Topic About being horny
24 Dec 2011 21:20
So are you saying you do it? Or are you asking about how to go about it?
Now from my perspective, you have to realize, I have to get off at least 3-times a day, Morning, Noon and Night! But when I can't get my morning fuck I still have my toys, and imagination ready. And if that's not enough Lush and internet are always handy!
I believe it is a good thing to give it a rest once in a while for brief periods of time.
It helps to relax and let some sensitivity increase since you've probably overstimulated some nerve endings and touch receptors.
Hubby and I will drive each other crazy and do this in preparation for some events or trip, to purposely turn up the desires and intensity.
It will make me crabby and somewhat Bitchy but it also can turn our sex into a rough, fuckfest, which is something to look forward to!
Topic strap-on fuck your man
24 Dec 2011 21:15
Not my Hubby! No way! I may finger him and give him a prostate massage but that is about it.
But I have had a few guys that asked me to do it and it was purely their pleasure.
Topic Newly Single
24 Dec 2011 21:11
Merry Christmas Mike!
First off, I see you are relatively young but very handsome!
So I'm not really sure what the bar scene is in your area, but if you can get away to someplace different, where you ex may not have friends that can report back to her, it would probably be better.
Better yet! If you can find a good Cougar Bar, then I would say your chances are even better!
I know from a few of my girlfriends and my "experiences", that there are many guys who use the recently divorced tactic as a way to get laid.
But, with the sincerity and the honesty that some guys have displayed, some of us fall for that too!
It's a tough game out there! My personal peeve is to not act all sullen and depressed about not having sex for that period of time! But don't go overboard and be a raving sex fiend either! Save that for when you get the girl!
If you are up front, honest and have a sincerity about you, and are able to engage a woman in a discussion, then you have a possibility. But that's me.
I much rather be stimulated by a guy that isn't all about lines or games but honest good conversation and then let it roll towards sex.
If the person you are chatting with is all about a good honest conversation, then you can also be honest of your desires and sexual needs.
I wouldn't doubt if you have a very horney woman, getting super wet and thinking you'll fuck the hell out of her! Which is something she probably wants anyway!
Topic Would you gals do this for your guy???
24 Dec 2011 19:25
I posted about this in the guys section but had to ask you ladies.
Would you even do this for your guy???
After all we do to make our kittys clean and fresh for them???
Why do we need to be like something from the kitchen???
Topic Cum On Guys! Really now? Bacon Flavored Lube???
24 Dec 2011 19:24
And you boys are after us to make our kitties clean and sweet for you!
Then you pull this kid of joke???
Are guys really into this sort of thing???
24 Dec 2011 11:31
I have to agree with LittleBambi. I know when I was younger, all my friends would be extra frisky due to the emotions of seeing the couple all dressed up and in love! It's a fantasy that is happening before their eyes and a lot of women get caught up in it! It's something a lot of girls through the years have done. Even in this day and age, many women would hate to admit they had the fantasy when they were little girls. But now it's something they long for quietly inside.
I believe it is something that is like the modern "Harlequin" Romance that gets them all wet.
Whenever Hubby and I attended other weddings, I know I got aroused just because of the glam and glitz of the event and even though we were married, we'd still have a wild time afterwards.
When my oldest two kids got married, there were many "hook-ups" amongst people who would never be caught talking to each other! Some were one night stands and a few others actually began relationships.
With my other daughter getting married in the coming summer, I expect no less to happen again.
What MMonroe stated is probably true in many cases as well.
Think of the fact that you will be dressed up and they may see you in a different light and you may be someone new or different from the norm that they see all the time.
Plus! There is sometimes a hidden agenda where they may find a great fuck, but someone that may already be accepted by their family!
Topic Do you enjoy naughty chat?
23 Dec 2011 17:03
I live for naughty chats! It really is fun when you can have a good conversation with someone and not be talking sexually, and things gradually build from there!
The key to a good sexual conversation for me is that a good conversationalist will be able to flow as well in written form. You don't have to be super quick witted but it does help if the person in the chat or conversation are on the same pace and wavelength of the tension and anticipation build up.
Sometimes, a certain comment or series of inuendos can turn the direction or pace suddenly, but that is okay. It sometimes breaks up the pace and can add to the urgency of desire and tension!
It also helps to have a smooth flowing chat without too long a breaks in between. What I mean by that is that you and the person you are chatting with, need to give your full attention to eachother to keep the energy and momentum going. If there are long breaks between replies, it can get tedious or drawn out and the energy could be lost.
Of course, there could be a problem typing one or no handed if the chat is going well!!! LOL!
Topic Lingerie shopping
23 Dec 2011 15:51
The fact that you are loud and trying to be discrete is a turnon for many guys and gals too!
I've done the same thing with my Hubby and I can be very vocal too. It was hot that he took a set of frilly panties, (which I never wear), and stuffed them in my mouth while we fucked.
Very wicked and fun!
Topic New year resolutions
23 Dec 2011 12:34
No resolutions! I never keep them!
I just want to make changes in my life for the better and stick to them without the B.S. New Years Resolution garbage that never works!
More self discipline on my part will make anything I want change, will change.
Topic Drunken Sex
23 Dec 2011 12:28
Loislane said it best!
I don't drink to excess that much.
When I do, I usually go to sleep.
But when I hit the right combination and amount, I am more likely to be more amourous, slightly more aggressive and a little wilder to try things...
Thank God for Holiday Parties!
23 Dec 2011 10:19
Depends on how severe or serious of a bump!
If it were just a slight bump that was an accident, then I doubt you would be hurting as you state.
But even if it were an accident and you accidentally ran into someone who was moving their arm at a fast rate, it depends on the situation.
You need to state more details to get a reasonable answer Zoe.
Topic The Sybian
23 Dec 2011 09:28
I first got introduced to one at a "girls party" many years ago.
It was strange, funny and almost ridiculous at that time! But after getting on it and trying it with serious friends at the controls, it is pure WOW!!!
Several refinements and smaller versions have been developed over the years and now I am really amazed how great they still are. But it is not for everyone! Some women cannot get into the thought of riding a man made item and get a satisfying climax with something so mechanical and somewhat noisy. IMO, these women are holding themselves back.
They are great and unique but they are not the "replacement" for men that some people feel they are . They are great for getting off on as quickly or or as long as you want it to be. It is great for couples or women who like to play together.
We still have Sybian parties with gals and couples and it can get out of hand with the wrong person at the controls. But the right person and setting can really bring you to a mind blowing, body thrashing, sweaty, screaming climax!
If you can justify your pleasures, you can justify the cost of a unit!
Otherwise, look in the swingers / lifestyle adds for Sybian parties to try one out!
Topic Sheer Underwear
23 Dec 2011 08:42
I have many sheer lingerie but hardly any sheer panties since I never wear any.
Topic What Are You Wearing?
22 Dec 2011 16:49
A loose fitted white blouse, and nice warm blazer with a short ruffled black skirt and nothing on underneath!
Topic The "L" word
22 Dec 2011 10:31
There are so many ways that the words, "I LOVE YOU", can be used and expressed.
Growing up, my family wasn't very vocal about it but we did say it.
It has come to be more frequently used as we have grown.
I use it with my family and even my friends, even though the meaning behind it is slightly different depending on the person it is being said to.
My Hubby's family was never open and siad it so it was a culture shock for him to hear me say it so much. But he adapted and began saying it to our kids and they in turn taught him how easy it was to mean it. Now he even says it to his own parents and they reciprocate as well!
Topic Ladies, would you masturbate in front of...?
21 Dec 2011 17:58
I'm surprised I haven't answered this thread!
YES!!! To all Three!
It is arousing and foreplay for Hubby and I or any of my lovers and a I to masturbate in front of each other.
It is fun to do it as temptation for someone new!
And it goes back to the first one when I do it in front of another woman!
All make me feel good, Hot and Sexy!
Topic Lesbians kissing pictures please
21 Dec 2011 16:49
Now THAT looks like part of a really HOT series!
Topic girls, which one is better, circumcised or noncircumcised?
21 Dec 2011 16:35
I LOVE the one with the skill and endurance that can keep me happy and going as long as I want!!!
Uncut or cut doesn't matter!
Just like size!
It's how he fucking uses it that makes all the difference in the world!
Topic How to get your girlfriend to do anal
21 Dec 2011 14:35
After taking a look at your profile, I am assuming you are a typical Irish guy.
Trying to be manly and somewhat aggressive and cocksure of yourself.
But if you really want her to take your cock in her bum, you need to make it pleasurable for the two of you!
Just fuck the crack of her bum after massaging her all over with warming oils
Tease her bumhole gently over many sexual interludes but not constantly, just on occassion.
Work a finger into her gradually, (with lots of lube!), and talk to her in whispers while doing it and tell her how sexy and hot she is for doing it.
Just be ultra patient and only very little steps at a time!
You may find that she will start to accept the act but let it be on her terms!
You might be only able to get just part of your cockhead in her and have to stop! Just follow her lead and accept it! If she relaxes and lets you go further, take it very slowly! Very! VERY!!! SLOWLY!!!!
If it never happens again, then either you have to accept it or move onto another girlfriend!
But in either case, anal sex is not a deal breaker if you really love a person!
Topic hygiene down under
21 Dec 2011 14:18
I totally agree with MMonroe.
It could be physiology and a situation from her diet and health habits.
I like nothing more than a morning fuck in the shower and it is sexy when someone goes down on me there!
Topic Does it continue in the same way it starts?
21 Dec 2011 13:36
I am a woman of many experiences so I can tell you that you are not unique or alone in this aspect.
I am not of the desire to have it rough everytime and there are occassions where I do enjoy a little bit of coersion or some forceful and slghtly rougher play.
But I also know the power of a soft and subtle tempation and tease that cause me to unleash a primal and wild desire to fuck and get fucked hard!
So enjoy what you like but also be open to other fun as well!
Topic Merry Xmas everyone!
21 Dec 2011 13:23
Thank you Nicola!
and thanks for keeping a fun and respectable place to cum to!
The joke was appropriate for the season!