Topic Oral vs Vaginal
27 Aug 2015 16:21
Several years ago I posed the question "Guys just how important is Oral Sex to You? or something like that.
Yes most of them loved and may not enter into a relationship with a woman that would not provide Oral. But I was surprised at the number of men who indicated that Oral Sex was not that important.
I am not sure just what this means and if it could be reproduced in a Controlled Study.
I have never met a man that did not want Oral Sex as an appetizer.
I guess we should consider I love Oral as much as a man.
Topic How do you react when you see a guy with a bulge?
24 Aug 2015 20:56
I would certainly be pleased knowing it was for me even if it was not. Probably have a similar reaction as the young woman in the Photograph.
If he was older I would offer to help him with his problem. Being so young I would stay away from him and advise him to make an adjustment.
Or Would I?
Topic swingers clubs
24 Aug 2015 10:16
Yes several times. Some clubs are great fun and some not so much.
Some great clubs have at times a group of people that may not be what you are looking to play with.
So give it a try and if it is not to you liking, you can always leave.
23 Aug 2015 21:23
Guess I am somewhere between Black Velvet and Matilda.
I do not know just what the conditions need to be for me to squirt. But when I do I almost certainly be in a condition less than fully conscious. Maybe like the French say Petit Mort.
Clitoral and simulations G-Spot is very helpful. but at least for me it is not a guaranty. Extended periods of time with what later seems like one Orgasm right on top of the previous Orgasm is a strong step in that direction. Of course having sex with more than one man at a time is a huge aid in the direction of squirting. From what I can remember the next day after the event nearly every muscle in my body felt like it was in spasm.
Like Black Velvet after squirting my Vagina and Clitoris feels like one mass of nerve ending ready to explode with the slightest stimulation. Not sure it is for the extended period she mentioned.
Even if I have learned a bit about the cause of squirting, I still can not make it happened on demand or anywhere near on demand.
Other Sister must have experiences to share. I think we are all interested.
Topic Cheating My Husband
23 Aug 2015 20:48
If you clean up very well I doubt if you husband will be able to tell that another mans semen has been in your vagina. However there are lots of other tell tail signs and they may betray no matter how clean you are.
If you decide on an Open Marriage, just so you can have Sex with your special guy. I can almost guaranty that sex with this guy will not be as exciting and dangerous as if you went ahead and cheated on your husband until you get caught.
Having said that your Lush Sisters have given you wise if not the kind of advice you may wish to hear.
Topic Leggings or yoga pants.
23 Aug 2015 17:55
Collector you know Yoga Pants are for showing off the assets , not for comfort.
Yes they are my choice for casual wear after dresses and skirts.
Topic What does your username mean?
23 Aug 2015 15:33
Its my name! Apparently, I'm the only one here who isn't hiding behind a made-up username!
No Ms Frasier maybe some of the member do not have as much to offer as others and needed to be creative in attracting attention...Well it could
Topic Friends seen naked
19 Aug 2015 14:17
Friends and the Naked Body are too common to even mention.
Topic men in kitchen
19 Aug 2015 14:10
Men belong on the patio grilling on the barby while I'm swimming in the pool. The kitchen is MY territory! Unless I give you instructions to chop onions, dice carrots, etc. you'd better keep your ass OUT of my domain!
Good thing you never met my Robb you would have a serious clash.
Topic men in kitchen
17 Aug 2015 11:59
I am a very good cook and enjoy cooking greatly. But the kitchen is my husbands domain and If I acted as anything but a guest, I would be out on the street.
Worked for us very well for many years.
Topic Do girls really like anal?
16 Aug 2015 16:10
Yes, girls really like anal. There are many nerve endings in a female's anus and when stimulated properly by penetration it can become extremely enjoyable and can lead to very intense and knee-buckling orgasms. Allowing a man to penetrate me in such an intimate and erotic body organ causes my eyes to roll back, my moans to become much deeper, longer, and erotic, my knee's to become weak, and my anus to become very warm and sensational. It is probably the most erotic way for me to be penetrated.
CB92 you said just about everything I had in mind. My only objection is either condoms or proper prep.
CB92 I see you are new welcome come by and say hi one day.
Topic Which is the more intimate act?
15 Aug 2015 20:47
Even the most classy and expensive Escorts who will do most anything for the right price.
Still are reluctant to kiss a John. Much too Personal and Intimate.
Topic Bra Cup sizes
14 Aug 2015 23:52
Lush Brothers tell the size of our Boobs is not a factor and then you guys go nutso over a thread like this.
What am I missing?
Have not been down this path at least 1000 times?
Topic How many guys have you had sex with?
13 Aug 2015 12:14
But only with my husband for the last 20 years.
Mysteria how can it possibly be too many?
Topic Sexy lingerie, outfits
12 Aug 2015 12:40
I love to dress in a sexy manner. It could be expensive Lingerie, it could be a classy be yet sexy dress, or it could be the very top of the Slutty List.
Do I do it for the man I am with that night? Oh yes, but I also do it for myself.
If I pleases him and at the same time pleases me, I think that is about a good as it gets.
Topic Wetting yourself with excitement
10 Aug 2015 19:57
Wetting myself - not to the stage of urinating but yes to the stage where I do get moist,damp,wet from mental stimulation involving sexual activity.
I am well past my teenage years but very active sexually and frequently have damp patches in my pants from stimulating thoughts.
Touching myself or being touched is a guaranteed dampness. I don't squirt when having an orgasm but I do become quite wet.
Thanks for stating the normal for most of us females. As you all know I am much older than the median on Lush, but I still become very excited about sex.
Topic Would you let your wife or gf have sex with another man if she demands or asks?
05 Aug 2015 15:26
Well, the word "demand" doesn't work for me either, but "ask" does. And within certain boundaries, my answer would be yes.
I have had that conversation with my wife in the past. She was surprised I would be ok with it. She never took me up on the offer though and I never pushed it. She didn't seem to feel comfortable with the idea. She did ask me once why I would be ok with it and asked me wouldn't I be jealous?
So to answer your question as to why, I will try to explain by what I told her many years ago when we had such a conversation.
1) I can separate sex from love
2) I am not the jealous type, which she already knows, since guys flirting with her and dancing with her - never bothered me
3) I really like seeing women let loose and enjoy sex. The more wild they get, the more it makes me feel they enjoy it. Seeing women really enjoy sex - is a huge turn-on for me. I like porn just as much as any guy I guess (we are visual creatures), but most porn does look fake. You can tell a lot of their enjoyment is an act. So seeing your partner really get into sex, would be a lot more real and way more of a turn-on than the fake stuff you see in videos.
4) I am open to experiencing a lot of different things sexually and I certainly couldn't be upset with her for wanting the same.
With all that in mind, I have some boundaries/limits, because although I would not be jealous of the sex, I would not want love to form that could end up causing problems in our relationship. There are precautions/rules that I would probably insist be taken to avoid those types of issues - my boundaries.
- I would want to watch or participate (mfm - meaning both me an the other guy giving her attention - I am not bi). Not sure if I would ever let it happen with me not there. I am guessing not. But since none of this has ever happened and probably never will, I can't be sure
- Communication would be key to make sure we always knew how the other felt.
- If I felt or she felt any deeper feelings were starting to take root, then there would be no more encounters with that person. She would have to assure me that she would speak up, if she started to feel that way. Again good communication.
- Each encounter and person would have to be approved by both of us. Because it is something we are doing for each other. Not something to be hidden and done without both of us wanting it each time.
- It wouldn't be something we do all the time, but something we do from time to time to keep the new erotic experiences flowing
- Either one of us could say we are done with this type of experience at any time and for any reason or no reason and it just stops - no questions asked.
If all those things were agreed to, I would not only agree to try it, but I would want to have her try it. Not going to happen though, since that is just my fantasy, not hers.
I don't know if anyone has noticed, but several men have said yes to this question, but I see mostly no to the same question asked in the "ask the girls" section. What does that indicate - do you think? Men can separate sex from love better than women? Or are there more men who don't get jealous compared to women? Or does my wife's explanation fit best - all men are just pervs - lol.
I always answer, you wouldn't want it any other way. Of course we are pervs, that is why guys always chase girls. And you seem to enjoy it or you wouldn't have let yourself get caught.
I would agree with just about everything you have said. Of course Robb never had to encourage me in the slightest.
Topic Talking about sex with friends
04 Aug 2015 22:35
I doubt that Robb would tell about our sex life. However I would not care if he did. Most of our friends have either seen us perform or joined in the performance.
Topic Taking a Cock in your mouth
04 Aug 2015 22:14
Usually it's not a cock being inserted into my mouth.... it's my mouth devouring a cock! There is a difference...
You hit it right on the head. Sorry guys wrong term.
Topic Sucking cock daily
04 Aug 2015 22:09
Hard to have an accurate count. There is the sucking when we are both home. Most of the time that would equal twice a day.
Then when I am out and about you can add some number to that amount
Topic being shared
04 Aug 2015 10:47
I will tell my boyfriend that we should do that too. Makes me so wet to be his PAID whore. He has shared me before but for money it would be so hot.
Not everyone ever gets a chance for the thrill of being a paid Whore. I think it is a special experience.
Topic Going topless in Canada it's Legal, but would you?
01 Aug 2015 10:49
I have posed nude lots of times some professionally and some for fun.
I see nothing wrong for a woman being topless in the appropriate places.
Especially if your breasts are young and high and beautiful.
On the other hand not every woman is blessed with beautiful breasts, just like faces, butts and legs.
As age, gravity and time take control of our bodies maybe we need to be more selective when we are topless in public.
Topic Body Painting
31 Jul 2015 13:03
Funny this subject has come up. I have been invited to a three day party starting tonight and one night is a body painting night.
I have been nude at lot of parties, but never been painted. It seems Erotic and Exciting.
Topic Would you let your hubby or bf have sex with another girl if he demands or asks?
31 Jul 2015 12:04
If either the guy or the gal in the relationship has that itch, it is going to happen. Whether you know about it or not.
If our answer to the request is No or Hell No or your things will be burned. Where does that leave you? Remember it is only sex.
Is it better to know and understand or is it better to be left in the dark?
I choose to be enlighten. But for those of you who do not want to know I guess you have your reasons.
Almost all men will have sex with a woman outside of their primary relationship and many woman too.
We have and we have been married along time and raised two fine you woman together.
This is an equal opportunity concept in our home.