Topic Would you forgive your partner/spouse for cheating? Would you rather they did not tell you?
25 Oct 2016 11:44
I would forgive my wife for cheating , as long as she wanted to be forgiven ! Love and trust are paramount features of a marriage ; physical , sexual needs are another matter .
David Darling would she really object so much,
If K won't do certain thing with you that I do.
Would she object so much?
K knows between you and I there is a special Love.
Would she object so much?
Your special lady knows our love is not the kind that threatens her nor your love for her.
Would she object so much?
You know and she knows you would never run off with me because it is based on our lust.
Would she object so much?
It is only about sex, we should all want to share this most beautiful experience with those we care about.
Why should she object so much?
Topic Face Sitting
23 Oct 2016 00:07
It has always seemed to me, that if he does not meet our expectations. Maybe the poor dear just does not know how to satisfy a woman by Cunninglingus. So as a service to ourselves, if we decide to keep him a while, and to the rest of our sisterhood. Maybe a little investment in tutelage is worth the time.
I know men are like Puppies some just can not be house trained.
We, women, were born with the giving gene and I am not so sure about men.
Topic What was the sexiest thing you did in college?
22 Oct 2016 23:42
The Real Estate was strong so my parent bought a small house near campus for me to live in. Since I entered college as almost a Junior the rules for residency were not applicable.
There was a constant stream of guys coming to the house. Few stayed overnight, but many for two or three hours sometimes to be substituted for another. Yes, and a few girls too.
I always thought the neighbors would think a prostitute was operating there and I knew one day they would call the police. Fortunately,only horny college men knocked on my door and not La Policia. To be honest they were some guys who had graduated from college a long time ago.
Topic why do females find anal intercourse fun
22 Oct 2016 15:35
As others have said, some of us hate it some like me just love Anal. In talking to girlfriends about it and especially to those who did it once or twice and there will not be another time.
It seems they are so uptight and stressed about the potential pain, that there is pain!
If you want to enjoy it and demand Anal you must be able to relax and know if there is pain it will not be extensive.
Topic Riskiest place you've...
20 Oct 2016 20:32
How about an old style Porn Theater. Most the guys just watched but I fucked a goodly number of them. It was a long time ago and I do remember the feeling of absolute power.
Topic Ethical nonmonogamy
20 Oct 2016 11:19
This is a great question. I applaud you for maintaining a faithful monogamous marriage. We've been married 22 years with two of those years open. I can truthfully say that once you step over the line that it is hard to go back. We've had mixed reviews. First of all, no matter what people say the risks are high. The other thing is that unless your marriage is rock solid don't concider it.
However it really is not cheating. It is quite the opposite. We were not different than most couples. Sex and love were interchangeable. But after an infidelity on both our sides we discovered through therapy that our love for each other had not dimished. Now we have more trust and confidence in us as a couple than ever before. There is no temptation to cheat, and our relationship is open and honest.
Another thing is that if you choose to have an open marriage, it doesn't necessarily mean sex with others. It can mean something as simple as openly discussing one another's fantasies without judgment. When we did this we were amazed we found out we had more in common than we ever knew. So now we don't suppress anything.
The risks though are astronomical. That is why they have swingers clubs in virtually every town. It lessens the Heath risks with all being tested. Does jealousy exist? Of course. It is basic nature.
It's the fantasy of what so many writers fantasize about I caution. Picking up strangers is not only risky on the health side but on the relational side too. What happens when some random wacko starts stalking your wife or husband. It happened to us. Some of the scariest times of our life.
Most psychologists will rightfully steer you away from open marriage. The failure rate is beyond traditional marriage. If it were possible to step back... We probably would. But as I said... When you step over that line it is a giant leap.
I agree that the Matrimonial Risks are higher in an Open Marriage, especially if you somewhere along the path decide to make the change.
I knew, I would cheat and therefore Open Marriage was the only option available to us. An additional consideration is that we have never lived in any other manner. That may not be true of most others.
Topic Ethical nonmonogamy
20 Oct 2016 10:56
I am really happy for you 1nympholes You have found love and a person you want to spend your life with, and you can continue to be who you are and live your life the way you want and need to. If my wife wanted to life her life like that, I would be happy to let her, but she do not. She want us to be monogamous faithful to each other, and so be it.
My question is really: If you shold meet me, with my wedding ring, and we found out that we wanted to have sex, would you worry or care about the relationship between me and my wife, if she was all right with this?
Do you get questions about your wedding ring when you want to play? Is the fact that your husband is OK with it, of importance to your lovers?
Or is it as 69kisses96 states, a matter strictly between the husband and wife. If I want to play with you, it is my responsibility to think about the consequences for my marriage, not your concern?
Remember it is about sex and not about love and faithfulness. I think we are very faithful to each other. I just have this little burning sex need that seems only to be satisfied in one way with sex with someone else. That does not mean I am dissatisfied in our sexual relationship in any way.
I am not concerned if a person has a ring or not. If everything were being fulfilled at home, then he/she would not be here. Would they? You know if your man or your woman has that itch only one thing can solve it.
I have had people lose interest in visiting a more private place, once they realize that I am married. Some have even question if my spouse knows I am out and available? My standard answer is "That is between me and my spouse and is a non-factor this evening."
Should you tell your husband/wife or should you know that the person you are with has advised their spouse? There can be no standard answer and why do you need pre-approval we are not going shopping for a new home.
It should be between each couple to define the degree of disclosure. Very likely at one time or another one of the couple is going to cheat.
Topic First lesbian experience. ..
18 Oct 2016 19:55
My first Lesbian experience was with my best girlfriend in the Foreman's House when our property was part of a large estate. Maggi was my best friend and is today.
We had done a lot of kissing and groping but this afternoon suddenly we were both naked and mouth to clitoris and clitoris to mouth. I thought I tasted good, but "Oh my God how another girl can taste!"
Shortly thereafter I found boys too.
I am not a Lesbian, but for sure I could never give up one for the other.
Maggi is it not about time for your visit?, Should you read this.
Topic Work Fantasy
18 Oct 2016 19:37
Who says David is right? Evaluate the risk and decide if she is worth the liability or probability of getting sued over (if you own the company).
Topic how true is this??
18 Oct 2016 10:30
You may be right, but it is not always the case. We have a family friend that asked this woman out when he was 25 and she was 38. She declined due to age, he asked again. But got the same result. The third time she agreed to have a drink with him. But it is to be understood just a drink and it would go no further.
They have been married for over 53 years and I have never seen a woman who is loved so much. We all want to be loved like that.
I know she was the exception, but you only need one good guy or gal.
My Dad remembers her when he was young and says she may have been the most beautiful woman he ever saw. He better not let Mom here that!
Beauty could not have been a factor or could it?
Topic Big clitoris
16 Oct 2016 21:55
Mine's an 'outie', and somewhat prominent, but not really any larger than average. It's extremely responsive though.
How could I know if Bethany's is more responsive than mine. Either I missed the point of this is a very silly thread
Topic Strongest orgasm
11 Oct 2016 00:34
Which gives you the strongest orgasm?
masturbation by partner
other means (please elaborate)
In order to obtain proper information, please only gals give responses here.
Guys can give their responses in the Ask Guys section.
Hard to select just one, but it will either be with a special person or with another woman's man.
Topic Scenario: What would you say?
10 Oct 2016 19:36
After my hysterics are over , which may take a good portion of an hour.
You know and he knows, and our Lush Brothers and Sisters all knew I am going to do just what he invited me up here for.
Of course, I do not have the built-in excuse of three Martinis. Never Drink Booze when I am out man hunting.
Topic cleaning up
09 Oct 2016 12:30
Missed a capitalization of first word and I think you meant 'their' not 'there.' To answer your question, I prefer a wash cloth.
You are being picky. I bet that you and most of our fellow Lushies understood the question just fine.
Topic camel toe.. turn on or turn off?
08 Oct 2016 13:49
Or, alternatively... Yeah, I'm a fan!
It is not possible to not be turned on by this view. Since we have a good idea the kind of body it is attached.
Topic Guy and Gangbangs
07 Oct 2016 13:26
The only reason a guy may be uncomfortable with that would be if he was worried about whether or not he'd be enough for you after that. His thinking process would be, "Well if she wanted multiple dicks before and I can't give that to her then will I be enough to make her happy?" Any guy who is disgusted or judgmental of the gang bang would be bad news for a relationship, but a bit of discomfort may result from a bit of insecurity on his part. If you notice that he is uncomfortable talking about it, just make it clear verbally that he is the one you want and that sex with him is just so much better than anyone else. (Yes, even if it's not true sometimes) Guys are surprisingly self conscious about being enough to satisfy their significant others (well, if they actually care about you and aren't just in it for the sex).
You do understand, there are some women who are not going to be satisfied by any one man. No matter how good he is. If you are married to one like that you will just need to deal with the fact.
Topic Tattoos:yes or no?
07 Oct 2016 00:43
Girls, why would want to Uglify what God made so beautiful?
Yes, I was Young and Dumb once too.
One was about 2/3 inch and the other was about 2 1/2 inches.
There are gone now and removal is very expensive if you do not want to live your life with a scare.
Topic The number question
07 Oct 2016 00:13
Just because I am blonde you try and confuse me.
Are we talking about an evening?
For the entire year of 2016 so far?
Or a Lifetime?
I think Samantha Jones asked in that fashion.
07 Oct 2016 00:02
Is Oral foreplay or sex?
In any case, I like Oral, I want Oral and some say I demand Oral. Now that includes both giving and receiving.
Equally important with men and women.
Now that is Foreplay that could last and last.
Topic Contact after date
06 Oct 2016 15:15
It has been a long time since if have been in the dating world and then I did not date a lot.
But I am a different woman now.
So you siting home thinking "I thought it went well" But "He must not have had the same thoughts".
Well you could both be sitting there think "What could have been"
If you call him and just to say "Hi that was fun". He will either say "Yes it was, how about Wednesday for drinks".
In the worst case, he may say "You are nice,but I am not sure you and I are a good match."
At least you know and if nothing is risked nothing can be gained.
That is if you think you are worth the risk and he is worth the risk too.
Topic Cam/C2C Showing/Watching
05 Oct 2016 23:46
I have posed nude many times but I do not think I have any interest that kind of site. Especially at my age.
Further, I do not believe there were any sex videos of me made, but one never knows and where they could be posted.
Topic The number question
04 Oct 2016 23:53
hahaha... from my 17 to 31.. i have fucked many men. goes over 200+
Real partners maybe 20-25
That is an interesting number!