Topic Anything, well, missing?
18 Jan 2016 19:35
Leave your ego outside the bedroom door. If you believe your skills in bed are legendary, you've already failed. Every woman is different, and finding what gives the most pleasure to any particular woman is a learning process you must approach humbly, for she will be your best teacher.
Be observant, and learn where your attentions elicit the best response, the degree to which her clit is sensitive to stimulation, and the pace that her arousal builds.
The slow tease: The clit needs to be romanced slowly. Too much pressure and stimulation too soon will overload her nerve endings, and frustrate you both. Approach it teasingly, with kisses and licks starting at her best erogenous zones and moving inexorably closer to the target. (I'm assuming you know where the clitoris is)
When your tongue arrives at her pussy, get comfortable. You're going to be there for awhile. Her orgasm will depend on how well you read her responses to whatever you're doing, because orgasms can be elusive in a woman. You hit a spot you think is getting her to her peak, and she suddenly loses it. This is the part where your patience comes into play. Get her clit into a familiar rhythm. Circle it, flick it, wiggle the tip of your tongue under her hood. If you need to back off her clit, lap deep through her slit from top to bottom and back. Use your fingers inside, and rub her g-spot, which is the underside of her clit.
When you're doing everything right, she will begin to buck and thrash. It will be difficult to stay focused on her spot, and your teeth may even hurt her when she jerks upward. This can either help or hinder her reaching her climax, but keep your head aligned with her sex as best you can, and your tongue right where she needs it most. She will be excreting copious amounts of her juices into your mouth. Enjoy them! Swallow them. Coat your whole face with them. There is a point where she might be hovering between extreme pleasure, and pain. She may indicate you need to back off a bit until she gets back to the pleasure. This is the most frustrating part for you because you don't want to be causing her pain, but you've almost reached that golden moment. Get creative! Reach up and lightly pinch/twist her nipples, or use another finger to tease her asshole. Usually her climaxes come in waves, and you need to keep her there until she's completely over the cliff and her thrashing or clenching subsides. Her clit will probably be extremely sensitive at this point, and any further tongue-play may be uncomfortable, so it's time to cuddle and hold her close.
Good work Doctor Bethany, this should be Oral Sex 101 for every male as he enters Puberty
Classroom dismissed. Time for labwork.
Topic How many girls have performed oral on another girl.
18 Jan 2016 19:25
Of course been bisexual I get the best of both worlds. I love to lick my gf while her fella is pounding her
You can't say enough fine things about that action unless, he then turns and pound you too.
Topic Public Lusting
16 Jan 2016 22:20
Goodness you sound like a smart man.
We Lust over the right person just like you guys do.
It could be a hot male /female for some of us like me.
Topic Positions - the worst
12 Jan 2016 15:15
I thought they were all just a degree of goodness. You mean there are actually some not good positions?
Topic NAME one thing you wish you had known about sex but no one told you.
26 Dec 2015 13:47
I am much older than Bethany and Megsy, but I loved sex from the first time. Of course that was with a girl.
Society had a much more critical eye when I was 14 than when most of you were in the formation stages of you sexuality.
Frankly my Dear I did not give a damn then and do not now.
They called me a Slut or a Whore and were probably right.
Topic Would it be out of line?
26 Dec 2015 13:38
I have dear friends he just turned 79 and she is 13 years older. So you can figure her age.
They worked together years ago and he asked her out and was told "Your are too young forget it."
He asked again and was told it "I told you before not a chance."
Third time she told him "You won't listen so I will go for a drink with you and that is all!"
They have now been married 52 years and no other woman is loved as much as she is.
So yes rejection may sting, but it may also take you exactly where you want go.
Of course from her pictures as a woman in her late 30's, she was stunningly gorgeous.
He tells in that he was not bright enough to understand he was being rejected
Topic What is the ideal dick size of your man for you?
15 Dec 2015 12:18
Every size seems perfect.
Seems like some smaller guys think I am nice and tight and then I seem to have the flexibility to accommodate the long and thick guys also.
In my mind the size of a mans cock is not the prime requirement indetermining if he is a good Fuck or not. There are so many other factors.
Topic National men make dinner day...
14 Dec 2015 20:24
I have my husband convinced that he does all the cooking on the weekend.
So please keep it just between us Lushies.
If he ever finds out you have just put more work on my plate.
Topic My husband likes to watch me with other guys. How far should I go?
27 Nov 2015 14:44
Well ladies have you not discussed this with you man. How far is he comfortable with you going?
How comfortable are you with not only being with another man but being watched. I am an extreme Exhibitionist and love every second of such events.
My husband has seen me with other men for years and enjoys it, but I know he does it mostly for me. I give him an air kiss or a smile several times while another man is in one of my holes. He knows this is just sex and he has all the love I possess.
To show his love for me, be brings home guys for me that I have never seen before and will never see again.
He knows how much I love strange cock and I know how much he loves me when he gives me this special gift.
So plan well, communicate and have fun.
Topic Have you ever squirted in your life?
26 Nov 2015 12:37
Yes, a few times and nothing like you see in Porn.
I am never sure when or why I will squirt. I do know I must me very turned on and very relaxed. But that is not a guaranty by any means.
At times, I do have Orgasms that are much more intense than the normal. I also have some mini and some just normal Orgasms.
At times I go into a Petite Mort with my most intense Orgasms, so no squirting does not exceed that.
Some girls will tell you differently I am sure.
Topic BF says no to panties & Bra
25 Nov 2015 23:16
i love the crazy thing he do when i don't wear lingerie... but it gives easy access to me in public places.... so he wants sex in public
excitement is great but sometimes they think i am a whore
thanks for the reply.. i will think of it
Sex in public is great fun and I am sure you will love it, once you are comfortable with it.
Some will think your a whore, but that is OK to once you accept the concept.
I have been called a Whore for years and it does not bother me in the least. I am happy with what I am, you can be too.
Topic Do you actually like anal sex?
25 Nov 2015 23:02
That's interesting to know. Obviously I'm not very knowledgeable in this. But biologically speaking, given that the vagina and close proximity to the clitoris is a more erogenous zone, I'd find it a teeny bit surprising how some women like anal so much.
Once you get into it you will have just amazing orgasms, at least I do and I know other woman who have had a similar experience.
Topic Do you actually like anal sex?
25 Nov 2015 01:22
OMG I love anal almost as much as Vaginal.
Yes, I will beg if I must, but that is not really necessary with any guys I know.
The question is Condom?
Yeah or Nay?
Topic MILF question
23 Nov 2015 11:50
Since most females are fertile from about 13 and will be for the next 30 years. So there is a broad range of females who could be MILF's
Topic What is your figure sizes?
22 Nov 2015 20:39
Figure measurements 36C/D 24,36, 5'11" 124/125 and either a dress size six or sometimes 8
Mostly a C cup and mostly size 6.
But like most of us sometimes I need a larger cup and a larger Dress too.
It must be the manufacturer it could not be me.
Topic Does it bother you when a woman does this during sex?
22 Nov 2015 10:41
If you and your guy will check the female anatomy together you will see that in many cases there is little stimulation of the Clitoris during penetration. Not always but with most couples.
That does not mean that penetration does not feel wonderful, just that it could be even better with some Clitoral stimulation.
He will be pleased if his primary goal is to make Sex all it can be for you.
Sorry I know this is the guys section, but once in a while a woman has something worth hearing.
Topic BF says no to panties & Bra
21 Nov 2015 10:30
If you do or if you do not, is that not your choice?
I only wear lingerie about half the time. Well less than half.
If not wearing lingerie or playing in public is uncomfortable for you tell your B/F you are not going to do it any more if he Loves You He Will Not Leave You.
But, it also turns you on so maybe you could forget to put you Lingerie once is a while as surprise to both of you.
Topic for the Ladys
20 Nov 2015 19:31
How can you know that you do not remember your dreams?
I know some people see their dreams in bright color and full 3D.
Others dreams are less well defined. And still others not at all.
We know everyone has brain activity during sleep, so it is reasonable we all had dreams most nights.
Bethany yours a probably so Erotic that you brain is worn out and just too tired to upload them to you.
Topic strap on sex?
18 Nov 2015 22:23
S trapon is just not my thing. If I need penetration nothing is more Lustful than a nice hard cock.
Then are the other side of the coin, woman have so much patience and wonderful finger, mouth, lips and tongue.
I get so confused between men and woman, I love you both!
Thing I am sure of I do not need a strapon
Topic Would you consider being in a plural relationship?
18 Nov 2015 13:51
I am in a long term marriage and would not consider making any change.
However we both are free to explore other opportunities. I do and I know he does too.
Just that I do it a lot more than my husband.
At least I think I do it a lot more:
So I guess that means I am not ready for a plural relationship. Sex yes, but not a relationship.
Topic Ladies, do you like tasting your own pussy juice?
16 Nov 2015 20:31
When I masturbate, love to taste myself after swirling my fingers around my warm wet cunny, I have for as long as I have masturbated.
Hubby doesn't know I do this of course! For the past few years I have enjoyed using my plastic and glass dildo's on myself and licking and sucking my sex juices off of them both before and after climax.
I really wish I could tongue my own cunny', but as it is impossible, I would be keen to try the possible - another woman's sexy orgasm juice!
Are you sure Hubby would not be very turned on by you tasting your own juices. I bet he would and guess who benefits when our men are really turned on?
Topic What is your figure sizes?
13 Nov 2015 12:42
Can I exchange my current body size for a new one? Does it work that way? :)
Metilda more mature Cars have great value. It must be the same with body sizes also.
sorry but I am Blonde