Forum posts made by 1zratedgal

Topic I masturbate - and apparently that hurts my husband
Posted 24 Mar 2015 13:36

Growing older has it's share of problems. This one, not withstanding...

Seriously, I can see this and have seen it happen to many!
So many guys want a Hot wife who loves sex! So you were the woman of his dreams and he made the bed and you laid in it!
Now, he has to deal with issues of his inadequacy and lack of sexual abilities.
In some ways, I may be wrong in saying this but if he had a therapist before you got married, he was already questionable with regards to emotional stability.

So he is being child like and taking out his frustrations on you being the woman he wanted!
He is the one that needs to come to terms with his limitations and not put them on you.
If he was realistic, he could share in the intimacy with you, (If you were willing), and maybe you two could ignite something to overcome his lower libido!
A real man would be willing to help a wife get off and enjoy sex, even when he is not able to perform. That is intimacy!

It now depends on how much you are willing to work with him and how much he is willing to do to keep your relationship going!
Marriage is not 50/50! It is often more of a give than receive and most guys have a hard time realizing this, let alone doing it.

I hope things work out for you two and that there is a mutual resolution that can give you both the support, love and intimacy you once shared!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Is it a big deal being a guy's 1st?
Posted 24 Mar 2015 13:25

It depends on too many details...

For us gals, we take it that guys would rather pride themselves as being our first instead of which gal was their first.
But some years ago, as my Hubby pointed out, things changed when MILFS became popular and us older gals became many guys first.
I like the thought of being remembered as someone's first love but hopefully as Nympholes pointed out, I gave the guy a great start!

I believe that everyone will remember their first lover no matter if it was a good or bad experience!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted 24 Mar 2015 12:47

She is beyond sexy as her mind and body are Wickedly Sensual and makes your shudder!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic being watched
Posted 24 Mar 2015 10:51

Some of the best experiences have CUM from being in the same room with others.
Watching each other and driving each other on from the sounds and action is so HOT!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Are your nipples sensitive?
Posted 24 Mar 2015 10:36

Oh GOD YESS!!!!
Mine are BEYOND Sensitive!
I can't got without having them played with, sucked nibbled. pinched, twisted or brushed!
Too many times I have been caught touching them myself during the day while NOT having sex!

Like others have stated, they are my triggers or magic buttons!
And when a guy or gal cums on them! OH MY GOD!!!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic leaked pics/vids
Posted 05 Mar 2015 14:09

Yes.

And it was a major problem for our whole family!
Nearly ruined us and we had to relocate.

So now we are much more careful and selective on what we share or post.

Kisses

Steph

Topic Should I have asked this question earlier?
Posted 05 Mar 2015 11:26

I understand your situation and your compassion to continue to donate blood. It is a very vital item that is needed to save lives.

Being in the situation of sexually active can have it's drawbacks but there is also a grey area to how sexually involved this man has been with others.
My Husband is straight but in the eyes of some people, he would be considered bi since he will suck a cock before helping it slide into me.

The point I'm trying to make is that if the guy you met or will meet up with has not gone beyond that, I doubt you have to worry. But then again, it is up to the Blood Bank's discretion on how sexually active they will allow you.

Don't fret about it too much!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic matching bra and panties
Posted 28 Feb 2015 04:20

Nope. Rarely.
Because I don't usually wear panties but sometimes a thong or g-string when the need is there...
But i almost always have to wear a bra with these boobs! Lol!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Do you ask your lover to perform cunnilingus?
Posted 04 Feb 2015 00:01

The only thing I have to ask Hubby is to...STOP!!!

Heh! Heh! Heh! He'll eat me raw and wear me out eating and licking me to sweet blissful torture!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic When breasts collide
Posted 14 Jan 2015 09:03



I didn't say Frozen Margarita. That would be ridiculous!!

You Gals are too funny!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic A question for bisexual guys and gals
Posted 27 Dec 2014 12:24

Being a BI woman has it's advantages because we don't have to worry about this.
I mean, unless we are out on the prowl for specific desires, we can attract either or both sexes and still have a great time!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic your boobs
Posted 17 Dec 2014 23:27

Hubby and any of our playmates!
Heck yes! It was painful and they helped relieve the pressure!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 05 Nov 2014 12:47

Nice profile Pic Angiegirl!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic If you were pregnant/just had a baby, would you let your man suck milk from your boobs?
Posted 29 Oct 2014 13:37

It's been fun to watch this thread and read through the replies!

I had 4-kids and began producing more milk each time. It was often a relief to express it and also relieve the painful pressure. As many already know my answer, YES! I have and did share it with Hubby and many others as it made me more relaxed and feel good relieving the pressure and weight. It was not just Hubby and other guys but many gals also were curious and enjoyed it in not just suckling but sex play as well!

My large boobs were alread big but became HUGE in no time and the firmness as well as the skin tone was amazing! Of course the sex was incredible as well i highly recommended that any nursing woman open their mind to try it and allow themselves and the incredible experience of sharing and enjoying a sexual experience while lactating!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Porn question
Posted 18 Oct 2014 15:09

It's a well known fact that they would edit certain scenes in a loop to extend the duration of the sex. It could be subtle or very noticeable depending on the way the scene was filmed and the skill of the editor. In the older days when porn was shot on film, it was tougher to do since they would have to copy the scenes they would want to loop instead of modern digital methods that allow you to click and copy by computer.

With regards to amount of cum, there was a lot of drugs and herbal remedies used in the earlier days and probably still are. A lot of fitness body builder supplements are out nowdays that are said to produce an increase in semen output. Nowdays, there are a lot more healthy natural food choices including increasing the amount of water and simple base proteins consumed are said to help increase the amount of cum produced.

Also, texture, consistency and taste as well of smell are affected by what a guy consumes. I know for a fact that more fruits, less coffee will give a sweeter taste, smell and consistency.

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Ladies how do you feel about a man's lower extremities being pierced?
Posted 10 Oct 2014 16:30

Nope! Not exciting to me...

Topic what colour bra are u girls wearing?
Posted 10 Oct 2014 16:29

If you can call it a bra...it's black but without any cups...

Topic Does cheating turn you on?
Posted 29 Sep 2014 21:20

Honestly, YES! The thought of it, or the stories involving it does.

But would I or have I ever? NO!!!

Hubby and I have a stronger relationship and honesty about sex with others that takes cheating out of the picture.
We tell each other about it and we get off on each others adventures with others.
So why do I need to cheat?

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Girls, your excuse when you don't want to have sex with him/her?
Posted 29 Sep 2014 21:16

It's Rare! I'm with Nympholes!

But I don't need an excuse!
I either need to rest up for a wild time later, (After all, I am a bit older! LOL!), or I am not feeling well.

Plain and simple! Why make a big ordeal out of something simple?
Lying will only make it worse!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Girls, do you stop at one orgasm or go for more?
Posted 25 Sep 2014 23:38

As much as my lover can give me!
And then, hopefully I can get them going again if it was good!

Otherwise, as many as I can get or need!

I Have to admit, that there have been times when I was fucked silly by the guy or gal and I was done but they kept going and using me for their pleasures! I didn't mind at all!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic masturbation
Posted 10 Sep 2014 16:31

Minimum of 3-times a day on the average.

Morning wake up, (Usually as a wake up or in the shower and Actual Sex Usually follows),

Naughty thoughts provoke more arousal mid day, (More Sex could proceed or follow),

And before drifting off to sleep, (again more sex could have proceeded or follows).

In any case, this would be the bare minimum for me!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Girls, what color panties are you wearing today?
Posted 06 Sep 2014 09:22

Cum On!
I never wear any!
Unless it's for a special occassion!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Any embarrassing erection moments in your life?
Posted 23 Aug 2014 14:00

I've never had one myself! LOL!

But I have had to take care of many over the years for the guys who did have them!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Girls, do you flirt with other girls?
Posted 23 Aug 2014 13:57

Absolutely!

And with both sexes! But more so with women. Especially those with guys or are giving off the vibe that they are absolutely Straight! Why? Because when they grab onto their guys tightly and are the jealous type, I love to take the chance that they might be coerced into a threesome and open the door for their BI side to cum out!

I know it's usually a big turn on for the guys to see their girl with another woman but for me to turn them on and add to the intensity of their fucking, makes it all the more worthwhile for me!

Now if it is just a gal by herself or with a group of gals together, I find it easier when they are younger and in a group. They tend to be more daring than by themselves. But when they are by themselves and show interest or a certain sort of uneasiness, I usually pick up on their BI curiosity and we at least start up a casual conversation which can lead to more fun and exploration!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Found some new toys...
Posted 10 Aug 2014 11:38

Hubby and I were browsing one day and came across a company that is selling some interesting new toys as part of a modular system.
We ordered a few and I have to say, this company is attempting to modernize but pleasurize the adult toy world.
And! They look like works of art!

https://www.touchofmodern.com/sales/rends-a8f57be8-adec-41cb-8529-67a0d4681699

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Do you consider yourself to be slutty?
Posted 08 Aug 2014 13:19

Overall? No.
But I do know when I can turn it on and act that way to.bring attention or arouse my lover more...
I have some friends who are all the time but that is their choice and they dont really care what the rest of the world thinks of them.

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Threesome FFF
Posted 02 Aug 2014 19:38

Assuming your interest also means you are comfortable with the orientation of all those involved, then you just have to convince yourself to let any pre conceived notions of what will happen and your nervousness go out the window, allow yourself to enjoy a new and exciting sexual encounter that may or may not ever happen again.

In other words, GO FOR IT and allow yourself to enjoy whatever it brings or CUMS!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Do you prefer to wax or shave your pussy or have it nicely trimmed.
Posted 25 Jun 2014 18:43

I enjoy the shaving experience with lovers!
It's like foreplay for us to shave each other and enjoy the experience afterwards!
We also have fun shaping and trimming designs when we let the hair grow out...

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Do you ladies really enjoy being ejaculated on
Posted 25 Jun 2014 18:41

Not on my face!

But LOVE IT on my Boobs!!!
And Lots of it too!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Would you like a 3some with the 2 members Above You.....Yes or No?
Posted 10 Jun 2014 22:40

Oh HELL YES!!!

I think we would all enjoy it!

Kisses!

Steph