to have her try it. Not going to happen though, since that is just my fantasy, not hers.
I don't know if anyone has noticed, but several men have said yes to this question, but I see mostly no to the same question asked in the "ask the girls" section. What does that indicate - do you think? Men can separate sex from love better than women? Or are there more men who don't get jealous compared to women? Or does my wife's explanation fit best - all men are just pervs - lol.
I always answer, you wouldn't want it any other way. Of course we are pervs, that is why guys always chase girls. And you seem to enjoy it or you wouldn't have let yourself get caught.
I would agree with just about everything you have said. Of course Robb never had to encourage me in the slightest.
Topic Talking about sex with friends
04 Aug 2015 22:35
I doubt that Robb would tell about our sex life. However I would not care if he did. Most of our friends have either seen us perform or joined in the performance.
Topic Taking a Cock in your mouth
04 Aug 2015 22:14
Usually it's not a cock being inserted into my mouth.... it's my mouth devouring a cock! There is a difference...
You hit it right on the head. Sorry guys wrong term.
Topic Sucking cock daily
04 Aug 2015 22:09
Hard to have an accurate count. There is the sucking when we are both home. Most of the time that would equal twice a day.
Then when I am out and about you can add some number to that amount
Topic being shared
04 Aug 2015 10:47
I will tell my boyfriend that we should do that too. Makes me so wet to be his PAID whore. He has shared me before but for money it would be so hot.
Not everyone ever gets a chance for the thrill of being a paid Whore. I think it is a special experience.
Topic Going topless in Canada it's Legal, but would you?
01 Aug 2015 10:49
I have posed nude lots of times some professionally and some for fun.
I see nothing wrong for a woman being topless in the appropriate places.
Especially if your breasts are young and high and beautiful.
On the other hand not every woman is blessed with beautiful breasts, just like faces, butts and legs.
As age, gravity and time take control of our bodies maybe we need to be more selective when we are topless in public.
Topic Body Painting
31 Jul 2015 13:03
Funny this subject has come up. I have been invited to a three day party starting tonight and one night is a body painting night.
I have been nude at lot of parties, but never been painted. It seems Erotic and Exciting.
Topic Would you let your hubby or bf have sex with another girl if he demands or asks?
31 Jul 2015 12:04
If either the guy or the gal in the relationship has that itch, it is going to happen. Whether you know about it or not.
If our answer to the request is No or Hell No or your things will be burned. Where does that leave you? Remember it is only sex.
Is it better to know and understand or is it better to be left in the dark?
I choose to be enlighten. But for those of you who do not want to know I guess you have your reasons.
Almost all men will have sex with a woman outside of their primary relationship and many woman too.
We have and we have been married along time and raised two fine you woman together.
This is an equal opportunity concept in our home.
Topic Participation in orgies...
26 Jul 2015 17:44
I have been to a few of them and as indicted above some are good and some not so much.
But I do not turn down group sex or gangbangs with the right group
Topic What about your own stories?
26 Jul 2015 17:31
When I write my stories I always stop to play. That is how I know if it is a good one. If I can make myself turned on, I know my readers will enjoy too.
I have several stories of mine that I had to stop several times. Those are always my best stories and in most cases are the ones that become famous.
The funny thing is I never go back to my stories once I finish them. In fact, I just forget them. I do have to go over my stories when I submit to make sure I haven't written that already.
Thankfully, that has never happened yet.
Mysteria: How does one get an invitation to come and play also?
Topic If you had to...
26 Jul 2015 17:25
Without a doubt and now that the Supremes have approved marriage other than a man and a woman. I want a wife and my husband wants two!
Topic outdoor sex
26 Jul 2015 16:00
I can't imagine anywhere sex would not be good. Even at the risk of being arrested.
That makes it a bit more exciting does it not?
Topic Would you let your hubby or bf have sex with another girl if he demands or asks?
26 Jul 2015 15:54
Ladies do you think just because your man penetrates some other hot wet vagina he will stop loving you?
It is only sex. We both have the same privileges.
Who knows I may want to do her too.
If you are that insecure, maybe you should consider some professional help.
Gee we got hung up on demands! did we miss the ask part?
Wouldn't you prefer that he discuss fucking Mary Jane rather than fucking her behind you back. If he wants something new and different, he will find it someplace with or without your knowledge.
In addition I love that man and if it will make him happy I want him to do her. In fact I would set it up for him. Maybe that is what is wrong in this world we do not consider the ones we love enough.
Topic Short and sweat or drawn out?
25 Jul 2015 14:36
In my Journal Sexual Technique both have there places.
When you love someone the sexual dance can never be too long.
When just picked up someone and you never plan to see him or her again, the quick is very good. As long as you cum
You know how many out there need to be done?
Topic Ladies - do you like your nipples pinched?
23 Jul 2015 20:37
Anything involving my nipples is great as far as I am concerned. They are like my second and third clit.
I really enjoy it when I am on cloud 9 and my partner bites them that turns me right on and I have often asked them to bite me harder and occasionally they break the skin. I don't mind and i cum big time.
Meggsy you said it as well as it can be said.
Topic How does it feel?
19 Jul 2015 18:52
I had a fine gold bar through mine. The benefit is grossly over stated so I removed it. Although in was an interesting conversation piece. No the pain was not severe either
Topic A word
19 Jul 2015 14:44
It does not bother me in the least. In fact I use it also. Seems to me it is the context not the word.
If a person has been giving me Oral and tells me my cunt is lovely or tastes so wonderful. I will not be offended.
If I am describe as a cunt in a pejorative sense we may have a heated discussion.
Topic Filled at both ends?
19 Jul 2015 14:31
yes it is very intense. You’re totally the centre of attention, and having them totally focussed on you is such a turn on - it really is some of the best, most amazing sex I’ve ever had. Having two guys make love to you one after the other is just the perfect recipe for multiple orgasms, it never fails - and they do this swapping thing, where they pull out when they’re close and the other takes over, it drives me absolutely nuts. But the best thing is having them both inside me at once. I wouldn’t want that all the time, but it's such an incredible feeling. They’re both so much bigger and stronger than I am, and when I’m sandwiched between them, and they're both holding me and kissing me, and I've got both of them totally inside me, and they’re both moving just right - it’s the most amazing sexual feeling in the world. The orgasms I can get when they're doing that to me are indescribable - one massive climax after another for as long as they do me, with loads of huge contractions every time, it’s completely mind-blowing. I get contractions so strong it's almost unbearable, but I never want it to stop - it's kind of embarrassing how uninhibited I get, I can't stay quiet when I come and I know how loud I get, but at the time I just don't care
You almost said it perfectly Girl. The only thing to improve the style is to have a third or fourth guy join in the games.
Topic Do you put your clothes back on after sex?
19 Jul 2015 14:25
If I am with a friend male or female most likely I was naked before sex and will remain that way after. If my partner did not like the view I hope they would send me on my way.
If I am on just a Quickie or a one night stand, I will need to dress to go home I guess. Public nudity will get you a citation most places still.
I am comfortable with my body and see not reason it should be hidden.
Topic cleaning up there mess
17 Jul 2015 12:13
Is that a trick question?
Nearly all woman on Lush I would think
16 Jul 2015 11:41
I guess we are different than most. Our commitment to each other is to do what ever makes the other happy.
Topic If You Died Tomorrow...
16 Jul 2015 11:34
I think my biggest regret would be not spending my high school years 100% sober. I would regret letting the influence of others affect me so much. I would regret not once attempting to patch things up with my mom. I would regret the bridges I burned and the relationships I ruined from my own selfishness. I would regret not being married to my current boyfriend.
I would go see my grandma one last time, bright and early in the morning. Tell her I love her and thank her for always caring about me no matter what. By noon, my boyfriend and I would have lunch at my favorite Italian restaurant. Then I would visit my sisters and tell them I love them. When the sun starts setting, I would cuddle with my boyfriend, telling him all about my fantasies of a future with him.
The perfect last day of life.
Sounds like you have defined what you could have done better and it is not too late to make changes.