Forum posts made by 1nympholes

Topic Happily Married?
Posted 18 Apr 2015 13:48

There seems to be more wisdom in this thread than I expected the first time I joined Lush. Some of the comments should be helpful to many a couple but not all.

We have been married for over 26 years and there is not much I would change. Yes, to the same man. I never thought I would be where I am today. That is a wife and a mother. At an early age I knew that the sexual drive I have within my body and soul would never allow for a successful marriage, let alone to raise a good family. I needed a variety of men and I needed woman just as much. So being an available single woman was the best lifestyle for me.

When my husband came along he would not take no for an answer. I knew it could not work accept on my terms and what man would agree to that. Open Marriage, with both free to be with anyone we want and most anytime we want. It has worked well for us and I know people have tried it and failed. Of course, we have always lived this kind of life. I have no idea how you would start in the middle of a relationship without saying to you partner " You are not satisfying me".

I heard that! No our sex is great and no other man has ever fucked me like Robb does. But I still need and want others, and he assists me with my needs from time to time.. Of course he has his playmates too, maybe not in the same number I do, but he is free to sample the fruit anytime he wants to, and he knows it.

The other side of the same coin I agreed to one pregnancy only he did not tell me that he was going to knock me up so that we got two baby girls. Without a doubt it is his fault and do not confuse the issue with facts.

How did the girls turnout you ask. Both are on career paths the they consider fulfilling and will contribute to this great country. There only shortcoming is neither seem to have a dictionary with procreation in it. DARNd'oh!

It has worked for us but maybe not you.

Topic Cut vs uncut
Posted 17 Apr 2015 11:46

Almost all the men I have been with were circumcised but I really like the few natural guys I know. I think it feels different, but it is mostly psychosomatic I am sure.

Hygiene Hygiene Hygiene

Topic Ladies, what is your ideal size package? Both cock AND balls ha
Posted 15 Apr 2015 13:40

The perfect size is the size of the guy I am with right now. I am sure tomorrows man will be just as perfect.

I know some woman say a guy can be too big. Guess I have not met him yet.

Topic outdoor sex
Posted 15 Apr 2015 13:31

I love outdoor sex, is that the same as public sex?

That is even better, the higher the risk the better the thrill

Topic Nude Beaches
Posted 13 Apr 2015 15:25

There is one in our area. Been there, nothing special. I prefer to be naked at home (inside or out). Too many bodies I didn't want to see at that beach!

Your right Cyndy not ever body if fit to be shown off.

Topic How slutty are you?
Posted 12 Apr 2015 20:05

Absolutely! You got it perfect. :)

Dancing Doll and Nikki 703 I love to read what you both write.

In this case you have it just about as right as one or one to the 2nd power can can be cheerleader

Makes me feel very normal at least in our world.

Topic Gang Bang
Posted 12 Apr 2015 18:56

I have done a few Gang Bangs and I loved them. But you need to be in an environment that you know you are safe.

Unless you are a woman that really believes that it should be one woman and one man only, I can not understand how you would not think you had already gone to heaven.

Topic Pubes and age
Posted 12 Apr 2015 18:37

I shave the hair of my shaft and having blond pubes helps, doesn't look like a lot of hair.
Never had much problems with women not wanting to give head.

Good for you finding the right ladies. If you are going to let me Deep Throat you, then I will have a mouth full of hair. Not my choice.

Topic high heels
Posted 12 Apr 2015 18:29

Five inch heels are just about right, they do all that higher heels can do for you legs and still are comfortable.

I know some girls wear higher to look taller, but since I a full 5'11" that has never been a problem.

Topic Hotwife automatically define husband as cuckold
Posted 11 Apr 2015 20:57

I take it to mean a husband that stands by and lets his wife go out and fuck someone else. I think for the most part it would refer to a guy that didn't have the balls to stand up and prevent his wife from doing that. If they were swingers or both consenting to have sex with others, I don't think the term would refer to that. I wouldn't call my husband that if I was fucking someone else, because he probably would know about it and be approving it, and probably be fucking someone else at the same time.

Thank you Cyndy for saying it as it is. We have always had an Open Marriage since day one. Robb knew I would not go to the alter with him under any other conditions. He has watched me with other men and I have watched him with woman. We have gone to places to swing as long as I can remember. Even, if the other does not always know just where their partner is or whom they are with all the time. It is only because of the opportunity to pass the information on. He even from time to time brings guys home for me to fuck . I love it and I think he does also.

We are both free to do what we want and with whomever we want. Maybe me a bit more than my husband.

There is nothing about humiliation in our lifestyle. In fact we think this is the only way anyone should live.

Topic Would you be in a relationship
Posted 11 Apr 2015 13:36

Not a chance! Now there are good friends that you would never date. But one of those days when the chemistry is just right magic can happen.

Topic What are you best at ?
Posted 11 Apr 2015 12:56

Fulfilling my partners every fantasy, including those one hardly dares to whisper.

Topic Nude Beaches
Posted 10 Apr 2015 11:56

I have regularly been to nude beaches , both in Britain and in Italy . Nude beaches give people the freedon to sunbathe and swim naked , enjoy nudity in the company of other naked people . There are unwritten rules to the code of behavior on nude beaches , respecting other people's sense of privacy , not to stare , not to approach strange women and chat them up and not make an explicit sexual display of oneself . I have once had sex on the beach many years ago at night . A few people do have sex on the beach , usually in the evening when others are leaving the beach and covered by a towel . One time on an Italian beach , I was near a group of four people who were under a big awning . There were undulations of sand between where I was lying and where they were . I could see two womens heads alternately going up and down , which seemed strange . It was getting time to go home so I stood up to get dressed , then I could see two women giving one man's huge penis a blow job alternately going up and down on each side . The Italians are far less discrete that the British , even to the point offending .

Gee Regello I always thought you really like me and would stare at what I have to offer. You know the beach just down from house is not a nude beach but most everyone there is naked.

As long as there are not small children there to watch, I would do you right there on the beach for all to watch. I know God wants us to have pleasure or he would not have made it feel so wonderful

Topic Pubes and age
Posted 06 Apr 2015 10:17

I am in the Plus 40 (not 50 yet) crowd and I like a mans platform clean and sweet.

If you really have a thick bush you may find girls are not as ready to suck you as if you at least well maintained.

Topic Squirt = Intense Orgasm?
Posted 05 Apr 2015 16:43

I do not squirt on a regular basis, but my orgasms are rather intense when I do. Of course my second or third orgasms of a session is always rather intense.

It is my understand that when you see a girl squirt in Porn Video's you may be seeing more than there is to see.

Does anyone know if that is true or not.

Topic How many days you can control your sex feelings ? Have you ever tried ?
Posted 02 Apr 2015 20:48

Do you mean a whole day; 24 hours; from one sunset to the next?

Is that really possible and why in the world would an woman not want to think about sex at least for a few minutes?

I couldn't and I wouldn't! In addition I can't think of one good reason why you would want too.

Every morning I need so kind of sex, just with me or with my favorite guy or gal of the moment.

Topic Have you ever hooked up with a man, woman, couple from Craigslist?
Posted 02 Apr 2015 13:37

TV? is that television or .... evil4

Oh Frank you are so observant and clever. Yes the television

Topic Do you consider yourself to be slutty?
Posted 02 Apr 2015 13:03

Well, if I'm not, then no one is!

That sounds like a Challenge?

Topic Do women really fantasize
Posted 02 Apr 2015 12:54

Is the Pope Catholic?

Seems like a really silly thread to me.

Topic Do you enjoy playing sports, basketball etc with the guys, why?
Posted 31 Mar 2015 15:55

Most certainly. It could be baseball, basketball or golf but most of the time it was volleyball. I played in high school and college. Had a chance at the Olympic team however that did not work out.

Gosh I love those guys but how fun it is to kick their ASS AT ALMOST ANY SPORT.

Topic Double penetration - fun or not?
Posted 30 Mar 2015 14:24

I have done it several times and several ways.

When it is good you will have feeling that are just unbelievable. When it is bad you will swear that you will never even think about it again.

Seems the times it the best is when the guys are really well coordinated and have no hang-ups about their maleness and that of another man.
Unless your have had two Anally or two guys Vaginally you are missing something special .

t may not work really well the first time or two. Then when all get together WOW

Guess you could say I messed up

Topic Would you be ok with your husband/BF recording he and you having sex, why?
Posted 30 Mar 2015 00:20

Think I will pass on that.

However if he took a video of me and another person it would be different.

Topic Double penetration - fun or not?
Posted 29 Mar 2015 16:44

I have done it several times and several ways.

When it is good you will have feeling that are just unbelievable. When it is bad you will swear that you will never even think about it again.

Seems the times it the best is when the guys are really well coordinated and have no hang-ups about their maleness and that of another man.

Topic Guys, have you ever paid a woman for sex?
Posted 26 Mar 2015 09:12

Guys I am confused. If only a few of the men in the world paid for sex, how its it that some Escorts do so well financially. But then I am Blonde!

Topic Does a more attractive partner correlate to a better sex?
Posted 26 Mar 2015 08:51

Over the years I have been with a few men that were not high one the beauty list. But I had know them for a time and when we did finally get in bed together WOW.

Their attractiveness had nothing to do with their sexual capacity.

If one of these guys approached me in a public arena for the first time. T he chances of us getting together would be less than zero.

Dumb me.

Topic Do you lie about your height?
Posted 25 Mar 2015 13:13

Oh yes I lied about my height. As a teen I would have given anything to be 5'4" or 5'5" like Bethany and the lovable Nikki. You see I am just a split hair under 5'11 and have been since I was 13.

At that age I was taller than all the boys and by high school many had caught up and passed me. but not all of them.

I told any one that would listen that I was only 5'9" and it made me feel better all those years ago.

It is hard being a kid and especially one that body had not yet caught up with her height.

Topic How do you really like to be treated?
Posted 25 Mar 2015 00:20

Well I sure do not want to be treated like Shit. And if you try be assured you will get you ass kicked.

It all depends where you take a woman like me. I you are taking me to dinner and the newest Broadway show I expected to be treated like a lady.

But if you are taking me to a sex party with your buddies, I expect to be treated, No I demand to be treated like a Whore. With a great amount of pleasure for all of us.

Topic Is it a big deal being a guy's 1st?
Posted 24 Mar 2015 12:19

I would think that that the first would be import for a young man. But as the numbers build up of events it becomes less and less important.

But at this point being a man first is very low on my list of things I look forward to. Sisters please train him to pleasure a woman and then send him my way


Topic massage
Posted 22 Mar 2015 13:00

My desire is a bit different both in actuality and in fantasy. Fully clothed beautiful young masseuse comes into the SPA and I expect just a normal massage. But she uses her wonderful hands coved in Lavender oil to explore place that have never been explored before in a regular SPA.

That was my fantasy for years until my husband arranged it in reality. She did not stay clothed for the entire session and used her entire naked body to pleasure me. Wonder if I could go back and celebrate my 40th Birthday all over again?

Topic being watched
Posted 19 Mar 2015 12:51

I love it also. I wonder just how many woman do love it. My Robb loves to watch me, with a friend or at Swing party or best yet with a total stranger.